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writes:ok so I have been with my bf for 9 yrs. live together for 6. I have been having a hunch of him talking on his itouch (through facebook) with an old friend. well come to find out I was right they having been talking back and forth for a few months and also talked on the phone. The problem I am having with this it is in the middle of the night when he should be sleeping and it is a female. I have confroted him and he says that there is nothing between them(she lives in another state) they are just old friends and he knows what he did is wrong. Should I break it off? Dont know what to do?
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 No, don't break it off just yet. Let's see if he breaks off the contact with his so-called old friend and gets his priorities back in line. If he does, then no harm done and now he knows how you feel about digging up old bones. If he doesn't break it off, then you need to consider what's really going on here. Once you tell him you're uncomfortable with this situation, and he continues to sneak around behind your back (I'd be willing to be she doesn't even know he's involved with anyone, hence the late night call when she was probably drunk) next thing you know she'll be showing up on his(your) doorstep expecting a little week-end romp. Regardless of where she lives, his behavior is questionable. Just don't rush to throw away a 9 year relationship over something that may be nothing.....yet.
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