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writes:So its been over a month now, since my boyfriend and I broke up. But he still has feelings for me. I guess the reason he still feels close to me is that...just because we are now exes...we are still like best friends. I don't have a problem being good friends with him, because i just feel comfortable in telling him anything. But he continues trying to kiss my cheeks, lips, and neck. Then like today where i told him i wasn't going to give him just a peck on his lips...he got mad. What should i do?
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reader, Abella +, writes (30 September 2011):
 The two of your broke up a month ago.
If he still wants priveleges then he needs to make up his mind. Are you still together or not? If he wants to flirt with you and kiss you then ask him to make a decision - are you back together or are you still broken up?
If you are together then he can flirt with you.
If you are still broken up then tell him to stop trying to kiss you.
You did the right thing to refuse him. It is far too hurtful to expect you to be flirted with and petted by him. And kissed. And yet it is alleged that you are still "broken up" ??
He cannot have the best of both worlds.
Tell him to reconnect as an exclusive relationship or forget the flirting.
It is all about RESPECT. And he does need to treat you wth RESPECT at all times.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (30 September 2011):
 You need to cut all contact with him. being friends with him gives him hope.
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