A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My Husband and i split 6months ago. (I left him) We have a beautiful 1year old. Ive recently started seeing someone new and he is everything I wanted my ex husband to be. But now my ex wants to talk about gettinf back together. I feel so conflicted because I feel like I owe my daughter a chance to be a family again but I don't want to end up in a life of being ignored and unappreciated again.He was a great father and there was nothing major that happened. No abuse. I just felt miserable all the time and alone as i was literally doing everything. (Working fulltime, looking after our lil girl, keeping the house, paying the bills etc etc. I didnt even receive a card from him on my very first mothers day. And the new guy I'm seeing is so wonderful to me.
View related questions:
my ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Mina_Bhamji  +, writes (9 November 2015):
 Never stay in a relationship for the sake of the kids. That's really unhealthy. When you two end up arguing the child will feed off of your negative energy and it won't be good for the child's development. On top of that, he doesn't make you happy, why be with someone you're not happy with.
Stay with this new guy, he seems like he will treat you good as well as your daughter
|
