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female
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30-35,
*ayyxomickk
writes:Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for just about a year, and when I say we were perfect, I mean it. I wanted to marry that boy. He literally worshiped the ground I walked on. We're in a long distance relationship because we're both in college, but it had gone perfectly up to this point. However, last Tuesday, he told me he cheated the previous Friday. For the past couple days, he had told me he was coming up this weekend, and the reason he waited to tell me was because he was going to tell me this weekend, in person, but he couldn't wait that long. He broke down and hasn't stop crying when he talks to me since. He said he was blackout drunk, and doesn't really remember much. He says he remembers kissing this girl at a party, and then all of a sudden the next thing he remembers is him on top of her. When he was sober enough to realize what was happening, he stopped and left without a word. Him and this girl aren't friends and don't really know each other, had never really talked before that night. I don't know what to do. I love him so much and truly cannot imagine my life without him, but another part of me wants to be strong and leave him. Help!
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reader, cry +, writes (27 February 2010):
 he should of never went to that party.and he should of never drank so much.....come on you know your limit of alcohol hes a big boy he knows better...well the first thing you have to do is forgive him and tell him that. then tell him that he has to make up for what he has done for the rest of his life. i'de keep him and dont cheat on him just because he did .
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2010): Well i would have to say he didnt mean to cheat on you. If it happens again leave him but i can tell by the story he didnt know what was going on so just give him a chance
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