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Archived questions from: 3 February, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I can't dance at clubs and bars, but I want to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5406 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - When I go out to bars and clubs I am shy. I want to be able to go out on the dance floor and dance with confidence. I am so nervous though that I am stiff as a board, literally can't move. When I am at home alone I can dance while listening to ...

Should I keep on trying to fix things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

3 February 2010 (M) - I dated a single mother for 2 and a half yrs. During the first 3 months I kept a lie about sleeping with my ex before I met her. To me I felt at the time I shouldn't have to spill out some thing in my past in which I wasn't really happy with and ...

Why are black women seen as unattractive and the least or not desired mate???

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - I am a black woman and I feel that I am not attractive because of my skin color. I have statistics behind me proving this point. 70% of black women are single. How the hell is this happening? Really? We aren't desirable in any way? Really? Not even ...

Will he ever wake up again...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - Hey i wrote a question a while ago about my ex boyfriend sean. he has had his operation on his head but it didn`t go too well and he is in a coma and has been for a week or two will he ever wake up again ?...

Ideas needed! How can I get my husband to have us do something nice for our anniversary?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - My 6th wedding anniversary is coming up at the end of the month and I keep asking my husband what he wants to do or if he wants to get a sitter, and he just blows me off every time. I don't know if I should just get a sitter. I'm half tempted to ...

I so much WANT to believe in God!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - Hello there! Im going thru some rough patches.... I really feel I want to believe in God, and build faith. But I'm not sure how to. Those who believe... do they have answered prayers, or some sort of a sign, what proves that someone really listens? ...

He is going clubbing in Greece and I'm scared he will cheat on me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4899 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and i feel like we're good at the moment. There's just one problem- he's turning 18 soon (he's a year older than me) and going on holiday to a clubbing island in Greece with all his mates. I'm very worried ...

My boyfriend says the masseuse mastubated him! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

3 February 2010 (?) - I live with my boyfriend and his parents. we've been together for two and a half years now. Yesterday he went for a massage and I jokingly said 'make sure they don't give any ''special'' treatment!' meaning sexual favours as I've heard some massage ...

Which should I choose; my unfulfilling life with my boyfriend or my old friends and family back home?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - I am living with my boyfriend 24hrs drive away from my friends and family and a 3.5 hr expensive flight. I have been here living for over a year. We have plans to marry. I am having a hard time meeting friends here and having a hard time being ...

I am tired of settling for the "not now" excuse!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - I have have an issue with my boyfriend or x now. We've been dating for almost three years now. I have a daughter and he has a son that recently moved away a year ago. Since his son has been gone he stopped doing family things together kinda like ...

My partner wont name me as a joint tenant on the house we share even when we get married, is he just covering himself in case anything goes wrong in our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - I fell in love with a man 15 yrs older than me, everything was rosey. We got together about 2 yrs ago and he asked me to marry him after 1. It is my first proper relationship, I am in my early 20's. I moved in with him to his house - which he built ...

I only wanted him as a friend, but now he says he is in love with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - hi im nina,and I have a problem. well its troubling. i met this guy online and we were just friends, then we got it up a notch and had phone num. we were friends but i didnt take it seriously I mean I was just looking for a friend to talk to ( and...

27 year old virgin - wondering if I need to get counselling

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5404 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - Hi This is my first time posting a question but I figured what the hell. I am going to be 27 this year and I am still a virgin. It shouldn't be that big a deal but I feel like it is one. All my friends have had sex and some are even married wit...

Should I continue being her best friend or would it be healthier for me to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5409 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - I have this friend and she was my best friend but I haven't spoken to her for 3 months now. We used to tell each other everything and were there for each other throughout our childhood and university until she had 2 nervous breakdowns in a year. She ...

How can I tell my wife I want to wear female clothing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - (Mod note - post re-worded for clarity) How can I tell my wife I want to wear female clothing? ...

The physical component of my marriage is non-existent.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

3 February 2010 (M) - The physical component of my marriage is non-existent. My wife is a child abuse survivor. She is very kind and sweet and a great mother but has no respect for men. Years ago, I explained to her that her reactions to my physical ovetures caused me to ...

Not wanting a relationship or sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

3 February 2010 (M) - I have a problem of sorts. I am normal by all accounts, but sometimes I wish never to be in a relationship and never to marry or father children. Sometimes I see myself down the future when I am old, without a wife or children. Of course I like to ...