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Archived questions from: 20 August, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

Our relationship is ending soon... but should we break things off earlier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - I'm having a rough time just now. I'm in a relationship that is going to finish in a few weeks time, because we are both going off to Universities and neither of us want a long distance relationship. But for the past couple of weeks, I've found my ...

The ex or the new lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - i have recently split from a relationship that i have a disabled child with of 4years. i met someone else and rushed into things quite quickly.i love my new lover to pieces and am happy with him, my son loves him too. my new lover recently proposed ...

I'm trying to do the best for her and she's distancing herself from me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Should I admit to seeing my partners writings and how can I deal with this? Recently my partner made a list of things she wanted. 1. To visit her family. (500 miles away) 2. To go on holiday abroad to the sea. 3. To move in to ...

My life is going downhill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (?) - hello, my problem is that im doubting my reason to live, latley my sex life has just gone downhill. my husband is ignoreing my signs that i want to say that im attractive. i have no idea what to do and on top of that my children are out of control ...

My ex got married and I'm in bits

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - please dont think me a bad person but i need to write this. my ex fiance got married recently-i have to admit i was completely gutted. i made a huge mistake losing him-although we were both to blame for the split and now i dont know what to do....

How could I win her back or should I let sleeping dogs lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Hi, I recently split up with a girl I was going out with for about 3 months. I guess the main reason was that I wasn't sure if we had enough common interests. She kind of agreed but we were both a bit upset. I'm still in touch and have met, jus...

My partner broke up with me because her daughter doesn't approve! Should I stick around to see if things change or let go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - I've been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 7 years. We are in love. Her teenage daughter has broken us up as a couple, and says she doesn't want her mom seeing me anymore. My girlfriend basically told me that has to make sure that her daughte...

I can't stand being with him when I don't love him...so how do I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hi So I've been going out with this boy for about a month now. He asked me out a few times and he really likes me eventualy I said yes as I thought I liked him but I have found out that I only like him as a friend. To add to this I was alre...

I am so lost without her, any advice on how to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - HI all, Very briefly, I am not your reader or poster, in fact I am in my thirty's so I do apologise. But I am so confused it's making me ill. So I have to get this off my chest and any ideas, advice etc would be greatly appreciated. I ...

Is there any chance of us getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - ok,, So i was 13 in the 8th grade, and it was almost the end of the school year... and i started to go out with this boy... and at first i wasnt too sure about the whole thing.. but as we started to hang out and talk,, and get to know each other, i...

Should I get divorced?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - I've been married for over fifteen years and unhappy with my wife for most of that time. After our son was born she developed depression, and to this day she is a changed person - she's nervous, irritable, she shouts and swears, and she hates ...

My partner decided to end our relationship but she cant afford to move out, what is the best thing to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - After 12 years with her she out of the blue said she didnt love me and wanted to split up.She said she can't afford to move out of our house and i can't afford any money to buy her out or move out myself ( i pay all the utility , mortgage etc). I ...

Since I stayed at my ex's house - which he approved of - my boyfriend has cut contact! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship for 7 months (long distance but we managed to spend at least half that time together in person). He was very into me and actually told me he loved me and that he thought I was the one. I was taking it more slowly because i ...

We broke up, he's going into the service soon, I'd like to try to at least be friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - To begin, I was in a serious relationship with this guy for about 5-months. It was the best relationship I ever had, he treated me with respect, we had fun together, shared a lot of the same interests and beliefs. I seriously thought he was "the ...

Do men ever step up after leaving pregnant girlfriends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Why do men leave their girlfriends when they're pregnant? Do men ever man up? has anyone experienced this? I'm interested in hearing from males....

Does anyone have tips on minding unruly children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hello this isn’t a romantic question but im hoping someone out there might have the answer! I am going to be babysitting my boyfriends brothers for a week. My boyfriends lives somewhere else and will be there if I need him but not all the time. The ...