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Archived questions from: 16 February, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is not closing my eyes when I kiss someone normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Last October I had my first kiss. About a month later I had kissed another person and ended up making out with them. I thought it was them, but I think I may be a bad kisser because on New Years eve I played spin the bottle and I...kind of missed. I ...

Does our female teacher have a crush on my male friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I think a (female) teacher at my school fancies my (male) friend? First, let me make it clear I have no feelings for him except as a friend, so it's not me being paranoid. She often flirts with him a bit, and has said several times how perfect ...

Do I just cut all ties and walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5393 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I split up from my ex about 3 months ago, thay left me for someone else. Yes it hurt but i've got on with things. I have been in contact with them often but just recently they keep telling me the grass is not greener and they've made my bed so ...

I don't want any of these guys that are asking me out I want one that makes me excited!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a little bit worried because for the last few years all the guys that have asked me out or shown interest in me I haven't found attractive. I don't know if its beacuse I am obviously getting older and the dating pool is getting smaller ...

Hen nights/batchelor parties

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Ok, even though im not yet getting married because Im obviously too young right now. But I was wondering... Do the girls always go to male strip clubs and guys always go to girl strip clubs for the bachelor party or whatever? Cuz I always see that ...

Different sized boobs!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Can some one help me im 17 and just had a baby boy a few weeks ago i have alway had one boob bigger than the other but not a lot bigger but after having my son there is a huge differnce what can i do?...

Help!! I'm in love with someone I can't have...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hello I am 21 he is 34...In september of 2008 I started to think I liked my coworker we were both having issues with our partners, I was having serious problems with my husband abusing me and he was having problems with his GF. So that created a ...

Gay urges!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm a 22 year old male with a girlfriend that I have been seeing for the past two months. I have issues reaching climax and I'm afraid it's because I have been having gay urges lately. I'm fairly confident that I'm not gay; I am not sexually ...

Intentions of an ex wanting to stay friends, opinions please!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I just everyone's opinion as I am a bit confused. What is your opinion on exe's wanting to stay friends? Is there a hidden agenda or is it a sincere gesture? I mean, how do you know if your ex's intention is pure about staying friends? Giv...

How can I be beautiful???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I want to know what about me I need to fix to be beautiful. People tell me I'm funny and smart, but beautiful is a word I've never heard except from family. I am tired of always being alone and yes, I know I am only 19 and I have my whole life ahead ...

I feel like I cant be bothered anymore, has anyone else ever felt like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - i have just had enough with the struggle that is life. i've had enough of the constant frustrations and disappointments in life. i can't be bothered anymore. has anyone felt like this? how did you deal with it? how did you move on and start ...

I cant help but feel like I got myself into another horrible situation way too soon

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I don't even know where to begin... but I am in need of advice... Back in June I had left my fiance of 3years because I didn't feel he was the one for me, and he was becoming overly possessive and controlling, to the point where I would get "punishe...

I really would like to emigrate while I'm still young but I don't know how?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Not a relationship question..I'm 18 i've lost contact with everyone from school and college, so my best friend is the only person ive really stayed in contact with,my job is boring, i can't find a decent guy where i live, there's not a lot to do ...

Do you think I should always wait to hear from him first?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I met this guy at a training course a few months ago. We kept in touch over the past few months, emails, texts etc. He asked me out for a coffee ages ago but we never seemed to get round to meeting up. Partly because of nerves on his part, I think ...

Torn between my ex and my new boyfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - i went out with this guy for 4 n half years and he cheated on me twice and continuously broke my heart, In the end he left me to be with the girl he cheated on me with, that was nearly 5 years ago and since then they have had a child together. ...

My girlfriend found my fetish through my computer history, now I'm worried she will never be able to get over this!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Hi, I'm in a horrible situation and its killing both me and my gf. I've been in a relationship for two years now and despite what I'm about to say, I've never been happier, I can imagine not growing up and living my life with my gf, my freinds s...

Can anyone help me with my doubts about counselors?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Can someone please enlighten me? I am very skeptical about the role of counselors in helping with marriage problems. Several people in reply to my posts have suggested seeing a counselor to get things out in the open and get answers to quest...

Why do guys prefer "slutty" girls rather than a girl who is romantic and caring?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi all, I have a very simple question. Why do so many guys find girls who are promiscuous or 'slutty' more sexually desirable than a girl that is romantic and caring? For some reason, so many guys I know prefer to hang out with the girls that ...

I'm ashamed of myself for wanting to steal another man's girlfriend, but I cant help feeling this way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - having a little problem here. im working with this girl and we are extremely close. honestly I do have very strong feelings im not sure what this is I just know that I love being around her and just talking with her. but there's a problem she has a ...

He has asked me to marry him after all his revelations, I have no idea what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - About 4 months ago, the man I had been with for about 4 or 5 months, sent me a text message and told me that he had met someone else...yes, a TEXT message! At the time, he had been out of state for about 2 month for his job, but we continued our ...

She has a broken heart, can anyone help me find the glue to reconstruct it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Ok here I go this will take a little well it all started right b4 christmas, I was going Christmas shopping and I saw this girl we seen each other we hadn't talked or anything for about 3yrs I wanted to date her back then when I was 15 then which ...

My boyfriend attended a "filthy" lap dancing club..and had a dance!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Hi everyone ... Please read my story , because I just dont know what to do and Im constantly privately in tears . I found out by pressuring one of the guys ( and thats a story in itself ) That my b/f of 3 1/2 years attended a " filthy " lap d...

My wife has admitted having an affair and wants to save our marriage, but all my trust for her is ruined

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - I recently learned that my wife was seeing someone else through people that I work with. She admitted to having an affair, and I have been on a roller coaster of emotions for about a week now. We've been married for almost 5 years, we have 2 young ...

Please give me a reason why I should stay a virgin!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Please give me a reason to stay a virgin. I always wanted to have sex the first time with another virgin, but there are non! All the girl today just shack up with the first guy they're with for more then two weeks. I don't blame them though, I ...

Nothing seems to be working when I try to work on our relationship, and now we are fighting in front of our children

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - i am 31 years old and a mother of 2 toddlers, their father and i live together. he has not had a stable job in the past 4 years. we once had an amazing connection and relationship but now it is sabotaged by a drug and gambling habit he has. i have ...

Thank you and farewell to all at Dear Cupid

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16 February 2010 (?) - Hi to everyone! I'm saying goodbye. Not a long time ago my life was miserable, I was suffering from a broken heart for two years. When things got really tough that's when I've decided to get help. I've posted my predicament here in Dear Cupid. T...

Is it normal to hate making out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (?) - is it normal to hate making out? i love to make out, being 24 im pretty much at my prime. my fiancee on the other hand is 30. says making out is for teenagers. weve made out once....in the year we were together. all i get is 3 small pecks on the ...

Torn between two men

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Here is my problem.....I have been married for the last 12 years. This marriage has been very unhealthy and destructive in many ways. First my husband has been a drug addict and has been incarcerated for the past on multiple occasions. I have 2 ...

I nearly pass out when I go to finger her! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

16 February 2010 (M) - Scenario: i'm getting 'close' to a girl and I go to put my hand downstairs but my heart races, so fast that I nearly pass out. What do I do? I have serious nervous issues, it's not that i'm afraid that i'll do it wrong, i'm not sure what it is. ...

Weird teacher keeps looking at me weird

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I sit at the front of the classroom, right infront of his desk. When we are doing classwork or have to read something off the board, he always looks at me. When he's staring at me and I look at him, he either looks away or smiles. It's really ...

Is this a rebound relationship or something else entirely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - My ex and I were together for nine years and have one 5 year son together. We never got married (he never asked). He moved out on Valentines Day last year but had been emotionally detached for months. He started dating one of his patients (openly) ...

How can I maintain a friendly relationship with him throughout the semester?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5396 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I have a crush on my physics TA. He's a grad student and I'm a sophomore in college, so our age difference isn't a big deal, it's only about 2-3 years. I think he's really attractive, both physically and in personality too. I go to his office hours ...

I am pregnant to a foreigner who I don't hardly know!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5394 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid please help let me know opinion, your experience, view to help me have all the picture. I am white girl form central europe, my parents were always trying to lead my life the way they wanted. Yes I was the best student etc, model,...