A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I started speaking to a beautiful and charming woman in August and we met up, spoke a lot on WhatsApp and had a great connection.She was everything I wanted in a woman and we told each other that we loved each other. It was too soon but I think, because we had such chemistry it just happened. We were saying soulmates, made for each other. It was great, I really do love this woman.However, we began to speak too much and everything became far too intense and we just broke into such a mess. She asked for space so I gave her that, she blocked me off WhatsApp and Facebook. She broke the silence by sending me a love heart but she said that she was drunk.I asked her what is going on but she said she wants to just be friends, I asked her if she trusts me, she said she didn't. She added me back onto Facebook and I said that I missed her and was sorry for the situation. I don't know how to stop being upset.It hurts me so deeply that she said to come back to her and I felt we were maybe going to work out somehow but now she said she doesn't trust me, it hurts me so much. I think she does care about me, but I don't UNDERSTAND her. Can anyone help me figure this out? I constantly worry that she will block me off Facebook again because she's done it a few times. I want her in my life but I don't understand everything that has happened.Please help me.
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reader, DiliChu  +, writes (25 November 2015):
Dear WriterThanks for writing to Dear Cupid.org. I understand what you're going through. Firstly I would advertise you to talk about the issue with her and try and find out why she is acting the way she is - A problem shared is a problem halved. Secondly, you have also mentioned that there are trust issues between you guys as she doesn't trust you. If I was you, I wouldn't rush straight into a relationship and if she doesn't trust you then don't try and force the relationship. I understand that it's difficult trying to understand the behaviour of someone you care about but I personally think that you should give her the benefit of the doubt and try. If this behaviour continues, then I advise you to move on.Thanks for ListeningLove Dili Chu
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