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writes:I started dating this guy and we hit it off pretty well. although, these last two weeks have been rockey with him and I. A two weeks ago I told him that we should take a break he said No there is no point. The week after that I said lets take a break and he said No. The reason why I said I wanted to take a break was only because he was being distant, and I felt as if there was someone else he kept hiding his phone, and not calling me as much. This week him and I hung out and he took me to a hockey game and dinner. It went fine but the following day he was not into the conversation and he was being more distant. Annoyed and sad I called the whole thing off In the text I told him that I wish him the best and that I hope he finds the girl of his dreams. He got upset and said no lets just take a break, reluctantly I agreed. Now, that him and I are on a break I asked him certain questions and he did not answer. Now, I am annoyed once again, and it is starting to get to me honestly, I just want to block his number and never talk to him again. And I told him that if we ever broke up we would never talk again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2015): My advice would be not to call it off like that in future relationships unless it is for sure what you really want.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (10 November 2015):
 Stop trying to cater to him!
Just call him and end it, whether he wants a break or not doesn't matter, if you are DONE being ignored. He sees the "break" as time for him to not figure out how to fix things but legitimate time for him to fully ignore you and live his life like a single person. My guess is he doesn't think he was doing anything wrong.
And OP.... taking a break in a relationship fixes nothing. Either you WORK (with your partner) on the issues, or you break up. Not this wishy washy let's break up till you behave like I want you to behave".
Sorry OP. Call him, break up and block his number.
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reader, Mina_Bhamji  +, writes (10 November 2015):
 When you feel like there is something wrong, more time there is. No point staying in an unhappy relationship, and it's good you called it off. If you feel like the relationship is not solvable then leave it there. But if you feel like it's due to your temporary emotions right now, leave it for a while and message him when you're ready to resolve it.
But if you do feel like it's the end, block his number and get on with life if that'll make you feel better
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