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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

My boyfriend said he would have me sign a prenup. What do you think of this?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My BF if self-employed and his business is booming. He's also very ambitious. He tells me a lot about his work and the other day was talking about a client of his whose wife 'cleaned up' when they got divorced. He's also got a friend who recently ...

He has a lot of baggage.. Should I keep seeing him anyway?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I met someone recently..i was unsure if i liked him but i knew if i was totally turned off i would have ended the date sooner (we met from online)..the first night we met at a bar and then he offered to get dinner and then we went to get another ...

Since getting back together over a year ago, she hasn't told anyone.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Been with my girlfriend for 3 years now, she is 24. At first it was great, we saw each other all the time, we kissed and held each other a lot, we had lots of sex, we talked about the future and getting a place together. After a year and a hal...

I have strong feelings for my best friend's partner, and I'm worried he might feel the same way about me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I have strong feelings for my best friend's partner. They have been together for 22 years and I have felt this way for all this time but it has never been a problem, until recently. Over the years I have lived away from home and been in relation...

I feel so alone now my boyfriend has left me so soon after having his baby

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of two years just broke up with me, i just had his baby all he wants to do is go out with his friends and telling me he wants space. I tried moving on hangin out with friends taking care of the baby by myself but i feel so alone like ...

My friend is mad that I started dating a guy she used to have feelings for! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I recently got out of a bad relationship, my ex was always demanding sex and using mind games to make me feel like s**t. I found hope in another guy, he's amazing and always telling me how perfect I am. He listens to my every problem and never asks ...

I'm afraid of what the reprocussions of losing my virginity!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Please help! I am a 20 year old virgin and not sure about losing my virginity yet. My problem arises when I'm around my boyfriend-whenever I'm around him, I get massive sexual urges. I mean REALLY strong urges. I just want to touch him all over and ...

What type of man would be best for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5355 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Who would u choose? A man whos reilable.honest.could trust 100 percent. Caring. Sensitive and shy. But you dont quite fancy them totally like u dont wanna rip their clothes off! Or a man whos gorgeous. Fit body.you just sit there thinking oh my god ...

My ex - can't live with him and can't live without him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Here is my situation: My bf and I broke up. We have a child together and a house. I moved out since I couldnt afford the mortgage and he could. He has this drug usage (weed to be exact) that makes him extremelly hyper and i couldnt stand being ar...

A disturbing confession by my friend's 11 year old daughter

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Last night i babysat my mates little girl who is 11 and found out something im really not happy about.... Now heres the situation. They have hardly any money-Her partner works part time and she doesnt have a job-basically they are l...

My boyfriend of 8 months just started an account on a dating website

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - I've been seeing an older guy for almost a year. I've been living far away from home for most of it, but I go home to visit on the holidays. Also, I'll be returning home for good in a few months. Everything seemed to be going fine until I was snoo...

I confessed I was attracted to him and now he avoids me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - hi i'm a 30year old lady,my closest friends r all guys i seem 2get along gr8 with almost any guy i meet,bt its always just friendships.About 4months ago a stranger was welcomed in2 our 'friend circle' and from da very 1st sec i saw him i knew i ...

My difficult boyfriend calls me and everyone else a 'loser'

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. Can you please help me! How do you define a 'loser'?? My BF calls me a 'loser' (we've been together for 5 years) and he also calls his exes and my friends 'losers'. It is really upsetting me because I don't feel as th...

My husband is in prison and I don't miss him, but I have strong feelings for another

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - Hi,ive been married now for 11 years and i'm a proud mom of 2. My husband recently got himself into some legal trouble and got 2 years imprisonment. I also discovered that i have strong feelings for a mutual friend of ours. I'm not sure what his...

My friend says he fancies me, but I'm not so sure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - If a friend told you that every time you both sat in a coffee shop together that the guy serving kept looking over at you and staring and she believed that he fancied you, would you believe her. My friend keeps telling me this is happening and ev...

Why is sex the key to a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

28 February 2010 (M) - Why is sex the key to a relationship?...

Torn between myself, two men and two kids

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

28 February 2010 (F) - So I have an issue. I have a husband for 4.5 years now. We get along fine with eachother's family, and we have two kids. Just like in every relationship he has promised me many of things and only a couple where fulfilled. Like the movie "The ...

Hair can't be ignored, need advice.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I posted this question about 2 years ago and people told me to ignore "it" n it'll go away. well, it didn't. I'm almost 15 and this is really embarrassing, but i have hair like everywhere on my body-not just like legs n my armpits but like on my ...

Dating, abortion, cheating, now a break up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Hi there...i am hoping you can shed some light on my current situation...i know i made a complete mess of everything...pls know that i am deeply hurt for my selfish/coward choices...and don't need anyone judging me...i need serious advice. So.....

Does anyone else feel overwhelmed by a series of misfortunes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I feel cursed! Everything falling apart in my life!. There is no explanation why. And why everything.I,m totally normal,but I can't see any other explanation, how everything can go bad at the same time totally unrelated ways.. Within 5 years -...

How reliable is a drunken proclamation of love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - Are people more honest when they're drunk, or do they say things they don't mean? Last night around midnight, one of my old mates, who used to fancy me, called me while he was drunk. He told me that he really wanted to talk to me, and that he miss...

He tried to force himself on me. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4332 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for a few weeks. he was really nice, opened doors for me, said sweet things, and seemed real cool. He seemed patient, didn't mind spending time with my family, and was real smart. he was older than me and seemed so ...

Help me with ideas for a sign for my class graduation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

27 February 2010 (F) - ok i graduate in 2012 i class really want to make a hand sign that say 2012 any ideas ?? The thing is we have to use 1 or both hands . it cant be something that we have to sign out like sign language i just need a hand logo. but im open to anyth...

Did she use me just to get pregnant? How do I stop the fighting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - hi me and my girl friend have been trying to have a kid her more than me and i almost feel like now that she is pregnant she got what she wants and is always taking me for granted i always been cooking and trying to make her feel good even when she ...

Should I pursue her even though she cheated with others in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - I need some serious advice from someone who can relate or can put themselves in my frame of mind. Quick outline of the plot to my story. My best friend is a girl. I have loved her for a long time. She has always known this. We met online 3 ...

Why do cheaters get mad when they're caught?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

27 February 2010 (M) - Why do cheaters always continue to lie, even when they've been caught? Why do they become angry when they are found out? What moral foundation is there for this behavior (why do they think the way they do, and why do they think cheating is okay)?...

Secret vasectomy, how do I forgive and move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5009 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been married 13 years. We have an 8 yr old daughter and an 11 yr old son. In 2002 when my daughter was 4 months old, my husband made the decision to have a vasectomy without talking to me about it. I found out because he put ...

How to deal with resentment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and I'm suffering from resentment, its KILLING ME! The guy that I'm in love with, doesn't love me any more and he's moved on. I hate him , he lead my best friend on and did other things that made me feel small.I stopped talking to him s...

Drunken Cheating...what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for just about a year, and when I say we were perfect, I mean it. I wanted to marry that boy. He literally worshiped the ground I walked on. We're in a long distance relationship because we're both in ...

Should I wait for him to be done with his exams so he can talk to me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Dear agony aunt, my question is i like a guy a lot we were talking to each other for almost two months and now he doesnt wants to talk to me because he says that he s having his exams in may and he has to prepare for that,he told me that he will tal...

She is leaving regardless of whether I am coming with her or not, is she being unreasonable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of six months is moving away for a new job. She will be a 12 hour drive away in a state and part of the country I don't like. It's not a desirable location. She could have a good job and stay here, but doesn't like the company....

Should I give them the money despite working so hard to save it to make myself more financially stable?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi I'm facing a dilemma here. After leaving an abusive relationship of five years (which also ruined me financially; also during this time the situation was so unstable I was moving from job to job, state to state and just handing over my paychecks) ...

Is it ok that I have protected sex with people when I am not in a relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - im currently single so im just having fun, but do u think its ok that i have protected sex with people? the only reason i ask is because my friends say im dirty but i dont have one night stands after a night out, i know the people i have sex with....

Do I tell her that I am still in love with her after all these years?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5385 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I am having a bit off a tough time...I'm a male, 42, and still keep in touch with my ex-fiancee, who is now married for 2 yrs with a new baby...the problem is we have been broken up for 7 years now. However, during this entire time, we have always ...

My previous boss wont leave me alone and wants sex with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Howdy all well se i have been married for about 12 years now. I did make a mistake a few years ago i slept with my boss. Now he keeps on phoning me and tells me he missed me. me and my husband moved a few months ago to another city somehow he moved ...

If you have genital herpes, should you expect to be alone or hope that someone will accept you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Should a person with genital herpes expect someone to accept them or should they expect to be alone?...

My husband is very rude! Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I have noticed that when my husband goes away for work 1day or so and he is coming home he doesnt call me nor let me know he is save. Then i kinda freak out and say to him if been worrying if you're ok. I will kiss him then if he say something like ...

Why do guys from council houses treat me so badly when I am nice to them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - there was lot of guys i have likes from council houses but they seem treated me very badly and i am nice to them i am not not from council house area.but they guys i have like are they insulted and be little treated me badly some don,t want even to ...

I keep upsetting my work colleagues.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hello.l I am a female office worker who just cannot seem to get on with her colleagues mostly when it comes to interpersonal relationships at work, although I still socialise with them outside work sometimes. Don;t get me wrong, I have lots of ...

Should I interfere in my daughter's relationship after the way he behaved or should I leave it alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I need some advice re my daughter. She is 21 and a student doing well at college. Unfortunately she got involved with a guy who although he seems quite sweet etc etc, is not working and not at college but after some pressure from her, is now ...

I'm 24 and haven't felt a strong, real interest in someone for years!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - I'm starting to think something's broken in me when it comes to relationships. Are you supposed to feel nervous and excited when you're about to meet up with someone you like or is that just a teenage feeling? Because I'm 24 and haven't felt a ...

Just found out my boyfriend is leading a double life!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - This year I discovered that my boyfriend has been living a double life - a secret life - with another girl in a long distance relationship. Could be more than one girl, but ONE I know about anyway. He's a compulsive time keeper and was so good ...

How to end a long-term relationship with a manipuator?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I caught my girlfriend sleeping at this other guy's house who she previously promised not to ever see again. Her car was parked in front. This has happened a few times over the past couple years (we've been together almost 5) and I always forgive. I ...

I want to travel the world but my parents won't let me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - This is not really a question about relationships or anything but I am only 13 and I want to travel the world and be on my own but my parents won't even let me walk around by myself! What should I do?...

Competing with alcohol!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - I love my wife very much. But she drinks so much she was put in a cardiac care unit six months ago. The doctors said she had almost depleted her body of iron and her blood count was six. Yes that's right six. I was shocked as well as the doctor who ...

How do I get over Miranda?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - There was a girl (Miranda) that I briefly dated when I was 17. The relationship was emotional, but never turned physical because she decided that she was going to see her ex-boyfriend again so, like a dope, a let her go. We both moved on and saw ...

Will my breasts grow anymore?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - i'm 16 and have small boobs. i dont mind the fact that they are not big but i hope that there is a chance they will grow. its the main thing im self concious about. i just hate being self concious about them. my friends have amazing bodies it makes ...

How can I become more confident and look people in the eye?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - Hey everyone i was wondering if you could help me :/ okay so, i have a little problem, i find it really hard to look people in the eye, i go really red easily. and i was hoping you guys could give me some tips on how to control my nerves! Thank...

Should I go out on a date with my friend in spite of being married?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - i am married but i want to be with my friend and he wants to be with me but i don't think it will lead to sex should i go out on a date with him or not? I mean i am not saying I don't want have sex with him I do but we are both a bit more mature ...

Do late night texts mean he's looking for a 'booty call'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - "i've heard a lot about when you receive a text from a guy after 10pm it's supposedly a booty call. we're not old enough to go to bars yet, but we do get drunk...by "booty call," i don't necessarily mean sex, just the fact that a guy is using you. ...