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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

What do I tell people about how and why we broke up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Hello , me and my boyfriend recently broke up . we both dicided that it ws best not to go out any more . the probem is that lots of people are saying that i dumped him by text and that i was really harsh and all but the truth is , he was just as m...

I don't see a future for me and my now ex boyfriend... so how do I stop loving him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - I split with my ex 6 months ago, after 4 years together- for all the right reasons, nothing in common, hes very childish, doesnt make me feel happy, he prefers time with his friends drinking than me- he is sort of like peter pan, lovable but ...

It appears he ended things because I didn't gel with his friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - hi all , sorry this is long Im really struggling just now with the end of a relationship of 5 years .my ex is a widower , of whom i knew his wife , and we got together 6 months after his wife had died (she comiited suicide ), when which he asked m...

Should I tell him myself, or just hope that no one else does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Please help me, I need some piece of mind. Let me explain... in February, I lost a baby, which devastated me and my ex, and although I have two children from a previous relationship, this baby was my ex’s first, so I cannot comprehend the guilt I ...

Is he serious about "just friends" or do we still have a shot?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Okay so I was seeing this guy for about a month. He persued hot and heavy. Everything was going along fine until an ex hacked into my email and internet accounts. I had to fess up to the new guy about this "other" guy. It seemed to really freak him ...

My boyfriend keeps breaking up with me, and told me he's not in live with me anymore! I know I should let go, but how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - Im really confused and don't know what to do. I'm 19 and ive been going out with my boyfriend for a year now. Last month he broke up with me because he didnt want to be in a relationship, but we got back together, he has done the same thing 4times ...

My boyfriend dumped me because I'm too emotional, and couldn't accept my past. How do I move on and get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I've been in a toxic relationship for 3 years, and I don't know what to do. You see in the beginning it was all perfect, it seemed to us (and everyone around us) that we'd been made for each other since we shared the same hobbies, thoughts, ideas, ...

Me and my girlfriend recently broke up, and I want her back, but I don't know how she feels. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

30 August 2009 (M) - Hi guys. (Plz forgive my poor english) My girlfriend has recently broken up our 3 yr old relation. I really do love her and want her back in my life. Here's what has happened in brief- Last few months time was a patchy time in our relationsh...

He is so confusing! Is he afraid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - What is going on with this guy? My ex and I keep coming back to each other but then he pulls away again. Last example: I went away for 3 weeks. He called me when I was away I did not call until I got back. The minute I called him back we got ...

I think he wants to try again, but we are both afraid to take the next step

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I broke up with a man three months ago. We see each other often due to my child's hobby. We had lunch last week and it went very well (were talking for 1 1/2 hours). He knows I have been meeting men on-line with no luck. He also has dated but, ...

How can I get over the break up, when he is so happy without me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - I have just been wondering about breaking up and how both partners feels toward it I broke up with my friend a month ago and I still feel pain in my heart until the moment We were happy and he decide to break up , I accepted that he doesn’...

He's with a girl he cheated on me with, but I want to look past it and try again

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - me and this guy have been together for seven months he alway use to say i fuss to much when we broke up we were still seeing each other over the summer and i just found out he was dating this girl i use to hear people say he talked to when we were ...

I want to break off with this jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, Please help me to stop being angry and more importantly- to stop caring. I have known this man for nearly five years. We went out for two and a half, one of which we lived together. I found out in 2007 that he was cheating and lyi...

I don't want to be with b/f any longer but can't make it without him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now and we have a 3 year old son together. He tells me he loves me all the time but he gets mad so easy and yells at me and calls me a bitch. We argue alot and i dont like my son to see us argue. ...

He won't let me break up with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we have lived together for the last two years. He is generally a nice guy, but I am certain that I want to break up with him. I am not really enjoying the relationship as I feel I should be, we are ...

Me and this man started dating, and then he broke it off by saying he wasn't ready for a relationship, but wants to be friends. Where should I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - I had a great date with a guy and he asked me out on a second date. We didn't kiss after the first date. The second date however was to take three weeks later as he was going away on business. He said he'd keep in touch but I didn't think he would. ...

Why is he making me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Dated a guy for about six months and then broke up. We are trying to remain friends and have had a few coffee dates. I do see him because we would travel in the same circles. He would end up showing up at events and would sit where he would see me ...

Can I just delete him off facebook, its hard to get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i was seeing this guy over summer. I didnt want to just come across as an easy to get with girl, even though i was sexually active with him. So ive talked to him about taking it more seriously, or we're done. he said he needed more time very time. i ...

We've broken up but I can't get over her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - Dear, Reader I come to you asking, nay pleading that some kind soul out there whether male or female help me through that time were you cant stop thinking of your betrothed. I really miss her...I loved her with All my will but, She came to the ...

If we both somewhat cheated on each other could we ever have a relationship again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5484 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - Alright so Ive been dating this guy for a year and nine months, today we broke up. We have been having problems the last couple of months arguing over pointless things such as him not wanting to cuddle at night and why he was on his phone with his ...

My gal says she has lost the spark ... and is now in love with another guy...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5518 days ago

29 August 2009 (M) - Hey... well I was in an intense relationship with a gal...with both of us in love with each other...she used to call me her soul mate...and she was the same for me... It was a spiritual connection for both of us and we both involved emotionally...

Help me get over this inconsiderate, cheating jerk with no future!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Hey everyone... I was wondering if I could get some advise, I'm not perfect... but I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3years. In those 3 years I have waited for him to change. and recently we have been on and off. I love him ...

I haven't contacted him for nearly a year, but I'm still in love with him! Should I make contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years...rather than rehash all the tiny things that made me insecure, jealous, just didn't feel right etc...i can admit i was wrong on some of those things and reacted too jealous at times and should have been more ...

I miss him but then I think about what he did..and I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - So I posted a question earlier about how I wanted to move in with my boyfriend, but didn't know how to tell my parents or my sister, whom i have moved in with. I moved in, and we hung out for a while the day I moved in. Later that night, he w...

My girlfriend broke up with my last night, and I have a lot of questions running through my mind. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me last night. I am a 5th year senior and she is a senior at our college. This past summer, we spent the majority of our time together because we were living up at school working, and most of the time we didn't have any ...

We broke up, still see each other every day as friends; she says she just doesn't want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - Hey, Well me and my girlfriend broke up about 1 month ago. More so to take a step back. We still see each other every day (live 200 M from each other), still love each other, and still loyal with each other (as in not interetsted in other people)...

Should I be patient, waiting for her to change her mind, or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - My ex girlfriend of a year broke up with me about a month and a half ago. We were great together and had a lot in common. It wasn't a bad breakup and she said that she needed time to work on herself and I needed the same. About two weeks after ...

No intimacy in my marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - I have been married to my wife for 5 years now. there is no intimacy in our marriage she does not want to have sex, and it is ruining our relationship what should i do, i want to ask her for divorce. or get separated...

Will my relationships never survive without me sacrificing my friendships and career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of three years yesterday. He is the only man I have ever loved and he made me feel more loved than anyone could possibly explain. I broke up with him because even though our relationship was so fantastic, other aspects ...

Why am I so consumed with jealousy 2 years after we broke up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - I am very confused, partly because I don't know where the problem actually lies. I broke up with my girlfriend of three years after drunkenly cheating on her- the only time I had done so. I didn't tell her this, instead saying that I wanted ti...

How can I let her know that I'm willing to wait until she is ready for us to be together again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i broke up the other day on good terms after a long good relationship. She says she just needs to figure some things out, we are still friends and still see eachother. I'm just wondering how to let her know that I am willing to ...

Problem is , I don't feel anything for him anymore, how can I let him down easily?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I'm so confused. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months, and I do love him, but I don't feel like I want to be with him. I like spending time with him, watching a film, or going to the pub etc, but I can't look at him the way I should when ...

I can't get over him, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - I need some advice. I have been apart from they guy I was dating for just over a year now, and I can't get over him. We were together for a pretty long time (about three years), and he was the first and only guy I ever truly fell in love with. He ...

I want to leave my b/f but don't want him to be with someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - Heres my story i want to leave my bf but i just dont want him being with someone els after me i feel like leaving him because he is the most selfish inconciderat loser i have ever meant he does nothing for me or our daughter i really need to leave ...

Is she really that over me? I'm so hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Im in this bad situation and i feel like crap. I have been with this woman for 3 years and now it ended. I cant seem to get over her. She decided to cut me off and out of her life. She says she is doing much better and feels "wonderful" and "great", ...

Do I stay with my boyfriend or leave him but run the risk of being alone forever?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Hi im 22 and im so confused....I dont know if i should leave my partner or stay...im a single mom off a gorgeous little boy...my partner used to be such a nice guy...now his dad has terminal cancer hes changed so much...a few hours ago i refused to ...

Does he want me back, or was he just horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I broke up with my ex month ago We still living together in our place , I tried to get back to him twice, but he rejected me, and I felt my self so cheap, and I forgot about him totally and started focusing on my life and try to enjoy it ...

I don't know what to do with my life since my girlfriend went back to her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - met a divorced girl just under 2 years ago with a 3 year old boy she been through a tough relationship with her ex im not rich or well off but i did offer her love and affection always and made lots of effort with her son..i took him to thomasland ...

I've lost the man I love over something so stupid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Ok well this is gonna be quite long (sorry) but I desperately need some help. Please be honest with me, I can take any criticism where it's due, but please don't judge me. Ok, so, last year, Id just gone 18 and I was going out with someone . a...

How do I tell my boyfriend that I want to be with a female without him wanting to join in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - i am a bisexual female and i do have bouyfriend. now the thing is lately i've been feeling like i want to be with a female. how do i tell this to my boyfriend without him wanting to join or something stupid like that?...

Does he really want to get back with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My exboyfriend keeps telling me he wants to get back together but things need to change first...such as my jealosy issues, the fact that I don't accept some of his friends..and that I annoy him some times He says he wants us to be together but to ...

We split up with the intention of getting back together, his parents now wants him to move on, I thought they like me, what gives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - My longtime boyfriend and I recently decided (mutually) on a break in our relationship because there are some issues we need to resolve as individuals first if we want things to work in the long term. We agreed that if we wanted to see other people ...

Does one person have to control a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - In my relationship my boyfriend controls everything for the most part. We broke up a few times..and he is always the one to break up with me. He always chooses when he wants to see me. Neither he nor I are working right now so he never wants to go ...

Should I continue to try and get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5516 days ago

27 August 2009 (F) - Okay, it's a long story but i need help with this. I thought everything was fine in our relationship, it was pretty much out of this world to me and i thought he felt the same. He told me everyday how much he loved me and that he didnt want to ...

He threw me out because I don't agree with him all the time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend kicked me out of our home on sunday, leaving me heart broken and homeless. his reasons were basically to cut a long story short that i react differently to him in situations and this frustrates him, im a very emotional person. I have ...

My ex terminated our pregnancy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I was with a girl I thought was forever, but we no longer clicked I guess. We were together for a significant amount of time, and we tried to conceive. She calls me three months after we broke up, saying shes pregnant and terminating the ...

I broke up with my boyfriend just to spend 9 days with him, but now he doesn't want to see me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - this year i took part in a show and one of the boys doing the show i got on with really well. at that time i had a boyfriend but as i started seeing more of this other boy, i started to develop feelings for him and i didnt know what to do. when he ...

He's in love with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 August 2009 (?) - I have been with my Boy friend for a year and a half and we have our ups and downs and at one point I left as he was not given me what I wanted. he made a real effort and I finaly came round because he told me he loved me and that was horrible with ...

I know I have to leave him for good, but my heart is saying otherwise. Please help me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - confused and felling stupied Ive bin in my relationship for 15yrs, have 2 lovely boys, but their father is such a looser, abusers the 3 of us mentally but also physically abusers me, I feel like a bad mum allowing my children to grow up around h...

What's going on? Isn't he man enough to tell me it's over instead of messing me around?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5565 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Hey people. Please advice a sister. I had an argument with my boyfriend of long distance. Weve been dating for 3years but we barely see each other. I came back home and his best pal told me the guy has another girlfriend which he denies. I tried not ...