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Archived questions from: 22 February, 2010 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I can't leave my kids and I can't stay with my wife, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I am married for 10 years with 2 kids, 2 years old boy and a 4 years old girl. My wife and I have been to therapy and everything possible to save our marriage. I am the person that did look for the therapy and is always looking for a “salvation” for ...

I need an original idea of what to plan for my bf's birthday!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I know this is such a commonly asked question, but I'm having trouble deciding what to do for my boyfriend's birthday. We've been together over a year. I've already decided what gifts to get him, it's the day itself I'm not sure about. His ...

The last straw! But I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfiend for almost 4 years now, and ive put up with so much of his stuff it pushed me to the last straw. he went out to eat with another girl on valentines day and she stayed the night. he says nothing happened and he didnt pay but ...

I'm really confused. does he like me or is he just flirting to seem cool in front of other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5408 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Heyy, im 16 and there's this 26 yr old on a place i always go on holiday. he always flirts so much with me when people are around and offers sex and all that as a joke, and to be honest i love the attention, in fact ive fallen for him. one night wh...

Help me please... I can't get over him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I'm a mess! I reconnected w/a old high school sweet heart. We were both married w/children and love our spouse. In high school we dated for a year and then I called it off. We talked for a month almost every night for hours. We agree to meet and one ...

Guys turn me on, am I gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I'm a 15 year old guy, and I'm pretty much only turned on by gay porn, or pictures of naked guys. I used to watch straight porn and when I was 12 I messed around with a girl (we gave each other handjobs and even tried to have sex once) and enjoyed ...

Unrequited...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5401 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - There was a girl (Miranda) that I briefly dated when I was 17. The relationship was emotional, but never turned physical because she decided that she was going to see her ex-boyfriend again so, like a dope, a let her go. We both moved on and saw ...

Is it really a bad thing to spend time with the person you said you care about?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - I've got a question for girls who don't want a long term relationship, is it really a bad thing to spend time with the person you said you care about? ...

How can I make him see that EVERY marriage has problems sometime and it doesn’t mean either person is bad!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I guess this is a twofold question… My husband, Adam(not his real name) has almost no self esteem, and is very down on himself. Any times I get upset about something and try to talk to him about it, he ends up saying… “I am a bad husband. You would ...

Can you really change your future?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hey, I know this site is for relationship worries, but I dont know where else to go to to be honest. Do you think its possible to change your future? My aunt went to a fortune teller on Saturday there, and they told her that i'm going to get pre...

How can I stop being a jealous girlfriend so I don't lose my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I have low self esteem and feel extremely inadequate to be with my extremely accomplished boyfriend. Because of that, I am a very negative person and it is draining him, literally. He is positive and loves me very much but me being so negative and ...

Addicted to an affair - how can I break free?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I've been involved in an affair with an man I've known for over a year now. I am so attached to him, but when I rationalize it I realize I'm not in love with him. It's more like an addiction... and I want to break free from this. I've tried to ...

When people are "seeing each other", is there any commitment or is it an open relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - When people are "Seeing each other" is there commitment involved or is it more like a open relationship? i dont get it?...

My boyfriend is getting annoyed with my sad and lonely behaviour, but I just cant feel happy after I found out he cheated on me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - i had a relationship of 3 yrs but my boyfriend cheated me and confess his mistake that he had many relationship and i dont have any hint, but due to some personal issue i forgive his all mistakes. i gave him another chance but i am not happy but he ...

Should I feel so docile on these antidepressants?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi ya I wrote on here a while ago asking advice. I now need more advice. I have started taking antidepressant at the recommendation of my doctor. But for the first week and a half i felt like all i could was just think about the problems. Now two ...

I'm finding it hard to think clearly because of my deep affection for him, can anyone share their opinions on my situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi, I've been with my BF since 2001 and we have had our ups and downs but I do love him and I can't imagine being with anyone else. I have a real chemistry with him physically and he has been very loving, generous and loyal to me. However, he has ...

I'm struggling to work out if he is gay, can anyone help me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hi everybody! I am a gay nineteen year old male, and I have a bit of a mundane problem that happens a lot to gay men. Thus, when I came across this site I saw the perfect opportunity to gain a different perspective other than my own. And possibly...

I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion, I don't know what to do for the best

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I am a 25 year old women with 4 kids and I am 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend of 3 years wants me to terminate my pregnancy but he also told me its my body and whatever my decision is he will support me no matter what and he will stay with me. we ...

Why do I always act like a total jerk in front of girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5410 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Girls hit on me pretty often but I just dont know how to talk to them and i always stroke out and they think i dont like them and they lose interest asking me question and smiling and similar stuff. I always act like a total jerk but I dont know ...

Trouble getting over girlfriend's past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - My girlfriend's past is not even that bad. She had two ex BFs and only one she had sex with. She says the sex is a lot better with me (i'm her second). However after her second Bf, she had a "fling" whom she knew for a while. They did stuff and she ...

Why do I always feel so depressed when I end a relationship, even though I know it was the right thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hi. My question is regarding a person's feelings when a relationship ends. I've been in a few of relationships and I've personally been the one to end all of them except for one. I really have never been in a relationship where I was CRAZY about the ...

Why am I acting like the anxious one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5407 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hi there, I'm not really sure what to do. I started talking to this guy several months ago, online. Our level of talk time increased continually. We spent hundreds of hours on the phone, web cam (nothing in appropriate) etc. and I have to say I re...

Should I continue to pursue my dream in becoming a nurse, or just give it all up to save my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I was in Nursing School, my husband's arguements stressed so much while I was in school that I failed and need to restart program. My husband says, that my dream "becoming a nurse" has doomed my marriage. Now I don't know if I should continue to ...

It upsets me when people tell me long-distance relationships never work...is it true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - can long distant relationships work? Im totally inlove with this guy but he lives 3 hrs away and I will only be able to see him like once a month...we talk all the time.. but I wanted to know if it can really work..everyone tells me LD never wo...

Is love just a dream? Or is it possible for two people to care for each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hello =). I have been wondering, becouse ive been always kinda lonely, is love just a dream/fantasy? It is possible for two people to care for each other? to trust each other? to try to make the other person feel special?....

Most guys always tell me I have nice boobs...but I really hate them. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I dont know if im the only female who really feels this way.. but i hate my boobs ..extremly. Most boys always tell me I have nice boobs, because there larger then most girls yet I still maintain a small body But I on the other hand hate them I ...

Men and women are different. We need different things. Does anyone else agree?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Men and women are different. We need different things. Women need continuous validation of their partner’s feelings for them. Men do not. Or do they? Men may not need it as much as women, but they do need it. They don’t know they need it because ...

I know rape is wrong and very bad...so why do I get turned on when my boyfriend says this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5417 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Hey. Some thing is really bugging me. Some times when me and my boyfriend are jokeing aroung he'll say hes going to rape me and i get turned on by that. I know rapeing is wrong and very bad so why would i get turned on by this when my boyfriend says ...

What do you do if someone is your world...but being together is tearing you both apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5423 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - What do you do if someone is your world. You love them more than anything and you can't imagine ever loving anyone again quite like it. You imagine not being with them, not having a future with them and it physically hurts. You break up with the...

I found disturbing porn on my boyfriends laptop.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - I'm 19, my boyfriend's 22, we've been together for a year and a half. I was recently on my his laptop, I was looking at photos and I closed the folder and forgot where I found it. So I looked at recent items, and clicked on one of the photo names. ...