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writes: Hello, I am new to this.Currently my ex-boyfriend is infatuated with another in Washington, D.C. He lives in Ohio (same as I do). Our history is extensive, and he has been known to be fickle about everything, including women. He broke up with me a few months ago, claiming he wanted to date around. He met this woman at a convention, and since then has gone and on about her. But he only see's her maybe once a month, although he talks to her online all the time. What hurts is that he and I were once thick as thieves, but naturally when you're together a lot, things aren't always perfect. Well, I think he has it in his mind that things should be a certain all the time (always happy, always perfect, etc.). Now he tells me things like "I feel like I've known her my whole life," and, the worst "She's a lot like you," ... which makes it sound as though she's all the aspects of me he loves, which would mean when I'm probably in a good mood and things are fine in our lives. But I can't be in a good mood all the time! She and he don't share bills, upsets, family problems, etc. I know everyone says I should just forget about him, but I do love him very much. I have been afraid to ask him if he's serious with this girl. If he is, then I will stop trying to "pursue" him again (I do try still, letting him know I love him, and so on. Nothing extreme, but definitely letting him know there is space in my heart left open just for him). What should I do? Should I ask him if he's serious with her? I will stop if he is, because I don't want to made to look like a fool. I just don't want to give up too soon.Thanks, please respond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2006): Why do you want to get back with him when he says he wants to date others?
If you get back with him there is a likelihood that he may cheat to fulfil his want and need to date others.
If i was you i would move on. You love him but he can't love you or he wouldn't of let you go. Accept it - HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.
Sorry to be so blunt but life is too short to waste on someone who clearly wants to play the field and have fun. Could you really go along with this? I wouldn't!!!!
Some come on, let go, you never know if you give up the chase he may come to his senses and see you as the one he wants to truly be with.
Take care
xx
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