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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Girlfriend broke up with me for the 4th time. I owe her money, do I leave a note with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

31 May 2013 (M) - Even though ive been a man in the relationship and paid for our one year anniversary weekend away as well her birthday very recently, my girlfriend broke up with me for the forth time. Dont get me wrong, she has been very good to me such as littl...

I treated her badly she has a restraining order on me but I can't forget her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Hi I feel like I'm going crazy. I need some serious help. I'm in love with my childhood best friend. I've been in love with her since elementary school. Words can't describe how amazing she is. She is sweet, kind, compassionate, selfless, drop dead ...

I made a mistake and I want her back but I'm not sure how to win her back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4221 days ago

31 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I recently split up, after being together for 7 months. I broke up with her: I was insecure and scared that she didn't love me back. For some reason, I had failed to notice many of the subtle, beautiful things she did for me to ...

I have reached the end of my patience with my boyfriend, but I'm too much of a pushover to let him go. Help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4220 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Okay. Well where do I start? I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 5 months. I'm not going to go majorly into the backstory about how we got together, but before hand I had been in a 9 month relation...

How do I show her that I won't listen to my friend's advice anymore and convince her to give me a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - hi i'm 16 year old boy and I i've been such an idiot..... I liked this girl and when I eventually asked her out she said that she wasn't sure if she liked me. then her mate says to me that she likes someone else and that she doesn't like me. the ...

Am I in love? Should I talk to her about getting back together with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3926 days ago

30 May 2013 (M) - There is this girl that I have feelings for and these are different than what I normally feel. We dated for a while and broke up in December and I never stopped having said feelings. We have been talking every night since summer began for an average ...

Is it reasonable for your fiance to demand that you never speak to any exes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - My fiance and I recently got engaged, mostly due to the fact that I got pregnant. We were having some problems but when we found out, we decided to work on it. It hasn't been easy but things are slowly improving and we're both excited about the ...

How do I get out of this awkward dating thing with this guy I met through a dating website? I'm just not good at saying no or bringing up these things. Help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hey All! So I met this guy through a dating website but Frankly meeting someone through a dating website is not a ideal thing for me and I just did it because my friend forced me to join it. I have quit it now because I don't think it works f...

Is my recent ex dating already?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

28 May 2013 (M) - Dated ex gf for year and half. She broke up with me 5 months ago. A few weeks ago she contacts me and says still in love with me, misses me, and wanted to spend all kinds of time together. It was great because I still loved her. She then says ...

Ex sent a facebook request, is there a hidden agenda or is he trying to make me more miserable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My ex-bf broke up with me a month ago. As soon as dumped me he blocked me in facebook, messager, phone..... He was verbally and emotionally very abusive towards the end of the relationship i.e. for past 6 months. He called me wors...

I'm willing to do whatever it takes to get her back but I don't know where to start! Help?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4217 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - okay , it is been along time now but i'm back ...and i have a question ..i really need help with it because i have no idea what to do . if you hurt your friend how many time do you say i'm sorry and what do you do when she just doesn't want to ...

Why does he keep trying to communicate with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me 3mths ago. I get to find out he had another woman beside me, and when it became public cause he and I works the same place and the lady comes to him and will be in his vehicle. That's when I realize that our ...

Why do I miss my abusive ex boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I have been dealing with a personal and confusing issue with my now ex-boyfriend, and have no idea what to do. We started dating a year ago. It was a very high and low relationship. Many fights. He did not want me to be friends with any male ...

I'm afraid of the pain he caused me, should I call him back or wait for him to call again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hello good people So I have been writing about my unplanned pregnancy with a gut that I barely know and denied the pregnancy and left me. Well he hasn't come back yet but I'm delighted to inform you that scary as it was I am HIV negetive I'm so...

I'm hurt that he didn't wish me well or say he was sorry for how things turned out

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I was seeing someone on/off for 3 years. He got divorced about 10 months ago. Seemed interested at first, but then we had a disagreement. He then back tracked ever since. Which was 7 months ago. He insisted he didn't want to be in a relationship. ...

There's a part of me that wants to go back to my ex but I know its not a good idea!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hi. Im new to this so please bare with me. My bf and I broke up after alot of bullshit between the both of us.we were both emotionally cheating.we decided to take a break. But I felt like during this break he was blaming everything on me.i felt I w...

Should I write to my ex or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I left a 5 year on-off relationship about 20 months ago. He was seeing other women. I said I will stay friends but I read few articles about 'no contact rules' to heal myself so I followed it and have been fine. I am fine as I had closure. ...

Should I try to work things out and see if my feelings come back for him or should I just cut all ties?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I need some advice as i'm still a year and a half later struggling to move on from my ex, i don't know whether this means i should be with him still or not. So me and my ex have been on and off for 11 years now i love him and think about him ...

How long do I give him this 'break' for? Should I get in touch to clarify this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4225 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I am really confused - my fiance had been blowing hot and cold since February this year basically since I lost my job and things were financially hard for us. We got engaged on New Year's Eve and I thought it was a new beginning for us - we have...

I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone! Recently I discovered that my boyfriend sent sexual texts to other girls. He apologized and is extremely upset so he promises never to do it again. He deleted all the girls phone numbers that were in his phone.I want to trust him but ...

Is it normal to feel this confused after a break up you were sure you wanted?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4224 days ago

27 May 2013 (M) - Hello everyone, I have just come out of a relationship which lasted over a year and a half. The relationship began quickly. We were effectively in a relationship together after just a few dates. We had a lot in common, it seemed. We shared simila...

I broke up with my bf of 7 years but I miss him so much. Please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hi .i recently posted about my bf not speaking to me 2-3 months at a stretch after a fight. I broke up with him. But im not able to forget about him. I miss him every single moment. I have not eaten for a week and a half. I feel like calling him and ...

When he doesn't want me, he throws me away. When he does want me, he expects me to go flying to him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4222 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my ex last month because he drifted apart. He's white and I'm Asian. He studies abroad now. He never contacted me so I asked him for closure. He didn't say anything either. I was pissed because I don't even deserve a closure after ...

It's hard for me to move on. What are the chances that she'll come back a second time? I think she might miss me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (M) - Am totally confused. I have been in this relationship now for four years. This January my girlfriend left me for another guy, I later got to find out, and she slammed these words on my face in the presence of her friends that 'she's no more ...

Does him cancelling twice really mean he's not interested or did I overreact and come to the wrong conclusion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for several weeks. Seems normal enough. He's 42, I'm 37. Last date was at my house, we cooked together and kissed etc (no sex). We were due to meet up in the week but he cancelled the day before with work commitments and ...

Why am I not special enough for a guy to stay exclusive with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I feel positively stupid. And ugly... especially ugly. Long story short: I met a guy, we liked each other but it's long distance, so there's no chance it'd work... we met once a couple months ago and had a great date, we got along great, and...

I feel like I'm stuck with my BF of 3 years. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4227 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my BF for 3 years now. Looking back, I feel like he was a rebound for me because my first love had completely betrayed me. Of course, I wasn't aware of it at the time. A year into our relationship he moved countries to be ...

When we're not arguing, things are good. But he broke my heart. Is it worth it, to keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my fiance 3 years. We had an argument over some petty BS. I wasn't even fighting with him, he just escalated to anger like he always does when we argue, and then says 'F**k this' or 'I'm done' and hangs up the phone, and then usu...

What can I say? Now the way she talks, it's like she thinks we are together again, but I'm over her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4227 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - Hi cupid I am ashamed of myself. Last night, I ended up sleeping with my ex. She called me crying a lot as her brother was hit by a car in Australia. I helped her over the phone and she was crying so much that I went to her place. After she cal...

My controlling bf keeps calling. I want to leave, but feel guilty. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - Dear all. Please advise. I'VE been in a relationship with a very controlling man for 3 years. I have distanced myself recently, as I keep getting hurt,and decided to stop taking his calls. I HAVEN'T seen him for around two weeks, bv this week, HE...

Would you be offended if a guy you were dating joked you are a cheap date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4223 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - I was seeing someone, everything was going well but it recently fizzled out and she decided she just wants to be friends. I've been wracking my brains trying to remember if I did or said anything wrong and all I can think of is a time when we were ...

Please help me understand my bisexual boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - My current boyfriend, Johnny, used to go out with a 21 year old bisexual guy, Kevin. They dated for 4 years. During that time, their relationship was open from the start and Johnny who is gay, forced himself to conform to Kevin's ways and slept with ...

Is it pathetic if I feel that love is around the corner given that no one has shown interest in me for 3 months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Okay.. So, I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago. It was a friendly break up, we realised a long distance relationship wouldn't work and I have absolutely no romantic feelings towards him. But, somehow, after him, literally no one has shown any ...

How do I know if he has another girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4228 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - I'm 22. my guy is is 27 and we've been dating almost 4years. We both see each other we pay each other visit ,call each other on phone and joke but now his attitude towards me change suddenly, i don't seems to get him any longer if i pay him visi...

I think I did the right thing in breaking up a LDR but I still feel sad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Hi there, I broke up with my long distance boyfriend about a week ago. He lives in Boston and I'm in California. We were together almost 4 years and were incredibly in love. He was my first serious boyfriend. We saw each other about 3 times a ...

Is it fair on us to be considering a LDR with her, in view of our past together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

24 May 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid I m in a tricky situation. my ex and I broke up last November after about 3 years . The relationship wasn't perfect but good. She had trust issues and at times she used to be really angry over the smallest things. We had loads of fig...

Should I just break up with him, move on, and wait for someone who will appreciate me and love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - Hello agony aunts. I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years 3 days ago. My best friend was leaving the place we shared and i was pretty upset.i cried the whole day.when my bf got to know this he went bonkers. He told me i didn't cry for him when...

Do you think rejection hurts worse than being cheated on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - I understand rejection happens to all of us at some point, but damn I've been rejected twice in the past two months for the first time in my life. I'm trying to reevaluate where I might have messed up, or maybe it's not something I did, it's just me ...

How long does it take to move on from your First Love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

24 May 2013 (F) - My first love was someone who I was deeply in love with for 3 years. We were teenagers when we met. It is now 4 months after our break up. I ended our relationship, for the better of both of us. I do not regret my decision for us to end. If we we...

Does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4229 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - does sleeping in separate beds always lead to the end of a relationship? i ask because my fiance and i live together and i find it hard to sleep next to him due to his snoring. i've had important professional exams today, so for the last week, he's ...

While I know that I completely ruined everything by expressing my fear of sadness when he's away, and deserve his current feelings, am I stupid to believe that he'll come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4229 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupids, I would really appreciate some advise..Apologies for the long post! I've been with a guy for the last year and a half..I adore him...We've had several ups and as many downs..I am his first proper relationship and he is my third....

No sex for 2 years - should I walk away from this otherwise happy relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - My mate and and I have not had sex for 2 years He says he can't get a hard on anymore, but he can materbate and watch porn alone, I am not sure if it is me or if he avoids me, I am happy about everything else in our relationship but the sex. He ...

Ex BF says he won't consider a reconciliation if I go on a holiday with my friend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - I have been split up with my ex for 3 weeks now. We were living together and he said he wanted a break. We have argued constantly over the 2 years it seems he wants me of a weekday then of a weekend he just wants his mates. I can admit I have bee...

We broke up. What life lessons can I learn from this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - hi aunts and uncles.... i finally got the chance to ask my ex after a year and a half of being seperated and divorced, why he left me. i wanted to know what mistakes i made so that my next relationship would not end up breaking up because of a...

Boyfriend just broke up with me. What do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3926 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of a year just broke up with me, and I don't know what to do or how to feel. As a reference, I'm 19 and he's 17, so while we may seem young, we're both very mature and understanding of the world around us. It was the first serious ...

He wants to get married and have children and I'm not sure yet. Do I stay and have kids or do I let him go?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4230 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I have been together with a guy for two years. We live together and for the most part, things are fine. We come from different cultures and are quite different as people, but we get on well in many respects. I'm happy enough with him but he doesn't ...

Cant stop deaming about my son's father and the woman he cheated on me with....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I am torturing myself over here. My ex of 2 years who I was crazy about, and I had a child together. Throughout the relationship he was abusive, and cheated, and I kept forgiving, and giving chances. After 2 years of the off and on and constant lies ...

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always h...

We had a LDR. We broke up. How could he do this after he gave me his commitment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my bf last month because we were in a LDR and he drifted apart. He never contacted me after the breakup. Just few days ago he sent me a text asked if I called him from an unknown number. If so just call from my normal number s...

Do you think he has started having different feelings? If so I might as well end this relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4226 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - So for the past 5 months I have been in a fwb relatioinship with a friend I met thru a friend. The thing is I'm married and he's not married but is already in a relationship himself. So we work on eachothers schedule. Now the sex isn't always the...