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Archived questions from: 7 September, 2012 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Married for sixteen years and he's cheated three times that I know of

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been married for sixteen years and with two children. One child is special needs. There has been three cheating incidences that I knew of during the marriage. The last one he left me for twice in a year and he came back. I ...

Is there any hope for love without a better job?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

7 September 2012 (M) - Despite being a decent and honest man I've been single for my entire life. I've really struggled in life with depression and a lack of confidence and direction and knowing what I want out of life. I've only ever had menial jobs, or have been out of ...

Am I a racist for not liking a black guy?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

7 September 2012 (M) - I’m a young gay man and I feel like I’m a bad person. I’m receiving a lot of attention from a black guy (I'm white myself). He’s being really nice, giving me small gifts and everything, asking me to go out with him. We’ve talked many times, he’s a ...

Is a woman being objectified in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 September 2012 (M) - If two guys happen to like the same woman, and one of them sees the other one as 'competition', does that not mean that he (the one who sees the other one as competition) sees the woman as a prize to be won, and is therefore objectifying her? A tr...

He wants long term I dont

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I just want to know what other people would do in this situation. I got out of a 2 1/2 year relationship 7 months ago and it ended badly i was heart broken. I got really really hurt but there's a guy who i went to high school wi...

Will my mindset be a problem for me in the future? I want to be happy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 September 2012 (?) - I am scared of marriage and children. I love children but when I see them I do not know how to even ask for their name. I sound mean most of the time and this scares them away. I and my twin sister, brother moved out of my fathers house when I was...

We both had a similar bad dream on the same night, does anyone have any ideas what this was all about?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 September 2012 (M) - Hey guys, I need some advice, or I'm not sure what I need, maybe some clue as to what this means... Alright, so last night, me and my fiance both had bad dreams, a little about us first; We've known one another for four or so years, it's been ...

I'm a no-nonsense person, could this be mistaken for pride?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 September 2012 (?) - I am a very proud person. I have tried therapy and combating this problem all to no avail as it often affect my relationship with other people. I remember being nice and loving when I was younger till my parents separated I became a monster. I never ...

I'm from a broken home and find myself attracted to older men but I don't want to be!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 September 2012 (?) - I am a person with a very mature mind tho I act my age sometimes but my reasoning is very well above my age. I feel older I do not know why like I have been in some past life and I am a reincarnation of my self. Even people who meet me for the first ...

Was my mom a victim or did she just make a bad choice? Should I ask her now what is wrong with her or wait until I'm older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

7 September 2012 (?) - I and my mom are very alike in character, we are both strong hearted and strong willed. When she met my father everything changed she was duped of all her wealth and became a slave to my father. He sent us packing. Since then my mom feels unworthy ...

Need help understanding depression....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - need help really to understand depression. sometimes i feel i cant do anything or dont want to but i would say lately im fine and can get up early go out and about and happy to do daytrips and things i enjoy like swimming. i still feel in myself a ...

Does she want a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 September 2012 (M) - Okay so there's this girl I have been talking for a while online and we meet and it was great. Well anyways I really liked her and explained to her that we won't be seeing each other for while, so in my desperation I asked her to be my girlfriend. ...

I'm only 18 and have slept with 28 guys, do I have a problem?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - Okay so I am an 18 years old female. I will be 19 in November. A few weeks ago I was thinking about exactly how many guys I've slept with. I wrote it down and came to 28. I know its a really high number and probably makes me look like an anonymous ...

I've been so upset because of my boyfriend's relationship when we were on a break that I ended up cheating on him! How do I come clean about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, I did something 10 days ago and I regret it sooo much,its killing me inside..I know people will judge me here but its ok I have to learn to deal with it.. I have been seeing my boyfriend for the past 7 years,he is very caring,lovi...

Is stealing a shirt really such a horrible thing? Will this affect my job application?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4378 days ago

7 September 2012 (F) - Hello again, I posted a question a few days ago about a test I had to take for a job. Well I passed the test, yay! But now I am into the background check and then onto a lie detector/polygraph test. I have a couple questions about this. One, has a...