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*anviel
writes:am 21years old i met this guy when i was still at primary school due to our relationship my mother got the romours about our relationship and my mum vacant to another area far from where we were living , IT WAS SO DIFFICULT TO COMMUNICATE WITH HIM Cause the distance to his place was far and i had no phone number.I was admitted to secondary school for four years .after finishing my secondary school i was on my search to find him again cause i really love this guy.I was able to find him on facebook almost our phone call lasted for long reminding ourself about our past.we continued with our relationship for about three month when her ex girlfriend told him that she was eight month pregnant.when he told me about the story at first i was confused disapointed at him but i learned to accept the truth.FOR all that long he had never told me that he had impregnanted his ex until when it was clear that he could not hide it any more.now he is so stranded about the issue. He is still learning for his masters the only days i see him his when he is on a holiday vacation.Am so worried cause i might lose him again.Please i need assistance i really love this guy
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (19 November 2015):
 I know exactly why he hid this pregnancy thing.
You've been with this guy for 3 months. She is 8 months pregnant. He was either completely dense to that fact, or he intentionally left her when she was pregnant.
If he didn't know about it, then I'd leave him because that's baggage you don't need...a pregnant ex and a lifetime of child support and this other woman being in his life.
If he DID know he impregnated her, then he's disgusting, leaving a pregnant girlfriend to go have sex with someone else while she's still carrying his child.
Either way, he didn't use protection, so how badly do you want to be a mom or an STI? You should get away from him because 3 months, how can you love him?? Too soon, and obviously you don't really know who he is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2015): It sounds as if you started sex too early.
You are too young at primary school for sex and he is older than you.
He has a pregnant girlfriend and is still studying.
The problem is that you chased him up..you hunted him down to continue the relationship.
This man already has a wife and you must be more careful in future .
You must find someone new.
If you are over 18 and not pregnant you will meet a new partner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2015): This doesn't make sense.....you met him in primary school?? Your mother moved you when she found out about your relationship? Primary school in my book is under eleven year olds and you say he's doing his masters now- how much older is he? I'm a bit afraid here he may have an unnatural attraction to children......what is the story here with that? And it sounds like he's been cheating either on his ex with u, or u with his ex......none of this sounds on the level
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (19 November 2015):
 Hon, something doesn't add up here.
you were in a relationship with him when you found out his [ex?] was 8 months pregnant??
Okay was he still in a relationship with her? As in cheating on her with you or had he broken up with her and out of the blue she came with the pregnancy story?
some clarification please.
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