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Archived questions from: September, 2011 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

Should I send this email to my ex I broke up with six months ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4799 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - What do you think, I want to send my ex boyfriend this email..please help.? i want to send my ex boyfriend this email. broken up for 6 months and he has been playing with my head. telling me he loves me and coming to me when hes lonely. ...

End of relationship and pregnancy is causing me much hurt

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30 September 2011 (F) - I met this guy in June and we started seeing each other until he dumped me through email in August. In his email, he said that he was leaving the country to rekindle things with his ex-girlfriend. I didn't reply to his email because I was very ...

I wanted her gone. And I was wrong.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (M) - well.. i cant believe after nearly 2 years (1.8) my gf and I have broken up :( two weeks ago now. at first i asked her to leave my flat, and said we would talk in a month. (there were a series of things that led me to that point - at the 6month ...

We broke up after 1 month but I still miss him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Me and my ex have known each other for about 3 years now , we have always flirted and kissed , but we decided to take things serious 3 months ago , and ended up braking up in one month. i was devastated. what hurts the most is that i still see him ...

Is Breaking Up a Mistake? Should I Tell Her the Truth? I need advice to Get Over Someone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - For about three years I have had feelings for a close girl friend of mine. I have told her I was bi/ pan sexual. I have also told her about my feelings for her a couple years ago. It didnt go anywhere because she is straight. But this past summer ...

I am in relationship stress over this situation. Does he really love me? Why did he ignore me for so long after my Mom died?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid it's me again now a senior in high school and that also means that I have more relationship stress. As you may know from my last questions I've been involved with my bestfriend/ now ex-boyfriend and just when I thought things coul...

We did break up a month ago. YET he still wants to flirt. What's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - So its been over a month now, since my boyfriend and I broke up. But he still has feelings for me. I guess the reason he still feels close to me is that...just because we are now exes...we are still like best friends. I don't have a problem being ...

Should just keep him out of our lives. And deny access to his child? But is it the right thing to do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - Hi i am in a situation with my baby's father apparently he's with someone else now and we just broke up last week. It hurts to know that he's with the one girl he cheated on me last weekend but i am just doing fine what i wanted to ask was i dont ...

Is he ready to call it quits? And can't tell me yet? should I continue down the same path and give him space?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4800 days ago

30 September 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and I just can't figure out where our relationship is going and what it is that he wants. When we first started dating, things were so wonderful that I cannot even explain. We have so many things i...

Is it wrong of them? Neither of them seem to think they have done anything wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Okaay where to start.. Well i have been seeing this guy for a few days even though im all that into him i think hes okay but i thought id give him a chance. I will call this boy 'C' then there is one my best friends who i will call 'E' She (E) is s...

He is ignoring me and I feel miserable, please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - We met on a dating website 7 months ago and have been meeting and chatting in a regular basis but never more than that. Few weeks ago he was very sweet, more than usual, and I thought things were getting better. Then he disappeared from the chat, I ...

We fell in love while he was in Afghanistan, but he left me shortly after he got out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4797 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - I meet my boyfriend online almost a year ago. He was stationed at that time in Afghanistan and it was a rough time for the both of us. Waiting 9 months. I supported him all this time with letters, packages etc. We became closer and I started ...

I finally figured out his game -- and want to stay strong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! Okay, so heres the thing... Ive just gotten out of a long term on-off relationship (5 years to be precise). It was a great relationship to begin with but then soon the love started to fade from him, (hence it was on-off cause he kept ...

I broke up with my ex and I regret it, but think it's to late

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My ex and I been broken up for about 2 months already. We broke up once and it lasted for 4 months and we both liked other people, but in the end, she came back because I didn't contact her at all and we ended up going back out. We went out for 3 ...

How do I separate myself from the ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - My ex broke up with me a few weeks ago. He told me he lost feelings for me months ago, and that he never loved me and never will love me. He was very emotionless about dumping me (something i learned about him is that he's able to turn feelings off ...

Realised I'd developed feelings for my FWB when she met someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - okay i have a confusing situation.. well for me dont know about you guys. i had a fwb about 2 months raftly.. it was going well.. untill she met this another guy and she was falling for him so we stopped. but i didnt wanted to stop so i told her ho...

How do you get through being cheated on and lied to by a guy who never even cared about you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - He said he never lies... I'm struggling to keep count of all the lies he's told. He said he's been cheated on before and would never cheat... he asked other girls out while we were together and straight after we break up. He told me he's not like ...

My ex and I broke up and I regret what I did, is there hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My ex and I been broken up for about 2 months already. We broke up once and it lasted for 4 months and we both liked other people, but in the end, she came back because of the NC rule and we ended up going back out. We went out for 3 and half years ...

My boyfriend of two years dumped me a week before my 21st birthday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4774 days ago

29 September 2011 (F) - I'm completely devastated right now. My boyfriend of two years just broke up with me, for the second time, and it's a week before my 21st. I feel helpless and lost and I don't know what to do. This might be sort of long. Some backstory:...

Why is she texting me, giving me mixed signals, and calling me? does that mean I have a chance. Or does she just want me around while she grieves?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

29 September 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up about 4 weeks ago. Its hard for me to talk to her because it was my fault we broke up. She is still mad that I facebook chatted this girl I want, suppose to talk to while I was drunk and we talked, then turned to sexting. I hone...

Unexpected! I just don't want this....What can I do or say to get her to stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (M) - Hey there everyone I need some help on my relationship. My GF and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. Everything has been going great we moved in together in April of this year and everything was perfect. But today she approched me after work and ...

Can I delete him off facebook? I don't want to know what he's up to!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

28 September 2011 (F) - My ex dumped me a week and a half ago. We had a 1 year relationship. Its been very hard for me, but he is completely fine. He feels nothing about the break up and has moved on. I have to see my ex every day as we go to uni together and are in the ...

Break his heart when we've been through so much or try to get past these things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and sometimes I feel so in love with him and other times I just can't stand him. Now I just don't feel attracted to him. He loves me to the moon and back and he'd never betray me but I just don't know what ...

Should I create a bedroom for my 24 year old daughter or keep the study for myself in apartment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - This might seem like a slightly odd question relating to family and home. My daughter is now 24 and has moved far away from home for 5 years now to be at Uni. She is very happy where she is living and it looks like she will stay there maybe for ...

Triangle of lies!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I know I messed up but what now? I need advice, I know what I need to do but I would like someone else to give me an opinion on how... I started working for this guy, he was my immediate boss, he was handsome and kind and understanding...we became ...

What should I do to fix this!!! please help me...seriously

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I met this guy and we dated for 2 months. It was going great. He introduce me to his friends and family whihc he has not done with a girl for 4 years. we got along very well and he was really good with my son. We ended up having a lil spat which put ...

How can he not miss me when all I ever wanted was to love and help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I was in a relationship for a year with a man that I loved deeper than I even knew I could. He proposed, and we always talked about our future, I was so happy. Things started going bad and we started fighting alot, which I found out was because he ...

Everybody loves my husband except me!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi Cupids. My husband of 16 years is perfect by everybody else's standards. He is well liked by my family and friends, a good husband, a good father and best friend. I know that logically he is a good choice for me. He has stood by me during goo...

We are living together but I think its time to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (?) - Hi I've been together with my boyfriend for four years we own a house together and we are trying to sell it we were hoping it would help our relationship as the money stress would not be there but I feel like it won't change anything. I feel bored ...

Is it likely a new Bf may lose interest after learning about the STD? I want to break up with my bf.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - I love my boyfriend, but our relationship seems hopeless, and I think I probably should end it. This seems like an odd reason to hesitate, but I am worried that I will have trouble finding someone new because I was recently diagnosed as being HPV ...

So are his little postings on facebook about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (F) - Hi, So I just wanted to ask if these are all coincidences or not. A guy and I got into a misunderstanding and based on 1)he thought I was into his friend at the same time and 2)he was really a party boy all his life and I don't think he had mu...

How do I stop becoming bitter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

27 September 2011 (M) - After you have been burned by someone, how do you stop from becoming bitter and cynical about love? I still feel my heart becoming harder. And anger and frustration dampening my hope and enthusiasm so that I do not believe in love anymore. What...

I just can't seem to get over my ex and can't figure out why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4803 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - O.k so I am in quite a weird situation which I can't seem to figure out so let me explain my situation so hopefully someone could give me advice ! This is probably really long by the way So it's been 2 years since me and my ex broke up, I broke up...

Why does my ex hang out with another guy if she likes me still?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend of three and a half years, broke up with me and we've been broken up for a month now. She loves me, and told me she will always care about me, and she'd love to get back with me in the future. But right now she also has feeling ...

I broke up with him because he's still staying with his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - someone try and convince me that i have done the right thing. i just left a relationship, because my x boyfriend is still staying with the mother of his daughter. he claims he doesn't love her, and that she has no where to go. plus she is looki...

I am moving soon. We argue too much. Would it be healthier to completely separate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 6 months and things are starting to fall apart. I am moving to a neighboring state in a few weeks and we have just been having little arguments ever since i told him. Arguments about little pointles...

Long distance? what is truly happening? Is he just trying to break up?

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26 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now and I love him more that I ever thought I could possibly have feelings for another person. During the two years, he was deployed for 9 months and now has moved back home for the last 5 months...

Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all... But if I never loved I would have never lost. and would not feel the this way..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

26 September 2011 (M) - My ex girlfriend and i love each other alot. Im not putting words in her mouth she has told me that she loves me even tho we are broken up. Its my fault why we broke up. I was drunk and went online and sexted another girl. I honestly didnt know what ...

He's turned it around to try to make me the guilty one!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4803 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - Here's the thing. I had my boyfriend of nine months. Well about 2 months ago I started noticing little things/clues that were telling me that he was talking to another girl, like a text every so often and he would say it was this app that he has ...

Should I wait for him or just end the relationship now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

26 September 2011 (F) - 0kay so im 17 and my bf is 18. we've been together for 4 months, but in the last week before our 4 month, we began to fool around a bit. one night when i was home alone i asked him to come over. which he did and he ended sleeping over. that night we ...

What does this mean in male language?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4802 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - I am/was seeeing this guy for about 3 weeks and then he sends me a text last friday saying "youre really full on, i think we should cool it for a bit. im not ready for this sort of thing. sorry x" What does this mean in male language? Does it mean ...

Should he and I just break up for good or try to work things out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Hi ! I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for the last two years and I'm starting to seriously hate him. I love him so much that its growing into hate. When we break up we are still friends. We still hangout as if we are still dating. We just ...

Can I get my ex back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - i'm mad at my ex 3 weeks ago and when he said hey to me, i ignored him. then no contact. even if we met, he avoided me. about 2 weeks ago,i called and told him we could still be friends, we don't have to avoid each other. but like 5 days later, i ...

I can't decide between these two!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - I am in a predicament where I must choose between two people. First of all I have been dating one guy (Person # 1) for a year. Before we started dating I had to break up with another guy who i was casually dating (Person 2). Person 1 is great, but ...

How can I deal with the criticism I'm going to get? How can we work it out in the future?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend two years on Friday, because he thought it was getting too intense and serious for two year 11's we were arguing a lot. It was done really nicely and he said if I ever needed anything he'd be there for me, I was the best...

I really don't love him. I need to get over him. He's moved on. I have not. How do I stop wanting to stalk him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4801 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - So recently i ended my relationship with this guy..it was mainly because i didnt get really good grades that i wanted and i totally blame the guy for it..because he always thought i could carry on with my studies and would do great blah blah..but i ...

He's moving away, and this could be our last chance of a relationship, help! Do I give it a chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - Hey, any advice would be appreciated! right, first of all I'll tell you the basic story. I'm with this guy. I met him in college, he's similar to me in things like music, and our views on things, I get on well with his family and he does with min...

I sexted another girl. my girlfriend dumped me but says she will always love me. I don't understand these mixed signals

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

25 September 2011 (M) - I dont understand my break up at all. My girlfriend broke up with me because I screwed up. I was drunk and went on my computer and facebook sexted a girl I wasnt supposed to talk to at all. I wasnt aloud to talk to this girl so I didnt. I wasnt ...

Should I just stick to my gut about ignoring him if there is contact?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4806 days ago

25 September 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I got into an argument like 2 weeks ago, said we weren't going to see each other but we ended up seeing each other and getting back together.We have been going out for 4 years now. Anyways, I'm confused and annoyed and angry because ...

I do all the loving and giving but don't get much back in return

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4805 days ago

24 September 2011 (F) - im finding it very hard moving on from a relationship weve spilt up 6 wks ago and were together a year. ive got a daughter and he had a son. so the rountine was basically this,pretty much moved in with me as he had a job in my town as he lived ...