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writes:Hi,So I just wanted to ask if these are all coincidences or not.A guy and I got into a misunderstanding and based on 1)he thought I was into his friend at the same time and 2)he was really a party boy all his life and I don't think he had much experiences with relationshps and freaked out.He blocked me but I found out (yes, I created a fake name and stalked him). I admitted to it and msged him. It remained awkward and he didn't unblock my account and so I moved on.But time and time again... things happened that suggested maybe they were about me. ~~His friends teased him about a girl of my nationality~~They brought up movies relating to the situation me and him were in, involving the other guy. ~~A girl even asked him about me (not by name) but something I wrote in a message and said "poor you. I hope she's out of your life." and he's like "Yea she was completely following me around". This one I know was me and I was SO angry that he showed my email so after that I lost all hope but my mother said that though he acted immature, he couldn't admit to his feelings on a public post like fb and he pb turned to her for advice based on the two guy mess...but that yes, I should continue ignoring him.~~Just recently he made his photos that aren't party pictures public to everyone on the web. I got a recent make over and I don't know if he knows but I know his friends certianly do. He knows that I know i'm blocked but that I'm not confronting. He doesn't know I know about the wall stuff...bc that is for friends only but our mutual friends are curious and they ended up giving more information than getting, atleast to me. I know that the girl comment is certainly related to me. I just want to know...is the movie and the girl from my nationality just coincidence, like maybe he just has a type from my nationality. BTW I'm from a rare group. I know once he blocked me and the friend... he befriended A lot of girls of my race...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWill say thanks again.
Want to hear a strange thing? The other guy in the mess...well... he recently got in touch. Obviously I'm no longer the open girl they remember...and with the makeover... :)
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (27 September 2011):
 Is this you too?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-would-he-suddenly-make-his-facebook-photos.html
I stand by what I said on that thread. Stop reading into things, he doesn't want to be your friend and he is not thinking about you.
Time for you to move on too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOriginal poster,
thanks for the insight.
Don't worry about it. Yes I check up on it...but I have a been dating someone new. It's nothing serious but I really did like this guy and the other guy that got into this mess that I hinted about was a friend for a long time and potentially more. Turned out they both knew one another. It just got icky but I guess that's life sometimes.
PS THANK YOU FOR THE STRAIGHT UP HONESTY! I guess all the other crap isn't worth it. I wished we could have communicated but it was his decision to be non-verbal so yeah, whatever.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (27 September 2011):
 So the key points are that
-he blocked you
-you stalked him with a fake account
-he knows that you stalked him with a fake account
-he continues to block you
So his feelings toward you are that he has blocked you from his life. You are stalking him and obsessing and seriously, you need to let it go now.
Everything else is just mental tomfoolery and a complete waste of time. The more you probe and question and ask friends to look at his account, the more you will look like a completely obsessed girl and the less he will want to reverse his block on you.
Assume the comments ARE about you. All they are saying to you is 'get lost.'
Assume the comments are NOT about you. He's still not adding you back as a friend.
Either way, things don't look so good for you to be with him, okay?
Take care.
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