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Archived questions from: 17 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I have had unprotected sex for 5 months and not fallen pg, does this mean I cant have kids or something?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, hes 23 years old, ever since we got together we havent used protection once, i dont have to worry about STD's because we have been tested and we are both okay. the thing is i dont want ...

Any tips for losing weight quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - hi guys. im a british girl size 12. age 17 going on 18. recently ive been through a rough time and been piling on the pounds i would like to lose a stone or half a stone for that matter. i was just wondering if enybody had eny tips on losing...

I'm beginning to hate my crush. The fairytale is not gonna happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I’ve been having boy troubles! My crush that I have liked for almost 2 years, me and him has been friends. I think that my love for him is slowly fading away. I’m sick of the fact that he doesn’t pretend like he cares about me and I feel hate when I ...

My boyfriend loves me but wants sex with other women!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5255 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey guys so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. we both love each other very much and weve had a happy time together, but recently an issue has got in our way. He's only admitted it once before and somet...

My husband's addiction to porn is destroying our lives!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5506 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my husband for 6 years, and during this time he has lied about watching and using pornography. he has an addition to it, he has even watched porn at his work and lost his job and lost a lot of respect from friends and family. beca...

How do you know if you're REALLY in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - How do you know if your in love? I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months, we always say how much we love each other... but how do I know if I'm in love? It sounds like a silly uestion because I do believe I'm in love with him as I always want him ...

How does one differentiate between a crush and real love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hello :) I read some of the questions posted here and they've left me wondering... What is the difference between a small crush, fancying someone, infatuation and being in love? I know that with each one feelings run deeper. But how exactly do y...

I hate the feeling of being lonely and desparate to find someone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - hey everyone, I'm desperately in need of some advice when it comes to relationships. Right now i feel as though i've been cursed in that area or something :(. My first real relationship was 2 yrs ago, with a guy that i had liked for more then 6y...

Men: Is your wife's depression a bigger concern than getting laid?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Men: If your girlfriend or wife was suffering from severe depression, would you be more concerned with her state of mind, or getting laid? Furthermore: If the depression was supposedly because your words and actions towards her during the durat...

What was this thing I found in my panties?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - im 17 years old now... but a few years ago when i was about 14 on holiday i woke up and had this thing i cant explain in my knickers, it was kind of big, it looked a bit like a fetus, but the thing is i was a virgin at the time so i dont understand ...

Am I too young to move in with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months now, we are in love and really care about eachother. im 17 and hes 23, we both have jobs and that. at the moment hes looking for his own place, and the other night he turnt and said to me "you could live ...

Am I overreacting to my husband's relationship with my daughter-in-law?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I am having a problem with my husband and daughter in-law. It seems that they have a seperate relationship that I am not a part of they can talk for hours and hours about things I have nothing to do with my husband says he should have a seperate ...

Am I still with him because I am afraid of being alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been dating on and off for about 3 years now. I love him very much, the deepest love i have ever felt for anyone. We have broken up 3 times and I have been the one to break up with him. The first time we dated 3 mont...

We are drowning in debt! My husband won't take that into account as we approach the holidays!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Before my husband and I got together, he had a wife who got him into debt. After she walked out on him and his kids, he got a girlfriend who completed the process. The hole that the ex-wife started was dug deeper by the girlfriend. My husband is ...

How can I gently break the news to my mother-in-law that I am pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Ok then. This is the first time i've used this site, so be nice! (And excuse the punctuation, my CTRL button is tempermental today) So I was wondering how to break the news that im pregnant to my mother-in-law. She is a wonderful woman, and has a...

Should I try to make up with him, or should I let him go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I've met this guy at a party and we instantly clicked and hooked up the same night. We've been together for nearly two months since then and everything was really great. He was really sweet and nice to me and things were going great for us and then ...

Should I continue to feel frustrated, or is there a simple solution to our sexual differences?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship with the sweetest man I've ever met.He is thoughtful caring and loving,but the problem is he doesn't care to make love.He says were at different stages in life where I'm in my 30's and wanting intimate love and he is 40 and not ...

What should I choose, earth shattering sex or the great looking guy who is not so good in bed?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Which one should I choose earth shattering great sex you know the kind that brings a tear to your eye and make you pull out the hairs on your head and ok looks or do i choose that guy when he walks in the room everyone creams their pants. You know ...

After 5 years together, is marriage ever going to happen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Do you think that after five years of dating the same person, if marriage is going to occur, it should have already taken place? ...

Is there an Islamic solution that would mean a married woman could divorce her husband and marry her true love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - I loved a girl but she was pressured by her parents to get married two years back, however she loved me so much that she did not let her husband come close to her which means they did not have any sexual relation, her husband is a nice guy but she ...

I love him but his behaviour is emotionally draining. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I have been accused, verbally abused, and physically attacked by my boyfriend of three years. I have never once been unfaithful in my thoughts or actions in the short time I've been here on this earth - it's just not in my character. ...

Mum's going bankrupt, I'm the last to know! There's no communication here! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Ok, the short version of the problem i'm having is this: I moved to a new country a year ago, leaving behind my family to marry a guy I love. Everything is great with the marriage but things aren't so great with my family back home! They a...

Feeling used by lazy future brother in law!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey Aunts Heres my problem and hope you can help , Im living with my fiance and his brother , and the problem is the brother , he is 20 and just lays around the house , we all have full time jobs and i do 90% of the cooking and cleaning my fian...

Should I find a new job or go back to my old one where I've not showed up for a week!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - hi there i am new to this and i have a question about my life choices, i am 18 an im not very good at school work as you can tell of my spelling so as you can quess my GCSE's were not that good. i lov horses so i went with this collage where ...

36 years old, happily married, but not sure I want kids....will I regret this later on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5504 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Dear All, I am happily married to the love of my life - I am 36 years old and hubby is 37 - we have been married for 1 year, and together for 3 years. Hubby really wants kids, but I am not so sure. I love the idea of having a child around th...

He doesn't want to marry someone who already has a child, can I ever be sure if this relationship is serious?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (?) - hi i dont know if u can answer my question. im in love with this guy i really do love him so much, my problem is i have a child and he dont have any and he once told me that he dont want to marry a person who have a child, though it was hard to ...

Was I a hit and run or did he actually have feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - last night i went to a club with my sisters.there was this guy i kinda knew he said hi to me and gave him a hug.later on he kept on passing by me and talking to me and everything he would talk his lips were two inches away from mine.then he wanted ...

After he's done things to hurt me, he still just blames me. How can I make this work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5519 days ago

17 November 2009 (?) - Hi, I am 19 and I have been in the relationship I'm in right now for almost 2yrs. I have a very big problem with my partner. I have lied to him as well as cheating. I am not proud or happy about what I did, but there is nothing I can do to change ...

She's engaged, so why would she care if her male friend has been in contact with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (?) - There's this guy that my friend knows from college. He liked her during college, but she said that he isn't her type. My friend still talks to him on the phone and is trying to set me up with him. We started to e-mail back and forth, but when I told ...

Will I be haunted by my ex for the rest of my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - I've been in a happy relationship for 2 years with a top girl. Every now and then, however, I have these emotionally intense dreams involving my ex girlfriend who broke up with me more than 3 years ago. In these dreams she is either rejecting me ...

I feel paralyzed...how can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I split up with my husband 4 years ago and have been living apart since then. I have no desire to with him anymore, yet I can't bring myself to file for divorce. Everytime I think of doing it, I just feel sick and horrible inside. Yet I know I do ...

I just want to cry and be left alone...am I depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Am i depressed? sometimes i just feel blank and when someone is talkin to me i dont hear them. im the type of person that always happy but deep down inside im not. i am being forgetful due to me having a lot on my mind. i sometimes cry when i dont ...

I'm having trouble trying to figure out my sexuality...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and for a long time i've been trying to figure out my sexuality. It's a little confusing and frankly i totally believe that only you know what you want, but i would still love some advice on it i guess. so i do think that guys are cute, but ...

What should I do after 6 years of dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a wonderful man, Bill, for 6 years. He is very caring, kind, romantic and good to me. The problem is that I see no change of status in sight – he has no intention of moving in anytime soon and doesn’t mention marriage. I guess ...