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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I'm worred that my girlfriend is going to dump me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3306 days ago

30 November 2015 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for a few months now and it has been great until recently when we spent a whole week together aboard in Spain. At the start it was all lovey dovey but then towards the end she got cold, admittedly I made small ...

I can tell he's trying to change but I don't think it's enough anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3309 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I apologise in advance for this being a long question, but as I need answers/advice from people outside of the situation, I have to fully explain everything. So, basically, I'm 19 years old, and was dating a boy, lets name him Jordan, for over...

We split 8 years ago. I need to find some happiness. But how? I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, it's a long story but will try to make it brief! I was with B the father of my 2 children 10 years.He was absolutely the love of my life and I was totally in love however I am certain it wasn't the same for him. B cheated on me througho...

I know I need to end with my child's father first but do you think my ex is right to be holding back contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I have been in what does not feel like a relationship since 1999. Looking back he was great dad to by older kids and the one we have but he did not move things on with me. We never lived together, he never bought me presents or remembered my ...

We have a big decision ahead of us and he's not willing to discuss it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3310 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I'm in medical school and my boyfriend and I (I'm 25, he's 24, dating for 2+ years) have a process we are going through next year called "the match". We each basically have to match to a city and specialty and it involves this complicated algorithm. ...

How can I find that determination to just walk away?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3300 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - How do I find the determination to leave my current boyfriend? I've been putting a lot of thought into this relationship and I don't see a future with the person my boyfriend is. He is in his 30's, still lives at home with his parents, lacks a ...

It's as if I'm helpless to stop these feelings of anger and hurt, a year on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - A year ago I was cut off and wronged by a couple of people I thought were my friends. Two of us were both seeing the same guy - unknown to each other - but I obviously was being used by him and got in the way of the other girl and was cut off ...

I broke "no contact" after 6 months with my ex-girlfriend, and I'm very confused by her response!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

28 November 2015 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for almost a year, we had some really great times together and as many relationships do, some trying times as well. The last month of the relationship was really odd after she got back from out of town visiting family. We ...

Do troubled on again and off again relationships last? Or is she just kidding herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3313 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My friend is in a very 'on-off' relationship with her boyfriend. One minute they are best of friends having weekends away together and the next minute they are falling out and he is abusive to her and doesn't speak to her for days - and then the...

I lashed out at him. He says we are done. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I lashed out to my boyfriend for the 3rd time after a party again and now we are broken up. I lashed at him about his daughter but Ive been very stressed with him for the past couple of weeks. He just has not been nice to me and I was going to...

I want her in my life, but I don't understand some of her reactions. What's the best way forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3314 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - I started speaking to a beautiful and charming woman in August and we met up, spoke a lot on WhatsApp and had a great connection. She was everything I wanted in a woman and we told each other that we loved each other. It was too soon but I think...

How do we start over again in order to have a more harmonius relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf have been together for almost a year ..recently we have been fighting a lot and most of the time it's because of me..otherwise we just happen to get into some misunderstandings. I love him a lot and after several failed...

Why do I delay leaving him? How do I gather the courage to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3314 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 5 years constantly belittles me, insults me, talks about how other girls look good and how I look v bad in front of them and how old I look, how I don't deserve him... But still comes to me for money, it's been months since w...

Should I take my own advice? Or let down the wall around my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - The woman I've been seeing, for over four months, I've, been treating her really good, but the problem is I've been very romantic, but emotional, a good emotional, telling her all about my past, not holding nothing back, but I find my self not, ...

Fear of Telling Him I Want A Breakup

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3316 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I want to break up with him but I am so afraid to talk to him over a phone call or face to face. Yet I don't want to be the arsehole who breaks up with the other through a text. How can I overcome my fears? ...

My father dying and best friend moving away has me questioning what I should be doing for my future! Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hi there, I am in a bit of turmoil right now. I am 35 and live with a lovely guy, however we have no passion it has died, we have been together 3 years and I do love him but I can't help but think what else is out there. My father who I...

Why haven't I dumped him sooner? Why have I been so stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3316 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. The relationship has been really good but has definitely not been perfect; he has lied to me a lot. He first lied about being in touch with his ex, and carried on being in touch with her even after us ...

LDR. Did he think, since I am so far away, that he could just do his thing and get away with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hello. Please help! I have been seeing a guy for nearly a year. LDR. Seeing each other regularly though. He lied to me at the beginning of our relationship about a relationship he had with someone who tried to break us up. He said they never we...

I've come to the conclusion I'm just not interested in my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

22 November 2015 (F) - I want to break up with my two-month-old boyfriend because I realised I do not like him the way I thought I did. He was diagnosed TB a week ago and was checked into the hospital. I didn't want to visit him at all not because I was afraid I'd catch ...

What could have happened to this great guy I corresponded with and did meet, once?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3292 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - A man I am extremely interested in is supposedly in the counter intelligence community in the Middle East. It is hard to determine if this is so as these individuals can never speak very much about their work and you can only operate on blind fa...

She revealed the truth and then we broke up. How can I start living again despite my trust issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3317 days ago

21 November 2015 (M) - Before I say anything else I must mention that I come from a part of the world where sex before marriage is considered taboo. I have had only 1 gf my entire life and I was a virgin when we met. We were together for 9 months and we had never eng...

My ex: ''if only he had not signed up'' Why have his words hurt me so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3318 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - Ikay so my ex and i dated when we were 15 up until the day before i turned 18. We broke up because he wanted to have his freedoms, live his life, yada yada. Well its been over a year since he and i broke up. And lately hes on my mind all the time. I ...

I want out, but how and when should I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

21 November 2015 (F) - I am a woman in my mid twenties. I have been with a guy for about 3 years. We are engaged. We moved in together way way too fast. Once I moved in I eventually found out that he had a drinking problem. He would black out and yell/throw thing...

Why did my ex's confession of love hurt so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3316 days ago

20 November 2015 (F) - Okay so my ex and i dated when we were 15 up until the day before i turned 18. We broke up because he wanted to have his freedoms, live his life, yada yada. Well its been over a year since he and i broke up. And lately hes on my mind all the time. I ...

Worried I'll lose him. Why did he wait to tell me about her pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - am 21years old i met this guy when i was still at primary school due to our relationship my mother got the romours about our relationship and my mum vacant to another area far from where we were living , IT WAS SO DIFFICULT TO COMMUNICATE WITH HIM ...

She I forgive her and resume our relationship, which is what she wants?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3318 days ago

19 November 2015 (M) - So I have a issue and I need some help from people with experience. My girlfriend and I of 5 years split up for a few months and she ended up sleeping with someone else during this time. Now she wants to get back together but idk how to handle t...

Will I ever be able to trust again? His cheating has so affected me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - I was in a relationship one and a half year ago. The reason for the break up was the guy was cheating on me with another girl. I was devastated because I really loved him. Now I have moved on completely. I dont care if he exists or whatever...

How does one nicely tell a opposite gender friend you don't want to hang out anymore? Or is there no way to do so?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

19 November 2015 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I need some help here regarding a female Friend who has been asking my Boyfriend out. My Boyfriend and I discuss about boundaries with opposite gender friends and we both agree hanging out one on one with the opposite gender ...

How would you have handled ending an internet friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - So...I'm dealing with some friendship issues... Is it wrong to back out of a newly-made friendship if you no longer feel chemistry with that person? This will be long because it's sort of a complicated situation. Basically, I make ...

Why is my ex, who said we should go NC, reading my online journal entries? Does that mean anything?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 3302 days ago

18 November 2015 (M) - I've been recently dumped, like, this week, by my girlfriend of nearly 2 years. She gave some crappy reasons, and I think it's more on the factors of my overreacting to her hobby time. At any rate, she said as she was breaking up with me, that we...

How can I convince him to not break up with me, without me becoming a doormat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

18 November 2015 (F) - Today I had a serious talk with my boyfriend of two years. He wants to break up. I don't. He's not sure himself. I want to try to make this work, win him over. The situation is a little bit weird. Our relationship was nothing short of a fairy...

My ex is behaving weird and watching me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3321 days ago

17 November 2015 (F) - We broke up april. I havent spoken to him since because he strung me along during exam season and asked for a break, when it seems he just wanted me to do the dirty work. I eventually dumped him after waiting for him and he accepted without fuss ...

Clearly three women in succssion have not felt "that way" about me. What am I doing wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

15 November 2015 (M) - Hello all. I am a 33 year old guy with a 10 year old daughter. Her mother and I split up nine years ago but I have been ever present in my daughters life. I see her as often as I can and I pay my way with every salary. Everything is great but for ...

Why does my ex want to be friends with me and still want me in his life? He treated me very badly.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

15 November 2015 (F) - My ex use to manipulate me a lot! I felt used, was treated badly and finally walked away after a terrible breakdown from the relationship. My ex tried to reach out to me many times and I ignored him. we didn't talk for 3 years. But we made up t...

I'll be 40 in 2 years and have nothing to show for it! I'm unhappy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

14 November 2015 (F) - A friend of mine (former classmate) sent me an invitation for the opening of her exhibition. I was happy for her and at the same time felt so small. Ever since we graduated (I’m much older than her) I haven’t done anything worth mentioni...

I want to move on from my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3311 days ago

13 November 2015 (F) - Ive been googling about relationship advise on how to get your ex back "signs that your ex wants you back" and stuff. Thats when i came across the No Contact (NC) rule. Ive been on NC with my ex boyfriend since i broke up with him, december, last ...

Impulsive breakup. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of nearly two years just broke up with me. He said he lost himself in this relationship and needed to be alone. When I asked how long he had been wanting to do this he said, "I never wanted to do this. I have just been feeling like I ...

How long should a break last?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - So my problem is that my boyfriend of 6 years ended our relationship last week. I had noticed he'd been acting a bit strange for a few days, distant and things, but didn't really think much of it until he started ignoring me. It went on all day,...

Should I leave him? I'm at my wit's end! Advice is welcome!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - I am desperately unhappy. I have been with my partner for 5 years and we have a 2 year old child. For the first two years everything was great. he has never been very good at anything domestic, ie paying bills or doing DIY, but I just accepted this ...

He barely texts me after 5th time sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3317 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - I was dating with this guy from work almost 6 months and slept with him after a month. He was taking me on a date and everything was perfect until I receive an answer from him to the question how was his night was after 3 months. Saying he was in ...

I think I deserve better than my current girlfriend, but I also think that she deserves better than me breaking her heart a second time. But how long is too long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3327 days ago

12 November 2015 (M) - I figured out what my problem is: I think I deserve better than my current girlfriend, but I also think that she deserves better than me breaking her heart a second time. Long story short, we dated in the summer. Neither of us had access to re...

He cheated. What do I say now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3315 days ago

12 November 2015 (F) - Bombshell dropped on me tonight. This woman I don't know facebooked me and eventually came out to confess she had slept with my boyfriend. I confronted him over the phone and he admitted he 'messed up' once. That he was not feeling good or ...

I want commitment from him. Am I making the right moves to ensure this happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3326 days ago

11 November 2015 (F) - I met with my first love after breaking up over 20 years ago. I had not seen him for 15 yrs. He invited me out and then again a few months later. On both occasions we talked and talked. On the second we talked and talked about what caused t...

Hiding his phone and being uncommunicative. Time to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

10 November 2015 (F) - I started dating this guy and we hit it off pretty well. although, these last two weeks have been rockey with him and I. A two weeks ago I told him that we should take a break he said No there is no point. The week after that I said lets take a ...

Is it wrong to have deal breakers in relationships?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3329 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - My Boyfriend and I have been together for a year. Recently we talked about deal breakers. Both of us agreed cheating is a deal breaker. Then I told him if he ever took drugs at a party it'd be a deal breaker for me. I did not know he used to do ...

Any advice on how to get over a devastating break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3330 days ago

9 November 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me a few weeks ago because he is no longer in love with me and told me he wants to move on and do different things in life. I've been very devastated as I feel the complete opposite and I'm still in love wi...

My ex want to get back with me but the new guy is so nice and I'm torn between 2 worlds!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3330 days ago

8 November 2015 (F) - My Husband and i split 6months ago. (I left him) We have a beautiful 1year old. Ive recently started seeing someone new and he is everything I wanted my ex husband to be. But now my ex wants to talk about gettinf back together. I feel so conflict...

I need my ex off the cell phone bill. How do I get them to accept this transfer? My ex will not speak to me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

7 November 2015 (F) - Ok, so my ex and I were together for almost three years. We combined our cellphone bill a year into the relationship, but we broke up 4 months ago. I've been paying it since he's been out of a job but we're not together anymore. He recently took up...

Would you break up with your boyfriend over taking secret nude photos

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

6 November 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. I always thought we got along great. We have a lot in common. He is always there for me in my time of need. We have been talking about getting married. I needed some pictures off his camera, so...

How am I supposed to react to her offer, to not date my friend, if I will say I still love her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3333 days ago

5 November 2015 (M) - Me and my ex girlfriend broke up a month ago. Things didn't end great, she still wanted to stay in contact with me but after she showed up to my father's dinner drunk, I didn't want no part of her anymore. Apart from the 2 times I have seen her ...