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Archived questions from: November, 2006 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I just can't seem to get over him - how can I be strong about this break up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Am finding it really hard to get over my bf...we've been 2gether since Febr. and we've been seeing each others everyday untill earlier this month when he gradually stoped calling or caring...until I ended things (they were already over though) but I ...

My ex and I have the same friends, so I feel I can't confide in them. I feel so lonely - any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for five years now, but we were best friends for about 5 years before that. he has now decided he doesn't want to be with me any more and i don't know what to do. i really can't imagine my life without him...

I'm having an affair, his girlfriend knows about it, what am I suppose to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6592 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - i met a man that i used to go out with when i was younger,but i was married.To cut a long story short, i started an affair with him.My marriage came to an end,which was hell for me and my girl.This man isnt married but lives with someone.He has no ...

I know we're not ready for the relationship, so what should I be doing??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6596 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - I have a bit of a dilemma with my ex (we broke up 2 months ago). I want to be with him, but not right now because the timing is all wrong. We broke up mainly because he was depressed and homeless/jobless, but he's back on his feet again and seems ...

I cheated on her when drunk... how can I get her back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - Hi, i please need help i don't know what to do. i have been home one year now but i really wasn't content with my self, last week i got very drunk and cheated on my girlfriend, i know that this happened as a combo of my own state of mind and the ...

She changed for the worse and we seperated. But I still love her! How can I forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6596 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - Hi, everyone, I will appreciate your time and you advice on this please: I have been in relationship with my partner for 2 years. I have to say, from the first few months of knowing her I felt that we might not be right for each other, but I ke...

How do I let him know...we can work our relationship problems out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, to cut it short my boyfriend and I have split up. We have decided to go out tonight to see how it goes, pretty much make or break. I want to make it work and get him back, he feels the same but isn't sure whether it's right and whether ...

He left me b/c he said he was bi, then he came back! I love him, but I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6597 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - here is a gay related question. I was in a commited gay relationship for a few years long distance, now my partner several months back ended it saying that his feelings changed and that he thinks he is bi. Several months later while pic...

I want us to get back together but he's so non-committal! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - It's been over a year since my boyfriend and I broke up. I broke up with him, and broke his heart. I have missed him for months and just recently told him how I feel. I still love him and want to get back together. He told me he does not want to get ...

We broke up and now I think my aunt is trying to get us back together? How should I deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6578 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I had been dating this guy, 3 years my senior, for about a year and a half. and everything was great, but over this past summer, i broke up with him b/c i fell inlove with someone else. we had a really bad break-up, but we were on and off a little ...

We flirt..have sex occasionally..we talk on the phone for hours. Is this a normal friendship between ex lovers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Don't know what the status between me and my ex is! Are we just friends? We know each other inside out because of our long-term relationship, we do flirt a lot and occasionally end up doing sexual stuff, but we don't take anything we do very ...

I pushed him away before he could hurt me. Now I can't stop thinking about him..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6598 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I finished with someone after a couple of months but I can’t stop thinking about him. Ever insecure, I pushed him away before he could hurt me. Although he asked to remain friends he hasn’t replied to texts, picked up calls or responded to my ...

I want him back but he has an online gf! Should I ask him if he's serious about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6598 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hello, I am new to this. Currently my ex-boyfriend is infatuated with another in Washington, D.C. He lives in Ohio (same as I do). Our history is extensive, and he has been known to be fickle about everything, including women. He broke up with me...

He calls me and says he loves me but he lies so much! How do I get over this pain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Can you please help! I was in a relationship for 3 years and he kept cheating and telling all these people he met that he was single and wasn't with anyone. Then I found out that he was having an emotional relationship with this woman in Florida and ...

My ex keeps the rose gave me for our first month anniversary on his dresser - why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - My ex bf brought me a rose dipped in real gold in our first month of our relationship. Well we broke up like a month ago and and i gave him back the rose that he brought me the night we broke up. (man it was so hard giving that up it was so pretty...

He was holding her at a club - I went mental and now we might break up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Hi everyone, I need help and quick! My partner was in a club last night holding hands with a girl and holding her, but he claims they are just mates. I saw this and went mental and now we're on the verge of splitting up! I want him back but i don't ...

I don't know if our relationship is over for good. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend about 2 weeks ago told me that he wasn't sure what he wanted anymore and that he needed time. He is 30. I am giving him this time. But, I am so confused. He told a friend of his that he wants me to be more independent. I totally ...

Ex fiancee left me for a friend and both of them still play with my emotions. Why are they doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, My ex fiancee recently split from me after almost 5 years and jumped straight into a new sexual relationship with someone i thought was a friend. It hurt but im moving on however they feel the need to play mind games and toy with my ...

We broke up-he said he didn't love me. So why is it..I feel he still loves me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - You know how people say that you will know when your in love and when someone loves you........?! Well my bf and i just broke up and he told me that he dont love me and that he just wants to be friends for right now why is it that i feel tha...

He drinks and hurts me so we broke up! But he calls all the time--what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - I need help I broke off the relationship with this guy after a year of dating because he starts drinking an tries to hurt me bad and it happen like 3 time and I told him I cant take it any more I no he loves me but he dont no how to handle his ...

My ex bf broke it off but is mad/jealous when I am hanging around other guys! What's up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently broke up. He broke up with me and last night my friends and I went up to a popular bar. I went w/my best friend and her boyfriend(which is the ex's best friend) and my older sister and her friends, and we played pool for ...

I' m so confused by his behaviours! Are we friends or are we dating?? How does he feel towards me, now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - i just broke up with my boyfriend.he says he is not fit to be my boyfriend.he says that i m a good gf but he is not a gd bf.i try to convince him that he not a bad bf but then later on,i slowly accepted the fact.he say he does not want to call this ...

I am curious to know why he acted like he did!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - hi , does anyone know the answer to this one. have split with my boyfriend now, nut when i was with him, he used to get really trembly and nervy (not all the time , just sometimes) before we had sex, is this normal , part of the split was due to a...

Should I date guys, I'm not really interested in? Am I a 'user' if I dump them after giving it a whirl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - I have recently got back on the dating scene but am finding it difficult. I always seemed to get dumped by the guys i really like and the ones i don't like as much are really interested in me.. Does this often happen or am i just unlucky? Also ...

I thought he was fantastic until..I discovered he was trolling for women and sex on AdultFriendFinder! Now he wants to put this behind us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I recently discovered that my boyfriend had advertised himself for sex on adult friend finder. I have found this out through a long and torturous voyage of discovery. There have been a number of times when he promised he had now told me the whole ...

The guy I date won't leave the place he lives because--he lives with his current gf and her Mother! and he'd be homeless!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i have this bf and i really like him as he like the male version of me we been together a month but the problem is he live with his other gf and her mum he says he wants to leave her for me but if he does he will be homeless also he good friends ...

We have one child and he left and I still do not know why! It's like he gave up on us so easily. Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6599 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - we have separated after 10 years and one child and i still don't really know why??? i found out last year that my husband had kissed an old friend of mine whilst very drunk! i felt betrayed but would have given him the benefit of the doubt as he ha...

He broke it off and I never had a chance to air my feelings! Should I still tell him or just sit it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - hi recently split up from my boyfriend of 2 1/2 yrs, he saaid he 'thought' he loved me , but had decided he didnt? says he's still got feelings for me, still fancies me etc but doesnt love me. i dont feel ive had chance to air my feelings , talked t...

Should I end it with my bf and then tell this other guy how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i dont feel im connecting with my boyfriend of 1 year anymore. but i miss him when i leave him. i feel the time i spend with him is just like being good friends.n i feel its wasted when i leave because i should b thinking him as a boyfriend.i dont ...

Our relationship is missing the privacy we need! I'm distancing from him and I'm concerned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6599 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i've been going out with this guy for a year. i thought i was really in love with him. Hes started this job and now i hardly see him. i used to only see him at weekends bt now i only see him for maybe and hour and a half a week. im completely bored ...

Need advice on how to get over my bf! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6600 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Please, please, please help me! I dont know what to do. My boyfriend recently broke up with me and every time I start 2 get over him i see something that reminds me of him and I burst into tears! I need help. I can't go on without him! pls im ...

I have a fiancee and a child but-there's this other guy. Do I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - Well i have been with my fiancee for 2 years and we have a 1 yr old child together. When we first got together i realized i knew my fiancess best friend from a couple months before i had actually met my fiance! well we would talk once in a while and ...

He's difficult to be around-not sure of our future together. How do I talk to him about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 20 years of age. We've been together for 2years and few months now. He used to be a nice person generally but lately he has become rude. He speaks disrespectfully about people and expects me to side with him otherwise the ...

My ex bf is a player..I want him back so do I wait until he changes or should I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I don't know what I want from this guy! We've been on and off for a year. We've been bf and gf, sex buddies and friends and none of them seem to work. The relationship was the best, but when things got too hard it fell apart as neither of us were ...

It's been 3 month..not sure if I can ever trust him again! How long should I go before giving this up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I was dating long distance (on/off) and realised that my partner was kissing other girls at clubs occassionally,so we broke up. Now he is back home and we've started dating again, but things aren't the same for me because i sometimes think about ...

It was supposed to no strings sex but--I've let myself become attached and now-he dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - hi i need some advice pls. i was with my ex for nearly 3 years and we split up about 4 months ago. when we were together we had our ups and downs split up but always got back together. latley hes been in contact sayin our sex was amazing and we ...

The sensible thing to do is make a clean break but...I don't want to hurt him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - Hi there. I split up with my ex boyfriend 18 months ago. He didn't want to break up because he loved me. I was honest that I didn't feel the same, but I care for him a lot as he is a kind, good and genuine person. We have tried being friends si...

I want my husband back! What can I do to convince him, that our marriage is worth it? Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I need advice on how to get my husband back. He left three weeks ago to stay at a friend's place. We were together ten years before our marriage four months ago. He wanted out three weeks before the wedding, but we still got married. He was a virgin ...

I feel used! I trusted him and he dumped me! How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i have this huge problem! i was going out with this guy for almost a month, then all a sudden he dumped me! not sure exactly why, but i figured out that it was becasue hes not totaly over his ex (he still loves her). of corse im totaly hurt because ...

I am afraid I may lose my bf because of my parents! How do I get them all to get along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - I am a 19 year old female. During highschool, I had a steady boyfriend for two years. I was devestated when he broke up with me on my 16th birthday and I had a hard time getting back to living my normal life. He left for school, I immersed myself in ...

I need to reject my ex bf's advances? How do I overcome all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I need to learn self-control when it comes to my ex, as he certainly won't. It seems all he wants to be is friends with me, then he'll get with me as soon as he's single because he thinks I'm a great shag. I have some feelings for him still but I ...

Is this guy playing me for a fool or...does he really want me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my bf about 9 months ago. even after all this time, it still hurts as if it were yesterday. We have had alot of ups and downs since our break-up, things that have made the situation even worse at times. There are times when we can ...

I have chosen to 'avoid' my ex bf and his new gf..friends tell I am behaving rudely! Is this wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (F) - I was with my my ex for about ten years. When we broke up he moved on to someone else really quickly. Although I was really hurt I have wanted nothing to do with him since the breakup. I felt that because he replaced me so fast I wanted him out of ...

He said he still likes me but also told me ..not to tell anyone! Not sure if I want to get back with him!

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24 November 2006 (?) - HELP!!! im soo lost i dont know what to do. i had a bf for about 3 months, we really liked each other for awhile before we went out and although we only went out for a couple of months, we were both in love with each other . we broke up because ...

I broke it off with my cold hearted gf..but I find the loss so hard to cope with! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6102 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - Hi, everyone, I have been in relationship with my partner for 2 years. I have to say, from the first few months of knowing her I felt that we might not be right for each other, as I started to read some signs which wasn't feeling right!, but I ke...

I think she is seeing someone else and she is brushing me off. I think I love her but is it too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - Hello, I am 28yrs old, have been in many relationships. I started dating a 32 year old about 2 months ago. Things were going great with us, so I thought...one day she was upset at the fact that I was not being affectionate with her and didn't k...

Is he trying to break if off or get me to do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Is he trying to break if off gently? After three years and much talk of a future together including marriage; my BF has gone to live abroad for work reasons ; for the past six months he has been very detached sexually and emotionally ; never wa...

We're from two different worlds, is it worth another go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - After several years of dating the player type of man, and getting severely hurt...I finally started dating someone who was serious about me. However, we are from different cultures, and I can't help but feel he is less of a person than I (we are t...

I need to get over him, I dont want to, but i have to! Its proving impossible..help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6603 days ago

23 November 2006 (?) - hey im 17, i seriously need to get over my ex! when we went out everything was perfect, and i fell in love with him. he told me he loved me too and that there was no other girl out there he could see himself with, but it wasnt long untill everything ...

He cheated on me twice then asked his friend to tell me, it was over! I still feel for him though and I want to know why he did this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6602 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - About a month ago, I was 'dumped' by my 1 year boyfriend. He has told his friends he has cheated on me twice, and his friends told me. I am absolutely appauled. Even so, I still feel something for him. He has not spoken to me since the break-up...