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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Cheating category)

Cheating: Help and advice

I want to say no nicely, and I want discretion....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - Hi I have a married male friend who recently asked me to have an affair with him, I too am married and love my husband dearly and would never cheat on him. How can I let this man know that as much as I like him I do not like him in that way and not ...

Sex has waned in our relationship and I'm thinking of looking elsewhere. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my guy for 5 years! I have a high sex drive and he knew this when we first started dating. This was one of the reasons we kept seeing each other as he thought he'd died and gone to heaven...sex on tap! But as the years have gone on ...

He's in a relationship, he flirts with me and another girl at work! What is going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - I'm in love with my co-worker who is twice my age; he's smart, sexy, funny and we have a lot in common. Problem is he's involved in a relationship, he also seems to favour one of the other girls at work a bit more than me. I'm just so terribly ...

Did it happen or not? How do I explain this one to my gf?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Hi. Bear with me I feel you need to know all the details to make a judgement. 5 weeks into my relationship I went out to a club/pub without my girlfriend, and this girl with a bf approached me to initiate conversation, I bluntly told her to f***...

This is just a rant but I really need your thoughts and suggestions...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - this is just a rant, but suggestions and thoughts are appreciated. My gf has trouble letting go of her ex, no matter how nasty he is to us and our friends. She dosent see that he's pushing my friend base away from her....they dont want to speak to...

Girlfriend flirts online -can I still trust her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

31 July 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up for 10 days then got back together. A few months later, I found messages from a sexual conversation she was having with a guy online. When I confronted her, she said she was just talking trash and that it happened while ...

Should I fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - should i fake an affair to teach my cheating husband a lesson? my husband for last years has been constantly cheating on me. i have caught me several times and everytime he begs for my forgiveness telling me that he has really changed this time. i ...

What can I do to believe and trust him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok I am lost and in a daze right now. I found out my husband has been cheating on me for the past year. The one girl had a baby recently and said its my husbands but its possible its someone elses. I also found out he was seeing her and talking on ...

Reunited with a lost love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - A lover from my past has been looking for me. After 10 years plus he finally finds me. We do communicate through email only. He reminisces about the past and went through a lot to get to me. When I moved away we were on good terms. Just lost ...

Guilt about cheating...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Can a relationship survive one partner's guilt over being unfaithful, and keeping it a secret? Will our relationship be able to grow and survive if I don't tell my partner that I cheated on her and vow to myself to keep it a secret forever and never ...

Should I even stay with him through all of this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 and a half years, and I found out he cheated on me. I asked him plenty of times if he had cheated, or if he ever would; and he just kept denying. Finally a couple days ago I confronted him with actual proof, ...

Who gave me this STD? Was it my cheating ex or my 1st love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I was with this guy for little over a yr. We met in dec and by the end of Feb we were having sex. He cheated on me with his ex in apr. She stated she was pregnant and he didnt deny it. I was hurt so i left. He kept calling and sending me ...

Do I tell him that I love him? Or do I hide it seen as he has a girlfriend and is going to a different college?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I recently connected with a guy. We talk everyday and all night. I knew he had a girl friend and i respected that. I even kept my distance. The other day he insisted that we meet up before we both leave for college so i did. It was amazing. We went ...

My boyfriend cheated now I don't know what to do ? Please help..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5216 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 10 months and im super in love with him , lately since its summer we barly see each other and weve been fightin so this weekend on fri he went to go eat with this friends and my bestfriend called me ...

I had an affair and I feel I can't escape it

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5212 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - i really need some advice...i was involved in a an affair a couple of months ago with someone close to my husband...i ended it because i knew i was doing wrong..my husband really loves me and honestly i dont know why i did it...well maybe because i ...

Can someone explain this cheater to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Why would a guy cheat before getting engaged, not tell their partner they cheated on them, proceed to get married....and then say that if HE were to find out that his fiance cheated on him before marriage, that he would definitely leave her, and not ...

My Boyfriend is Bi-sexual and has met a "Couple" that he meets regularly for sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I found out that my long term ( 6 years) boyfriend is a sex addict, that he has been frequenting "cruise areas for sex" and "glory holes" I found out he has made "friends" with a couple close to where he lives for "sex" that he met while cruising ...

Husband cheated and staying in the marriage only for the kids

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - My husband cheated on me and he is staying in our marriage because of the kids only and he thinks maybe later his feelings for me will come back. He said his affair is over but they still communicate but says they dont cross the line anymore. Weve ...

Caught wife in internet affair, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - A year ago my wife started acting strange, up all hours on the internet, distant, etc. She started getting angry all the time and twice left me and the kids and went and spent the night in a hotel due to "being mad". One afternoon I was at the hou...

Was what he did with me considered cheating? And how can I get over the feeling of being used only for sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone! Soooo I have a bit of a problem... This summer was a pretty crazy one for me. I lost my virginity to my bestfriend. We didn't start dating or anything, but I didn't expect him to be talking to another girl. Throughout the summer i...

He can't get over the fact that I cheated, even though he's cheated too!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - So I cheated on my bf and I told him...I told because I hate lieing to him..At first he took it like it was okay then later he wrote me a long ass message..Saying that he thought he couldn't take it but he said it was time he let me go...But the ...

What do I do with my flirtatious boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: My boyfriend is a flirt. I'm okay with that cause I can be too, but he's started flirting alot with this one girl in particular. I don't know if they text each other. He has mentioned her to me a few times. The other day I met up with...

How can I make my 'stand up' bf, end his long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I recently began dating a friend of a friend. We met about a month ago, and in the last few weeks have gone out about 6 or 7 times. I know he is in a long distance relationship, though he has only alluded to it, ambivalently, once (the night we met- ...

Do I have the right to ask what he's up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - hi, I have been with my bf three months now, he was my ex, four years ago we had a relationship, it was a very powerful relationship in the positive and the negarive side, we broke up and we kept loving each other in a secret way, now we are back, ...

I'm scared to find out the outcome if I tell him I cheated...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - i've been dating this guy for a little more than 4 months now, but yet i had a boyfriend (long distance) for more than a year at the same time. I told the long distance one that i was seeing another guy and this was the second time i cheated on him. ...

The other women, cheater, extra marital affairs

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I need to know if I should talk to his wife? I had an affair with a man that I knew was married. He has four beautiful kids. We only saw each other while we were in Germany together over a 5 month period. He told me his wife was divorcing him ...

I don't love him, I'm actually starting to hate him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Im 27and I have been with my boyfriend (29 yrs old) for 11 years and we have 7 year old twin boys together .I don't love him anymore . Im actualy starting to hate him .He never made me happy ,never tried and never will .The kids are starting to ...

I love my husband but am falling for someone I met

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - ok so iv been with my husband 6 years married for 2.. i recently went out of town and met someone... i didnt mean for it to be more than a one nightstand but we spent 4 wounderful days together now that im home... i cant stop thinking bout this ...

He used me, how do I get over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - how do i get over a guy a who lied to me saying that once he sleeps with me i would be the only girl he sleeps with cos he dont sleep around, few months later i asked him if he is having sex with someone else he turned away and said no then got up ...

His secret email address is attached to porn site, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4300 days ago

28 July 2010 (?) - I was fiddling around the net and I googled my bf secret email address: I found out he commwnted an erotic pic on an amateur porn website stating how beautiful that woman was and telling her to email him, if she wanted to. I don't even know ...

PLEASE I NEEED ANSWERS AS SOON AS POSSIBLE

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: Hi everyone i'm new here and i have a problem that is occupying my mind all day .. so i go out with a guy who i like he started to tell me that he loves me and all and that he likes me since the first day he saw me in college we a...

Am I wrong for wanting to know??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: Ok so to it keep short...my husband has never really trusted me due to me cheating on him before we got married. We've been married 9yrs now and I have been faithful. Recently he told me that a source of his told him that I have ...

He turns his phone off at night - does this mean he is cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Do you think a guy is cheating if he use to turn his phone off at night during our relationship? He saids it was because he didn't want no one to wake him up while he was sleeping or no one look through his phone, meaning his parents because they ...

I cant trust my sister and my boyfriend to be alone together anymore, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me with my older sister, but then I took him back. He somehow convinced me that it will never happen again and that I should work on my trust. I was really convinced that he would never hurt me again. But, then I found out my ...

Why am I obsessed with hearing stories of my ex cheating on me with other men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5205 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I have broken up with my girlfriend as a result of her infidelity. Of late she has taken to telling me all about how she used to cheat on me and with whom and how-in some cases with exact dates. The stories are crude, chillin, heartbreaking and ...

After his cheating, I forgave him. But why can't I get over these thoughts of mistrust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I feel like ever since I caught my boyfriend flirting with some girl on facebook who happen to be in his class who he was planning on meet up with, I feel like I can't really trust him...but I love him alot...and I forgave him...We moved on from ...

Should I let my ex bf back in my life...or go it alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - I'm in a tough spot. Here's some background... I got with this guy when I was 17, we were together for 6 years, and had two kids together. The relationship was.. rocky, to say the least. It was always him cheating on me constantly, leaving me for ...

My cheating past......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

28 July 2010 (M) - I know most of you will think I'm a dirtbag, but I really am not. I got engaged a little over a month ago to the best woman, who I truly love. I'm having a problem though where I'm feeling some guilt over something I did about a year ago. My ...

Is it right for me to tell everyone?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm extremely confused right now about where I stand! I joined Facebook two years ago, and I know almost 900 people; in other words I've seen them, talked to them or I'm their friend. But, this one girl recently joined. I know her from ...

The New Tough Love

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5208 days ago

27 July 2010 (?) - He was charming, sexy, funny, and all about me. From living in his brother's basement with his dog, I allowed him into my house with my three children. One by one the true colors were mind blowing. Each layer peeled back to show his verbal viole...

Am I Fighting a Loosing Battle??? PLEASE READ!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title. Ok so...Me and my now ex-boyfriend had been dating for a little over a year. He is 22 and i am 20. He is white and i am black(this alone has caused some strain with my family but not enough to break us) We broke up because I t...

Should I break up with him for talking to an old friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5222 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - ok so I have been with my bf for 9 yrs. live together for 6. I have been having a hunch of him talking on his itouch (through facebook) with an old friend. well come to find out I was right they having been talking back and forth for a few months ...

Is he a liar?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5192 days ago

27 July 2010 (?) - OP's own title. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half and he's been living with me at my moms for a year. (I'm 22) Recently we kind of fell in a rut.. the affection/sex was fading.. and it made me start to question thin...

How do I know he's really changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5221 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year. We live together, share a life and goals, and he has right out told me that he is in this for "the long haul". During the first 3 or 4 months of our relationship, he continued to "play the field" - ...

Girlfriend cheated, said she does not know why she did it, says he loves me now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - *OP's suggested title* About 6 months ago my girlfriend cheated on my with someone from her job. I found out by seeing the two of them together two days after we had a big argument. she denied it for about 6 weeks then finally admitted she slept wi...

Should I marry someone who betrayed me like this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5219 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me 1 time. We've been dating for nearly 5 years, and we recently got engaged. I found out that a year ago he slept with this girl, after major flirting went on between them for a few months (i.e., ...

How do I get through to an uncaring boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my boy almost 3 years now. In the beginning everything was amazing, i fell deeply in love with him and we couldn't take our hands off each other. At the time we both felt like we had truly found the one. After probably 18 mont...

I'm going to lose her if I don't stop being so needy and clingy...has anyone out there done that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - Guys, what can one do to become less needy and clingy? if you read my previous question you will see my issue, were back together, I want to change back to the person i was a few years back. I have to change now or i will lose my girlfriend who i do ...

When I see her I get angry, when she's not around I miss her a lot. she makes marilyn monroe look like a virgin

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5222 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - (I have a question. It's a bit long so please bare with I.) I started going out with this girl in Jan 2008. I had known her for some time before then. Infact she had just been dumped her boyfriend. I believed in her and completely ...

My boyfriend slept with his brother's wife before he met me?? Please help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5217 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so before my boyfriend and I started dating, he slept with his brothers wife supposedly just once. We started dating maybe about 5 months after this happened and he told me about 7 months into our relationship out of guilt. At first, I was ...