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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I been broken up for about 2 months already. We broke up once and it lasted for 4 months and we both liked other people, but in the end, she came back because I didn't contact her at all and we ended up going back out. We went out for 3 and half years and we lost it to each other. Now we broke up again after going out for 3 months after our first break up..Its been 2 months now with no contact and I realized she isn't going to come back again and that I need to try this time because I broke up with her and I was a real a**hole to her, but the reason I was is because I resented her for having sex with this guy during our first 4 month break up. We just ended fighting to much which I needed to end. But now I realized I can't throw away 3 and half years away just like that and that she means the world to me and I really want to try again and accept that we all make mistakes and that I dont need her in my life to be happy, but I want her in my life.But now I went to facebook and saw this picture where shes being held by this guy and the guys facebook picture is also a picture with her in it. I messaged her trying to strike up a conversation and Im just waiting for her reply.My situation is a very complicated one and I would like to hear stories about people that have been close to my situation and what happened in the aftermath. All I need is advice because I regret breaking up and being a d***. I just need to know if there is any hope at all.. please
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 September 2011):
 It is really hard for me to say if there is hope for the both of you or not, it really depends on how she is feeling and what she wants. At the end of the day yes she had sex with another guy and yes off course it is going to hurt you, but you need to remember that she done nothing wrong. She was single at the time, and in any case she was probably feeling lonely after the break up and this guy was just the rebound. Now you let it effect the second chance you both had to make things work.
If you want her back well then you are going to need to work hard for it. You need to start by admitting to her how wrong you were to behave the way that you did, apologise to her and tell her exactly how you feel about her. Don't hold anything back put your heart on the line for her. Good luck.
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