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Archived questions from: 24 February, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Help! Is this emotional abuse?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 2 years now. The first year was wonderful. Then from one to the next day everything changed. If i have a concern. And i come about it in a respectable way like foe expl.: i feel that....., or dont you think that.......

It's over and I'm so miserable...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hi I've been reading the stories on here and i know i'm not the only one but i feel so alone I had to move away to find work, i managed to get a great job which i love. the man i work closely with became a very close friend, we share the same v...

Is this wrong???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I have just found out that my boyfriends nan and my great nan are sisters. There was a big age gap between them (my great nan being older), she went on to have my grandad and 30 years later my great nans sister had my boyfriends dad (so they are ...

Am I reading into things wrong? Is he into me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hi Guys Looking for a bit of advice, sorry if its long winded. Basically I have been good friends with this guy for nearly ten years, and during this time I have been married and divorced, and he is now engaged. It has always (apparently) been...

Does my ex still want me in spite of our current relationships with other people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Just after some advice really. Known my ex-girlfriend since 2005, split in 2006 because she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend. However shortly after this we had sex on 2 occasions after a few too many beers Since then I've been married and now ...

His family doesn't like me and he's obvlious to it. Should I skip the family wedding?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Please help!! His aunty hates me and posted horribly messages to him when she found out we'd split up after a stupid argument (didnt even know what had happened). It sounds stupid but its caused sooo many problems for us because i dont want to be ...

Do I have a chance with my best friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - do i still have a chance with the girl i am in love with even though she considers me her bestfriend...

He is a great father to our kids and they love him but I cant help but feel like hes settling for me,while desiring someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - when i was just barely 16 my mother and stepfather married for 15 years went through an extremely intense divorce. i went to stay with my biological father and there i met the future father of our 3 beautiful children. for 3 months it was great. i ...

How to approach my threesome fantasy again without seeming pushy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - dear cupid i have a fantasy having a threesome with my wife i spoke to her and she willing to do but she hasnt mentioned it again how can i approach the subject again without it looking im pushing the subject ????? ...

My hairy arm really embarrass me and I feel that I have to cover them up...will anyone be attracted to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4298 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hi. I really need some help. Im 13 and I have really dark and hairy arms and always feel like i have to cover up. I also have never had a boyfirend so I always blame the arms. At school even in the summer when its baking hot i keep my blazer on ...

Why is it only the mans biology that's considered when discussing porn in relationships?

This question has 34 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Okay, so there's lots of questions here about men and porn, and relationships being destroyed over it. But what i'd really like to know here, is why it's only mens feelings and biology considered? So men are more sexually driven than women, they are ...

It makes me nervous for him to touch me ...i dunno if I should let him...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend Fraser are always together at school and we always hug and stuff but he always has his arm around me and touches my arse and touches my tits and tickles my arse too. but i feel nervous when he does it. it may be natural for him ...

Can precum on fingers cause pregnancy through clothing?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - If precum (I think it was, it could have been rainwater) soaked very little through my pants and got on my fingers from readjusting myself, and I subsequently went on to rub my girlfriend from outside her panties and pants, is there a possibility ...

How do I go about not acting insecure even if I am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Please help me i feel like a lost cause anymore... kinda.. anyway ive had a bad string of relationships always the guy getting hurt or cheated on... well im dating a girl now who until about a week ago i thought everything was great... she pretty ...

I need relationship advice fast. Please ... :(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. We both love eachother but she lies to me so much about such little things for no reason. Well, anyway the big problem is today she said she was going to meet another guy and how ...

I am in love with him... he is infatuated with another girl in our halls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (?) - Hi aunts and uncles, I am in need of some advice on how to cope with my feelings for one of my friends. So basically I moved away to university in September and instantly became friends with this guy, we shall call him 'Ian'. So the two of us insta...

Husband's money is controlled by my dominating father-in-law

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - hi , i got married after my MIL expired. my husband works with my FIL same co. , after marriage i realised my husband does get to keep any money with him he has to ask his father , even though father is getting pension , it is very annoying,as in ...

Masturbating Won’t Make You Blind, BUT

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - ~ I recently read an article about masturbation, and it got me wondering about the effects of too much masturbation. The article focused on men being unable to orgasm during sex, but there are other dangers as well. First of all, let me say that ...

How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - How do I achieve big but sexy eyes with eye make up? ...

Marriage foundation... confused!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I have been chatting with a man on a dating site for a while we even discussed marriage. So he soon asked out on a date. But then he told me about a foundation that was helping people to get married and that they would be given money and ...

Will my ex get back with his kid's mom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Me and my bopyfriend are currently seperated but still living together and im 6 weeks pregnant "he knows" . he tells me he doesnt know what he wants. lately probably since nov his kid's mom (they have been sperated for about two years already), ...

Should I leave my husband so I can be happy with the friend I have been in love with for years, or stay in order to keep my family together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - my husband of 4 yrs had an affair with my little sister but i really do love him and we have 3 beautiful kids.On the other hand my best friend of 5 yrs told me hes tired of watching me hurt and he has always loved me just too scared that if he told ...

Loveless marriage - stay or go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - I have posted previously on my situation and I have tried to stick it out but have reached the end of my tether. My wife and I are less than 2 years married and have an 18 month daughter and she is 7 months pregnant. Our marriage has become loveless ...

How do I tell my boyfriend that his extra weight is killing our sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - We've been friends for 3yrs, and recently hooked up. We've just completed 1yr together and expecting a child in 3mths. Along with my belly bump, he's gained weight. I'm normally 115lbs, 5'3, I know my belly will go after the baby's born(already a ...

I feel as if I never got to tell my side of the story, what do I do for the best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

24 February 2010 (M) - I have this "ex" we ended on bad terms, not that I had anything to do with it, yes seriously. It happened 17 years ago in High School, I really liked her... a lot. Well I got into some trouble at school and got suspended. While I was susp...

Would you take this as a compliment?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Would you take this as a compliment? I don't, but I hear it all of the time. It goes along the lines of: "I like you because you make things easy/You're so easy" (please don't infer a sexual overtone here). I think I've heard this from almost...

I'm worried that when it comes to having sex I will just be really clumsy and inexperienced!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Hi there this is really embarrassing but i don't really know what else to do. Basically i'm a 20 year old virgin, and this is totally out of choice. I have been extremely picky in the past, and to be honest a bit of a prude. I'm not ugly, and i ...

I'm not ready to kiss him yet, how do I show him how I feel without making it too awkward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - I'm 14 and he's 15. We go to different school and I've really only seen him 5 times. We have a lot of mutual friends that we do hang out with. When he did ask me out, he tried to kiss me. I told him not today, but I have a feeling that the next ...

I'm not getting any pleasure from sex! Is it me or is it him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

24 February 2010 (F) - Ok, basically ive been with this gorgeous guy for 7 months and ive started having sex with him...it was both our first's and so it was really important to me. We have been doing it for 3 months now, but im still getting nothing out of it! Im not ...