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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I love him, but I'm really lonely and miss my friends and family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Hey If anyone can give me some advice I'd appreciate it so much. I went backpacking to Australia 2 years ago and met and fell in love with an Aussie. Things have been so good and still are only now I'm lonely. I love our relationship but we do not ...

If you won money, how much would you give your guardian?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, This is not a relationship question, it's a "what if" question. Ok, let's say you are 17 years old and you've been living with somebody like a guardian since you were 16, you don't have any parents, and you pay the person $300 ever...

Ladies: Do you wear stockings underneath your clothing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Just a quick question to all those ladies out there. Does anyone actually ever wear stockings underneath their clothes (like on t.v and in movies) or do people just wear leggings? The reason I ask is because if true then... ;-). But anyone I've ever ...

What's going on with this guy? He's playing games with me and I cant figure out what the deal is with him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - My question: Is he really sick or did he stand me up? Our history: I met this guy online last year. We talked for 2 weeks and then went out for a dinner date. After the date, he kept insisting that I want to have sex with him. I told him that we...

I have an athletic body, but no boobs. Are my friends right about the comments, I'm now self conscious guys will be put off!!?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I feel really self conscious about my body after the comments from people I live with at uni, now I think they're right that a guy wont like my body or maybe I should get surgery, or gain weight, anything to change myself. I'm not that tall, only ...

How do I get this balance right between wanting to be myself and neither be a doormat or too much like his ex? I want to be appropriately assertive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone, I've asked for help before about a relatively new relationship and it was so helpful - but I have another question please... my confidence is still a bit low in regard to relationships because I had a very difficult one for a ver...

Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...

Do you believe a mans view on a woman can change?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - If a man has been nothing but disrepsectful for most or all of his years, (since puberty to say) do you truly believe they could see women than more than boobs and ass? Do you believe a man could change and accept a woman properly if theyve had this ...

Am I overreacting to my boyfriend spending so much time taking care of his parents?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and half. We are both adults. We both love each other and he has given me a ring. I have not met his parents yet, but I have met two of his siblings and his family is aware of our relation...

I am going crazy obsessing over the thought of watching my wife with another woman.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4472 days ago

28 September 2012 (M) - My wife and I have been together for over six years and have a wonderful family and life together. We are deeply in love and I would like to think be together forever. We have a great and fulfilling sex. One of the issues early in our relationship ...

Do these kind of men ever change???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - for about 6 months now, this married man and i have been fooled around. i have developed a lot of feeling for him. he lives away from me, so i only get to see him once or twice a month. recently ive learned that there are several other women hes ...

I think I've found the one. What should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I think i have finally found my soulmate. I do a class at my gym, been doing it for about a year now. Our instructor arranged a fitness holiday in july to Turkey. On the holiday i got really friendly with girl from our class and we really hit it o...

A girl I had sex with is pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4474 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - Girl i know is pregnant? well there is this girl that i slept with on aug 27, i(A) did not ejactulate in her at all, she told me that she slept with another guy (B) in the same week which was on august 29 and 30, comes to find out on that she is p...

Why does she lie about her past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - My girlfriend, now my wife, had only two sexual partners before we met. I’m several years, 17 in fact, older than her and we now have a young son. She told me about her previous boyfriends without me asking. The first one, a very bad experience for ...

Is he just putting on a show, or is he really moving on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4475 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago. He loves me a lot. The breakup is due to religion differences. After the breakup, he was upset for a while. After that it seems that his life is back to normal. He posted pictures of him going out with ...

I recently met two great guys and can't decide. Should I just date both of them at the same time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4472 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I don't think i'm doing anything wrong, not yet anyways. I need to make a decision, which I think deep down I know I've already made but it's the wrong one. So i'm hoping someone can help out. I've never been a girl to care for dating more than...

How can I help my depressed boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4475 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - Hey everybody. My boyfriend goes through periods of depression. I've experienced similar things in the past so to some extent I understand how it is. Sometimes I find it difficult to know what to do when he goes through these stages. Often we'l...

Girls love talking to me, but when they see me it all changes! Will it be like this for the rest of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4475 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - I feel so down its unbelievable. Im a really positive person, even if i have major problems going on I can ignore them and still smile and be positive. But i cant avoid the truth though, i dont seem to ever feel like anyone is attracted to me. Im i...

We have to "like" everything posted in the company Facebook group or get our paycheck deducted. But I was deleted from the group!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I posted here last week. I'm quitting a part time job that requires a one month notice and I have about 2.5 weeks left at this job. We recently signed a notice that says we have to "like" all notices posted on the employee Facebook group or we will ...

I feel like he ought to have gone more out of his way for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hey, I would like others point of view. My boyfriend lives about 90 mikes away and I see him most weekends. The other day I stayed over his and live about a 20 minute drive from his I currently don't have a car. It was really heavily raining an...

I always think about my ex's in my relationships and I can never be satisfied with the present, and its stopping me from falling in love! What is wrong with me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I don't know what's wrong with me, but please help me out! When I start dating a new guy, I always think about my exes and I don't feel happy because I'm thinking of/comparing him to the previous guy. It's like I can never be satisfied with the ...

We were getting close after she broke up with her boyfriend but now she's said she isnt sure if she can love anyone else. What is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

26 September 2012 (M) - So here am I in a new dilemma... The situation is like this, she isn't with her bf anymore because he betrayed her.. She had a 5yr relationship with him.. But now she ended up with him! Its been 5months we have been with each other.. (not in ...

My married lover has moved on to another girl and I am so hurt, what should I do now?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I have been cheated by my married Lover, he has moved on to a "new girl"(another victim).he has completely removed me from his life,We both are in the same office, spend 8 hrs together, sitting besides each other, but we dont speak at all. he cut ...

How do I tell my family that I'm a lesbian?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I'm a 17, going on 18, year old female... I come from a pretty tight knit family. I am currently living with my oldest sister in North Texas. Me and my sister both are from southern Texas. I've had a total of 2 boyfriends in my life, never really ...

I cant handle all this drama anymore, is this normal behaviour for a man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is interested in buying a second hand suit (not really a suit, but just for the story's sake we'll say it's a suit). I went to look at it with him. It seems nice. I have a seamstress whom I trust very much. I told my boyfriend that ...

Am I being set up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Just need to know that i'm not being set up by an amature. He lives at home and is 5yrs older than i am and to adding to the scenario he has never been w/anyone. first time out I had called him. things moved too fast and already L word was in the ...

We are excited about our future together, but I cant help feeling miserable because it wont be happening any time soon!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I am in a great relationship with my boyfriend. We both have the same kind of aspirations and have talked about moving in together/getting married/having children and so on. Thing is, these similar aspirations make me impatient because we're no...

My boyfriend is struggling with work, how can I help him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4477 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend is having a difficult time with work at the moment ~ he's stuck in a job that he really dislikes and he sometimes gets quite depressed over it. Basically his job is very repetitive and makes him feel unfulfilled ~ he's trying to break ...

Am I just suffering from the 'grass-is-greener' syndrome? I am so disappointed with myself for not being able to find a man that fits me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I have been in two long-term relationships for most of my adult life. In my first marriage, I was pretty much starved for conversation, as my husband wasn't much of a talker. When he got home at night I'd ask how his day went, he'd grunt without ...

Am I bound by this contract?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I live and am employed in California. When we were hired, we signed a contract stating we must give a 1 months notice before quitting. I want to leave as soon as possible because I have a new job offer but I still have to stay an extra month. Do I ...

Long Distance to Married w Kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I've been dating a man for 11 months now. It is a long distance relationship but we see each other every two weeks for four days at a time or more and we talk every night. It didn't take long after we first started dating to start talking about a ...

What should I do on my 19th birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4478 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - my 19th birthday is in 2 months and i have no idea what to do!i like to get drunk and have a good time but i dont know where to go or what to do does anybody have any ideas?...

How do you stay positive when you're single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - How do you stay positive when you're single? I see all of my friends and some of my exes, happy anHow do I get my husband to stop being so insecure ?d in relationships... Don't get me wrong, I'm truly VERY happy for them and wouldn't wish anything ...

I fancy famous females as well as guys, am I bi or just straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - Hi! I basically have an issue with my sexuality, I do not know anymore whether I am bisexual or straight. Before around the time of May/June this year, I've always been certain I was heterosexual. I'd never been attracted to a female in the sli...

Is there such a thing as true love? Does it exist?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - Hi. So i got a real quick question to ask. Does true love really exist? or is it just what people create when they are in public in order to hide their problems? I mean ive never experienced true love myself neither do my parents. They are always on ...

How can I convince my parents that not getting another dog is the right choice for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

24 September 2012 (M) - My rat terrier is 15 years old and I got him when I was 12 years old. It was great having a dog growing up but after he dies, I do not want another dog. My problem is my parents are making a big deal about me not getting another dog after he die...

Should we let our friend make the same mistake or bring our concerns to her attention?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

24 September 2012 (?) - My sister in law and best friend was previously married to her high school sweetheart, but she had given him an ultimatum before he proposed and he asked for a divorce eighteen months later. No one liked him, friends or family, the unanimous ...

Should I have another child or pursue a career?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I just turned 36 and my husband is 50 and we have a 6 year’s old beautiful smart son together. Our marriage is not 100% perfect but it is ok. We have some financial issues at this moment but down the road we are in a good shape. My husband has a ...

Is it possible that my virgin girlfriend was assexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4478 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - Is this possible for my girlfriend to have been an asexual, she hasn't had sex yet and I asked her why that is (just curious why people don't) and she said she never felt that attraction to have sex with anyone until she came to university. She said ...

Did he slip up and is now trying to cover it up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Try to assess this boyfriend of mine. My boyfriend (36) and I (32) have been dating for 2 months. He is overly eager to please, always apologetic if I look upset, wants to text even at work, in general always sweet to me. Shares that he has his ...

What should I do about this resentment that he won't try to lose the weight he has gained?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - In March, I started dating a guy I've known for 4-5 years. In may, I decided that I wanted to lose weight and since then, I've lost about 25 pounds, but here's the problem. My boyfriend was about 20 pounds overweight when we made it official, but ...

How do couples handle arguments, fights and disagreements?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4477 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I am curious to know how couples handle it when they have an argument, fight, disagreement etc. Do you just go off seperately into another room to calm down afterwards? I ask because my bf and i had a argument. It was about something small ...

Is it normal to have 2 inches of extra condom length at the penis tip? Am I using the condom correctly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

22 September 2012 (M) - Hello friends, This a question about proper condom usage. I am an uncircumsized guy and I am not sure if I am using a condom properly. I follow all the general steps in putting on a condom and then use a fleshlight to masturbate (http:/...

He says I am the problem, but doesn't want me to get help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Well now where do i begin.. I've been married for 4 for starters total of 4 kids (2 from previous 10 yr relationship) I've known my husband for a total of 12 years altho we've only been together 6 we were friends before. My problem.. when he gets ...

Why do I still love her this much to this day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

21 September 2012 (M) - Alright, I feel really stupid for asking this one. My ex girlfriend and I broke up three years ago and haven't spoke for a year or so. She went to be with a man that she started seeing as we fell apart. I mean, we were F buddies when they hit it ...

Have you ever split from ex, one or both of you moved on, but later got back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4473 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - Question for anyone whos been through this........ Have you ever split from an ex where one of you has got into another relationship , engaged even, and then ended it because you and your ex were meant to be together? and then got back together? ...

Why do guys like this only want us for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I like a guy, but I'm not entirely sure what his motives are. He definately likes me back in some way or form - he watches me quite a lot, comes over to me a lot, has kissed me on the cheek a few times... But my friend says he just wants me for sex....

I've been caught stealing and my employers know about it, they have given me 2 options, so what do I do now?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4479 days ago

21 September 2012 (M) - I have been working for my company as a new business rep for 4 and a half years and always been good. I normally get my lunch from a supermarket down the road from my office but about a month ago, i had some fraud done on my bank and while it got...

How do I approach our married female friend so I can explore my bi-sexual curiosities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I have been with my BF for over a year now. We are both in our early 20's. We are very open and he know I am bi curious, and he is even willing to let me "explore" those curiosities, if an opportunity happen to present itself. Well, we are friends ...

I'm ashamed of my sexual past and worried about STD's....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4384 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - When i was 11 years old i lost both my parents and i had to live with my granny. She waz very stingy and 2 much strict and she abused me and my little sister because she doesn't love our father's family. At the age of 15 i startf drinking alchohol ...