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Archived questions from: 5 August, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

How do I get her back, when I have blown so many chances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - How can I get my ex back after she has giving me so many chances to change? ...

Should I believe him, or continue with my plans?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Help! Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up a few months ago, and ever since then we've been on-off. I still love him with all of my heart, and he says he does too, but the way he treats me says something completely different. If we get ...

I broke up with my boyfriend because he was slating my mum... but now he says he'll change, I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - i recenetly borke up with my boyfriend who i had been with for 2 1/2 years. he was my first everything and i also lost my verginity with him. i spilt up with him because he was talking about my mam in a horrible way(shes disabled) so i broke up with ...

Should I tell him how I feel and risk losing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - my ex boyfriend and I broke up just over a month ago now. we were in a very close and serious relationship, we loved each other very much and always had fun together. we didnt break up because of arguments or cheating, basically its becau...

He says he loves me, and I love him so much, but I don't know if he means it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - This guy says he loves me but I don't know if I believe him. We went out and then just out of nowhere he ended it cause he 'just found someone else' and after three months of us not talking he texted me out of the blue. We started talking and I have ...

I'm sick of being hurt yet I cheat on the good guys, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - im so over all men. im so sick of being hurt. i have had so many men in my life i cant hold on to them. im not clinggy im not one of those annoying girlfriends like my friends i try to be the oppisite. i always choos the manwhores and then when i ...

How do I get him to realise that enough is enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Ok, I think I have had enough. I am a 46 y/o divorced woman, mother of 2 kids. I have been with the same man for 6 years...6 very long years. We are not married nor do we live together. I am at my wits end. I have been through so much with him...

She's sending mixed messages but I want to be with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for almost five years. We lived together for a long time, but we recently decided to call it quits. At the time it seemed like the correct decision, as we both had questions/concerns about where our relationship was going. ...

Do you think she really means it? Do people really change? I have lots of questions..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - What does it really mean when someone says there not ready go be with anyone right now, but everytime your together its like youve been together for a long time? If someones feelings are strong enough should it really matter? or do people really ...

Ladies: do you think it's still there for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - I honestly am a very confused man who longs to make his wife happy. I thought my wife and I were happily married for many years and with 2 beautiful children things appeared to be working out well. She stays at home and although money i...

I need to leave an impression when I leave, but I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - I split with my ex 18 month ago I found out she was seeing someone else, I caused no trouble I walked away, we both work together etc as does the other guy but that hasn’t worked out. Since the split we have no really managed to find any common ...

I need smart opinions on how to handle this jerk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Ok, so me and my ex were finished 3 months ago. Somehow we managed to still keep in contact because of some important things. Sometimes we would be rude to each other on texts and send harsh words to each other. Later we will realize that we should ...

I've grown apart from my wife and am thinking of leaving

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - Hi, I have been married for the last seven years and been together for 12 years with my wife. Since our marriage we have 2 wonderful children. The first years were really good but over time with pressures of work and children we have grown apart. ...

I'm rethinking my decision to break up with my boyfriend, do you think there is still a chance for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I broke up just over a month ago now. we were in a very close and serious relationship, we loved each other very much and always had fun together. we didnt break up because of arguments or cheating, basically its because our rela...

Should I forgive his short temper and rekindle things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - When I first saw him three year ago, I thought he was the most handsome man I’ve ever laid my eyes on. He was charming. Very loving and caring. I thought because it’s a new love, he’s trying to charm me and after some time in our relationship, ...

Will he ever give me a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I was seeing a guy very seriously who had been single for many years...(18) and we were talking marriage, etc and I got nervous and just broke it off...NOW, I'm beating myself up for it.....I thought I was doing what was right by my kids, but didn't ...

It makes me so sad.. it used to be perfect and now he just ignores me..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I'm sad every day because my guy friend is ignoring me. We used to text ever day romantically and hang out now It feels as though my heart was ripped out.I can't grasp the fact that he changed. That he was able to intentionally hurt me and feel no ...

Don't average people get real love too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - i'm so sad! no one likes me enough for me to be their girl. I met a guy once, but he stopped contacting me after a few dates, another made it clear all he wanted was sex, another was way too clingy and i had to let him down. and so it goes on ...

He was "the one" but he cheated.. should I forgive him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - This thing is eating me inside out for almost a year now, so I decided to seek advice here. It is a long question, because it is a devastatingly complex issue for me. We met 6 yrs ago, clicked right away, talked for hours, ending eachother's sent...

Should I go back to this relationship? Will it last or will it fall apart again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - I need help in what to do, my ex boyfriend is asking me back but i dont know whether its a good idea. We met when i was 14 and he was 16 and since the day i saw him i wanted him this was in the summer on my trip to see my family. He finally asked my ...

At 9 pm he said "I love you" and at midnight, he said he never did!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - Well I was seeing a lad for 4 mouths, right then before we started going out, I told him I was moving to Scotland and he said it was fine. I fall in love with him and he fall in love with me. We was great together but then I said do u think it was ...

My boyfriend broke up with me in a very mean way, my mom's not accepting that I'm gay and I don't have a job! I feel like my life is falling apart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I'm new here and I need help, I'm gay and I have a bunch of problems now, I feel really stressed and lost, first of all my boyfriend broke up with me in a very very mean way, he told me really mean things that destroyed my heart, I really ...

I fell in love with a married woman. Should I continue being around her? Or should I stop any contact with her outside from work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

5 August 2009 (M) - I fell in love with a married woman, we started as a secret but in time we both fell in love, her husband found out about us kicked her out of the apartment and stayed with the kids, she was heart broken about not being able to stay with the kids ...

I'm tired of him being a liar and a player and I just want him out of my house.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

5 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has lived in my house 3.5 years. At first I paid his way, then in the last 1.5 years he paid mine. I own the house and he pays all the bills. At first I had money, now I don't and he has money. When I got tired of his daily emails...