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*ogesh.jsy
writes:Hi guys.(Plz forgive my poor english)My girlfriend has recently broken up our 3 yr old relation. I really do love her and want her back in my life.Here's what has happened in brief-Last few months time was a patchy time in our relationship. We used to fight on small things. Many times even if it was her mistake due to my short temper I used to say anything that would hurt her and at the end of the day I used to be the one with fault.I've realized my mistake and I am doing my best to not to do it again.I guess she thinks that I have kept the relation just for sex.I tried hard to convince her but she just doesn't believe me.now whenever I call her for a few days she had been telling me to call only if I have any work otherwise not to call.since last few days if she doesnt pick up my call, as soon as she sees the missed call, she calls me back which she didnt do after break up.And when I call her "hello" gives a hint of happiness of receiving my call(maybe I am thinking this way because I am seeing things the way I want to see not the way things actually are)Today I called her, she asked me if there's a specific reason for call, I was replying "Ill tell later" and was trying to have conversation on other topics.she told me not to call her again ever, I pretended I didnt hear her and hung up the phone. And now she tried to call me a few times. It must be to tell me not to call her again.I'd like to hear advices of you ppl on how should I deal with this.Is she doing this on purpose??... to make me pay more attention to her and respect her... Or she is just fed up of me and dont want me again in her life.If you want any specific information to give advice then plz ask, Ill happily give details.I am looking forward for your help.Thanks in advance.
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reader, yogesh.jsy +, writes (18 September 2009):
yogesh.jsy is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot for your answer!
we've patched up now!
I need to work on my patience:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): She is giving you mixed vibs. She could be indecisive, could be trying to teach you a lesson about your short temper, could be playing games, or could be trying to end the relationship but keeps falling back on her decision.
I would sit back on it, not call or talk with her, and wait to see what happens. In just a couple of weeks, I think you will have the answer to your question. That will tell you all you need to know. If she calls, just say you don't have anything to talk abut. BE nice. If she calls again, believe me, she will trying to convince you of the reason she has called.
IE, she will contact you if she does want the relationship.
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