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writes:hey im 17, i seriously need to get over my ex! when we went out everything was perfect, and i fell in love with him. he told me he loved me too and that there was no other girl out there he could see himself with, but it wasnt long untill everything fell apart, like we didnt talk as much as we did, we had secrets from each other, and we didnt trust each other. in the end we just wasnt treating each other right. when we broke up he told me he still loved me, but it wasnt enough. so i had to accept it and walk away gracefully.a couple of weeks later he had a new gf. after he told me forever and that he loved me, he replaced me so soon after the split. but i still loved him. i thought i could get over him and i slowly did untill he started giveing me attention again like he would stroke my leg if we sat next to each other and touch me up. as you can proberbly gess i started to fall for him again and this time alot harder. but suddenly he stoped everything, i think his gf found out.i dont know why but i feel like we have just broken up all over again even though i know it ment nothing to him, it ment everything to me. i wish i could tell him that i still love him, but i cant because i know he dont feel the same way. he really really likes his new gf.i know i need to get over him, i dont want to, but i have to, because it hurts too much. what can i do, its proveing impossible. please help.
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reader, Sally R. Cinnamon +, writes (23 November 2006):
 the pain of ending a relationship with someone you love is great indeed. most readers won't need your explanation "it hurts too much", they will know only too well how severe this pain is.
i think you are already part of the way there, because you realise that you HAVE TO get over your ex. keep reminding yourself, this is a trial in your life that you HAVE TO get through, you have to succeed at, and that there are rewards the other side for getting through this.
some simple, practical things can help - busy yourself for the time being with other friends, reduce the amount of time you have for thinking about and getting upset over your ex, get rid of things that remind you of him, avoid places where you will see him. and slowly things ***will*** get better.
going through an experience like this is good in many, many ways. i cant tell you necessarily what those things will be, because this is your journey and it may be very different to mine. but im sure that one day not too far away you will be able to look back and be glad of this experience. it will make you who you will be tomorrow.
its difficult to say much more, hold on in there!
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