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writes: Hi everyone, I need help and quick! My partner was in a club last night holding hands with a girl and holding her, but he claims they are just mates. I saw this and went mental and now we're on the verge of splitting up! I want him back but i don't want his friend getting in the way, I've tried being nice to her but she just ignores me like she has a problem with me! I just want my boyfriend back witout being paranoid and uncomfortable with his girly mate. Any ideas? We're going to talk it through tonight and this isn't the first time we've argued about her. Please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, sexseahot  +, writes (27 November 2006):
 I think I would probably act the same way you did. If he is YOUR partner, he really doesn't have any business holding hands with some other girl or holding her in any way, unless of course, there was a short hug or something, but this doesn't sound like anything just friendly. Just politely ask him not to do these actions anymore.
How would he feel if some other guy was holding you in any way? I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate it either. There really isn't any need to be holding anyone except for you. If he has a problem with that, then maybe you should let him go. You don't want to live your life like that always wondering if he's doing something behind your back or who he's holding now. That's not a way a relationship should be. If you ask him to quit, he should respect your wishes if he really wants to be with you.
Good Luck!!!
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reader, SexKitten69  +, writes (27 November 2006):
 HI, it sound like a little more than friendship is going on with this 'girl'.
Fact is if you stay together you are going to be constantly paranoid about this girly friend and being paranoid is not the way to live your life!
When you talk to him seriously ask him what the deal was with this girl and maybe suggest that he doesn't see her again?....
Try a bit of time together to hopefully cement your relationship.
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