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Should I date guys, I'm not really interested in? Am I a 'user' if I dump them after giving it a whirl?

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Question - (26 November 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 November 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I have recently got back on the dating scene but am finding it difficult. I always seemed to get dumped by the guys i really like and the ones i don't like as much are really interested in me.. Does this often happen or am i just unlucky? Also should i carry on seeing the one I am not so interested in case the feelings come in time? If they don't and i end it would that make me a user???

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A female reader, pica +, writes (26 November 2006):

I think that if after a few dates you've decided you don't really like someone you should not see them again. It's not fair on them and you can't really enjoy the dates, surely. I think casual dating after a break-up is a great idea - keep going.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006):

This is called "Casual dating" - nothing serious. Just giving yourself a chance to test out different flavors before choosing one that suits your ongoing tastes.

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A male reader, Abacadaba United Kingdom +, writes (26 November 2006):

Abacadaba agony auntplay the field, you might not be interested in somebody untill you get to know them, so date them and get to know them, you might find out you are interested in them, good luck :)

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