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writes: What is going on with this guy? My ex and I keep coming back to each other but then he pulls away again. Last example: I went away for 3 weeks. He called me when I was away I did not call until I got back. The minute I called him back we got together for dinner that night and then the next night too. Well he did not call the next day so I called him to tell him I had fun. He was going out with his older guy friend for dinner. He said it would have been nice for you to return my calls while you were away and he was worried. I am moving in 2 weeks the first night he said move in with me the second day he said his friend has a great apartment for rent. He is so confusing. What should I do? Play it cool and wait for him to call again? I know he loves me but I just feel he is afraid. Any suggestions? I don't like games.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): The only thing you can do is to ask him what he wants from you and your relationship, and to tell him how you feel and think about him.
Ask him first what he "thinks" of you.
Then ask him how he "feels" about you and see how his answers compare....that will tell you a lot.
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