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Archived questions from: December, 2016 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Do gay men ever fantasize about women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2886 days ago

31 December 2016 (M) - Am wondering about something, Am straight, an fantasize , about what it would be like to suck a guy off, it really turns me on,do guys who are gay,ever fantasize about having sex with a woman, ...

Messy situation with my housemate...we had sex and were almost a couple and now he doesn't want anything to do with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2882 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - I need help! I've gotten myself into a really stupid situation with a guy and I have no idea how to behave with him! I moved into a new place around 7 months ago, sharing with three new housemates. I'd initially thought one of them (a guy) was...

Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

28 December 2016 (M) - Is it wrong for a man to look at and flirt with women other than his significant other? Why or why not?...

How can I help my autistic brother have a normal life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

28 December 2016 (F) - I would like some advice on what to do when you're autistic, aware of the way you differ from other 'normal' people, but still want to have a normal life that involves getting a job and a partner? I am asking on behalf of my brother because ...

What should I do to meet the right guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

25 December 2016 (F) - Hi everyone, I am feeling like I'll never find someone. I am South Asian American and south Asian guys don't like me, or maybe I think they don't like me. Or I just don't like them. My parents want me to be with someone who shares my culture but I...

Go out on New Year's Eve alone? Is it safe?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2884 days ago

25 December 2016 (M) - The last 5 years I've been single and primarily friendless so I've stayed in watching tv trying to convince myself I wasn't bored. This year I'm still single, but my friends are coupled or will be out of town and I just can't stand the thought of ...

Was I right to call this woman a silly old trout over her cashmere jumper?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - Today me my husband and my severly disabled son when into a fish a chip shop restaurant. My son got hold of one of those small squeeezy packets of sauce, (he can grab at people and throw things so we always try to sit well away from people. )We were ...

No present - what should I do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2890 days ago

24 December 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of four years did not give me a Christmas present this year. Should I be upset? Because I am. Should I say something to him?...

My Bf has been talking to a younger woman. Where to now? After all I've done for him, why did he do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2895 days ago

21 December 2016 (F) - Hi I have a BF for 3 years, monogamous relationship. That is what I thought. My Bf has an habit to lie. Lie about small and big things. We are on and off due this because I caught him then he apologized then I forgive then again he lies and so o...

How can I stop her spreading false rumours ? How can I get her to fess up and tell the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2897 days ago

20 December 2016 (F) - I had a friend who I used to be close to some years back. I used to babysit her children when she was in hospital free of charge and generally be helpful. As the years passed the friendship changed. I moved to a more distant area and she rarely ...

Why has he turned cold?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

19 December 2016 (F) - I've been friends with benefits with a guy for nearly three years. He not seen anyone else and nor have I. Over the coming months he been kissing my forehead, or holding my hand after sex. Recently we had sex and he we were talking and came over and ...

I need to stop his demands

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

19 December 2016 (F) - Hi, i have been sharing for some time with a friend. He start looking for me and sharing with me. But it become a friend with benefits relationship, which i see was a mistake. Although he told me he isnt dating other girls, i dont believe him. A ...

We disagree about matter of religion! Any advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

19 December 2016 (F) - Hi everyone! I thought it might be a good idea to hear some impartial opinions on an issue I have been dealing with in my relationship. So my boyfriend and I are both Christian, though I only decided to be baptized when i was 14 while he ...

I always end up forgiving people who offend me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - Hello :). I have a question. I wonder, no matter how much I get angry to those people who offend me, I always end up on forgiving them. I remember this one situation when one of my friends had a fight and to my extreme shock I was involved and I wa...

Is it my fault I can't make a man love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - There are numerous books titled, "Make any man fall in love with you," or "Make any man want you" with things explaining how to make it happen. I haven't ever tried the advice from these books on anyone yet. These books make it seem like making...

I really hate my name

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - My birth name is Sarah, and it makes me sick. This is a trivial problem compared to some of the things people are dealing with, but I REALLY hate the name. I'm not a kid going through a phase. Ever since I can remember, I have always resented ...

I want him to be more assertive in bed

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

18 December 2016 (F) - I'm going out with someone who's very quiet during sex and it turns me off. I sort of like this person, but in bed, while I'm sucking him he just stays there, eyes closed like a Buddha ( and he takes forever to come, like 30 plus minutes, Is that ...

How can I be so hung up on someone I barely know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

17 December 2016 (F) - I'm finding things really hard. It's just who I am but I seem to get so hung up on people. Recently met a guy and had a really great first date. He asked me to his for our second date and he cooked a meal for me. It was really great and i didn...

How do I play this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

17 December 2016 (M) - I have this co-worker and I like her but the huge problem is she is also dating and has a child with another co-worker. They have been dating for a while. So, anyway they are going through a rough patch and thats putting it very loosely. Well, ...

My boyfriend can't control his intake of alcohol

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

17 December 2016 (F) - Ok so I have been seen this guys for almost 4 years now. On and off at first (we broke up 4 times and both went looking somewhere else. But would still kept in contact and talk about who we have been sleeping with, then have sex together. Unless one ...

Is it okay to schedule a family picture session during a friend’s wedding weekend? We are paying our own way!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2896 days ago

16 December 2016 (F) - Sorry this question isn't really dating related...but I used to come here years ago before I got married and couldn't think of any other advice columns. I will keep it short. Wedding etiquette... we're going to be in Florida late winter for a fri...

I need help with my retroactive jealousy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

13 December 2016 (M) - Hi, sorry for my bad english in advance. I’m with my girlfriend since 6 month, we know each other since we are in middle school. After that she go in another school and in an other high school in the same town. We are now both 20 years old, ...

Dogs versus the Christmas with family? I'm so angry right now, what do I do? I'm 32.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2895 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - I'm so annoyed right now. I've invited my parents to my house for Christmas but they've declined because I won't allow them to bring their dogs. They have 3 huge dogs and I don't want them in my house. I cannot believe they would rather sit alon...

How can I deal with this? I'm straight but still confused about my sexuality.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2846 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - I'm a 25yr old women and I'm attracted towards androgynous/tomboy women. But I'm straight. 2 weeks before While I was at train station I saw this lady with sharp boyish personality and I went on noticing her continuously, she was attractive and f...

Why am I ignored?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - Why were there so many cliques at the work christmas party last saturday? Im not in any clique... I Try to say hi and be polite..to all, am quieter at times but am (quietly assertive and am mostly friendly at work) some people ignored me ...

Do I tell my new boyfriend what happened to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - How do you tell your friend now boyfriend you was put in a bad position on a date and dont trust new men around you or talking to you? I had a really bad experience not that long ago and only told 1 person but i dont want to bug them with my probl...

I want people's opinions on friendships with the opposite sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

12 December 2016 (F) - My friends and I were having a discussion the other day about opposite sex friendships and dating. I was curious about the different perspectives of opposite sex friendships. My guy friends argued that a woman with a lot of guy friends is unaware ...

I'd like to offer her some money, but not sure how she'll take it

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2900 days ago

11 December 2016 (M) - a girl moved into the apartment below me in the same building as me (unit of 6 apartments). she has 2 kids aged 3 and 5, throughout the year we exchanged numbers, talked about things mostly info about the apartment or how to fix something etc. ...

I'm not good at sport. How can I convince my BF not to watch me playing sport?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

11 December 2016 (F) - I'm not very good at the sport I play, I'm embarressingly bad. My boyfriend insisted he'd come to one of my games, and he's coming to my game on Wednesday. I don't really want him to come, seeing as he's really into his sport and he'll be pretty ...

Is it weird to give my boyfriend a personalised key ring with a photo of myself on it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2902 days ago

10 December 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, living together for 1. We both work full time, and despite being together for a long time have very few photos of the two of us together - and the photos we do have are not necessarily good ones. Anyw...

Feelings for my late husband's brother

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2907 days ago

9 December 2016 (F) - Hey, I am in a messy situation and not sure what to do at this point. I would like to make it less complicated, and I have no clue how to proceed. My husband passed away almost over a year ago from an accident. I was fortunate enough to be lov...

How can I keep safe on New Year's Eve when I will be alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

9 December 2016 (F) - I am going to the heart of my city to see theater show on NYE, am catching a bus due to traffic.. is this safe as a single woman alone.? I am alone caching a bus home after the show at 10.30-11pm, before midnights events/fireworks etc.. there will...

I don't know how to fight back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

8 December 2016 (F) - Hi again guys. Actually, I'm so troubled right now. It's about on not fighting back. I mean, I wasn't being bullied or something. It's just that everytime there are people who gossips about me or asking me for a fight I decline. It's not that I'm a ...

I need some advice for a last minute trip to a London gig

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2906 days ago

8 December 2016 (F) - Hi. I hope someone can give advice on this trip. I am thinking of going to London tomorrow night to see a gig, but it's all pretty much last minute. I only found out a couple of days ago that someone was selling two tickets for the gig. Origina...

We've never met but after three months of chatting she says she loves me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2904 days ago

8 December 2016 (M) - There is a woman whom I met online, who lives in another country. We communicated for quite a bit of time without meeting in person. After about 3 months of emailing, and one Skype call, she told me she loved me. She asked how I felt. I said I liked ...

What does it mean when someone refers to you in the third person?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2903 days ago

8 December 2016 (F) - What does it mean when someone talks to you about you but makes you the third person ??? What is the psychology behind taking to me but as the third person?? I know alot of people who talk about themselves as the third person. But what I'm asking is ...

My supervisor is shattering my confidence

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2909 days ago

7 December 2016 (F) - Hi all, I need your help. I was working for a company for two years and my supervisor was so abusing, I leraned that 6 people left before me after few months however I tolerated for 2 years and was doing extremely well. I was really overwhelmed one ...

I like her in 'that' way but she has a boyfriend and I'm not in a position to date right now either. How do I stop myself from falling for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2905 days ago

6 December 2016 (M) - Over the last year or so, I became good friends with this woman I work with. We get along really well, but I don't see or talk to her often outside of work, or anything like that, though. I think I'm starting to like her a little more; actually, ...

How can I stop being addicted to love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

6 December 2016 (F) - How can one make love not so important? It seems that I'm always thinking about love (I'm single) and thirty 32 but ever since I can remember it's always been 90 percent of my life- I've lost jobs for men - I've gotten into arguments with my family ...

Could his tongue be different?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2910 days ago

5 December 2016 (F) - This may sound a bit of a strange thing to say but is it possible for people to have big tongues and this would affect them kissing. I've just started seeing this man and when we kissed it felt like he had a massive tongue which made kissing a bit ...

Exactly what is it he is asking, when he asks, "what do you want?"

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2911 days ago

5 December 2016 (F) - I really really really like this guy. We've been seeing each other and talking and everything is wonderful. He asked me what I want a few times. In fact he said he wants me to think of what is it I want in the next few weeks..And I have no idea what ...

He's a stay-at-home guy. I'm not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

4 December 2016 (F) - So i have been with my parter 4 years lived together for 3, generally its all very positive we spend a lot of time together and have a great connection. Hes funny and caring and we get on so well but there are somethings that i worry about in terms ...

A brief thing with a colleague ended. Am I over reacting - should I be feeling so guilty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2913 days ago

4 December 2016 (F) - A while ago I had a brief thing with a colleague and friend which ended a bit badly because he led me on and it's still kind of awkward but getting back to normal. He has a good friend at work, and so do I, and we all kind of hang around together...

My mother in law always sides with her son regardless of how badly he treats me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

4 December 2016 (F) - I have recently had an argument with my mother in law my severely disabled son attacked me , he pulled my hair and my head back and forth several times, I now have terrible pains on my back and neck. I can cope with that but during the attack m...

I'm struggling to leave a bad relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

4 December 2016 (F) - Hello I'd like some advice.This is probably all going to sound ridiculous but here goes. I am stuck in a bad relationship it has been bad since the very beggining my partner has done terrible things to me emotionally and physically and I've alw...

My fiance has been offered a job in America

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

3 December 2016 (F) - Hi everyone Just came here for some advice really... So I been with my fiancé for eight years, we have a child together who is six, My fiancé has been offered a job but it will mean moving to America permanently, which will mean all of us goin...

My girlfriend has become very self centred

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

3 December 2016 (M) - I'm 25 years old and I work in ems/fire. I've been having troubles with my girlfriend recently. I feel like she is becoming very controlling due to the fact she doesn't even live with me but yet gets mad when I have friends over or my dad and brot...

How do I get over this rough patch?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

3 December 2016 (M) - I feel so down today. I had no one to share it with so I came on here. I guess it's just a couple of things that have got to me. I have been working full time for a year, and this December within 3 days my whole months salary has gone leaving me ...

Can I trust his cousin?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

3 December 2016 (F) - So, I'm dating this guy who is a year younger than me. And it's a long distance relationship, where I've never seen him before although we video chat a lot. He is kind, caring and sweet. I sometimes communicate with his favorite cousin, who is older ...

Think I love mother and daughter

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2912 days ago

3 December 2016 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a woman 18 years older than me. Lately we have been growing apart, the age difference and different interests are the main reasons. Her daughter, is 4 years younger then me. I'm 35. Her daughter and I have a great ...