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writes: Is he trying to break if off gently?After three years and much talk of a future together including marriage; my BF has gone to live abroad for work reasons ; for the past six months he has been very detached sexually and emotionally ; never wanting to kiss or cuddle; never wanting sex; saying he has too many work problems and too much on his mind to be turned on .. I was very patient although it was a very frustrating thing to live with; the last straw came when he told me over the phone that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me once he sorts out his finances however has reconsidered getting married and wants us just to live together..I told him I need a commitment from him since its bad enough living so far apart; seeing each other once every couple of months and not having any intimacy .. I felt he was being very selfish so I told him not to call me anymore if he is looking to break it off; what do you think? Am i right in thinking he's just passing the buck and making me break up because he hasnt got the guts to do it himself? Reply to this Question
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reader, Starkiss +, writes (24 November 2006):
 I think he has found someone else and that he is useing you. good for you girl for breaking it off before it gets worse.
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