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Archived questions from: 2 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...

He's younger than me and might be expecting too much, should I stop it now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5533 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - This is a tricky question and I thank all who tackle it. I am in my early fifties. I am told I am relatively attractive and am in reasonably good shape. I am attracted to a colleague in his early thirties and it would seem mutual. He is a terrific ...

Ideas on how to take the 'roughness' futher.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - So, I'm new here and this is my first question. First, thanks in advance for any advice that is given. Here goes, I'm 24. I'm very happily married with two gorgeous children. I always thought things were as close to perfect as my wife and I co...

Am I just a fool in love? Why is my wife ignoring me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Im starting to wonder if my wife is still in love with me or not. I constantly feel like she is disrespecting me and is simply with me for convienience. Out latest argument was on Halloween when at the bar with her and friends, I would order a dr...

Is this incest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Ok, Im 19.. I have a 21 year old sister who has a boyfriend at the age of 35.. He has a nephew at the same age as me! We have been talking for a while and my sister found out and her and her boyfriend tried to set us up... My sister an her bo...

I want to be sexually active but put my defences up before anyone can get close. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm eighteen and I still haven't lost my virginity. I want to become sexually active but I freeze up whenever a potential opportunity arises, and just feel really nervous and uninterested. I always assume guys are just after one thing, and put up my ...

Help me with my play please, I need ideas.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I need some ideas for a play I will be doing in a group.The teacher put 6 people in a group to act out behavior. The leader of the group choose to make our play on the different behaviors in a restaurant. So there are 6 parts for ...

My gay son is dating a married man with kids!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - My son is 17, and came out as gay to us 2 months ago. Me and my husband have no issues with his sexuality. He's in college, studying business systems, and is doing very well. It's his choice of partner that's worrying us though - he told us ...

I've fallen for a teacher, but I'm no kid. Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm falling in love with a teacher! he doesnt teach me and i'm not some hormonal teen, i know the difference between a crush, when he see's me we friendly flirt well at least that's what i think, but how can i flirt in a way that doesn't come acr...

She left me drunk and defenceless on the pavement!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - [MODERATOR NOTE: This post was broken into paragraphs to make it easier to read. No other changes have been made.] I am questioning my partners love for me. I don't think she loves me with the way she responds to me and also in her actions agai...

I am want to cry, but he thinks it’s silly!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - If something is bothering you to the point you feel so hurt and you want to cry but yet, in his eyes, it is so silly, and nothing to worry about. Is it worth getting frustrated over it and confront your significant other and make sure you do not ...

My daughter is ten! Is this sexual role play normal?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

2 November 2009 (?) - my daughter is ten and is friends with a girl the same age. my daughter told me about a year ago that her friend masturbates in their class at school (which i have since told the head teacher) and has now told me that this girl has been role playing ...

I'll keep it short:

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - will i ever be loved...

Why do boys prefer skinny gals? And how do I get them to like me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - no boys like me. ok, maybe there is someone and im just overlooking them, but if i did look at them, they are the worst possible. all the hot guys prefare stick-insect girls. im not fat. but im not a stick insect! im not ugly! i no im not because ...

Should I say something to my Professor about my feelings for him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I am going to the local community college where I live and I am 17 I am not very good at science, but I feel like I have a thing for my professor. He's older but he's funny and charming in an odd way. I have been having dreams about him, and I told ...

Do my actions warrent a breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I hope I didn't destroy my relationship with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with!! He has epilepsy, brought on by a blow to the head when he was in high school. He is on medication for it and as long as he takes it, he is fine. I hadn't...

What can I do about stretch marks?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - okay well im 15 and every since i was 12 or 13 ive had really bad stretch marks, im a very big person or anything. but im veryyy embarrassed of my body, i wont wear girly cloths. i will only wear them if they are long sleeves and i always wear guys ...

Is there a way to check for broken hymen? Out of curiousity and health.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - Is there a way I can check if my hymen is broken or not?i want to see if theres a way.just for curiosity...

How do I move on from this older guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - hey, I'm 13 and i have known this one guy for nearly 3 years now and at one point in that time we sorta had a thing going on and ever since then i have not been able to get him out of my mind for anything i have tried other guys everything deleting...

How do I get through this bad relationship?

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2 November 2009 (F) - I'm 15, my ex boyfriend is 16. We started dating November 16/08. I was at a weak state of mind, and I fell in love with our dysfunctional relationship. He has no future, he lives in a dysfunctional home with an alcoholic backround. Ever since I...

I'm incredibly lonely and I have no idea how to pull myself out of it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I'm incredibly lonely and I have no idea how to pull myself out of it! I know having a boyfriend doesn't solve everything, but I feel that having someone to spend time with and talk to just makes life ten times easier. I've never been in a real ...

How do I test a woman's feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

2 November 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I wrote 2 days ago about a problem of mine's. I got 2 direct answers, direct from women. I don't believe that they lie, but I donw want to believe that they are right... Its about a girl that has been coming very close to me in the past ...

I want to change my life! Should I feel guilty for wanting that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5536 days ago

2 November 2009 (F) - I am a 45 yr old woman,(age posted wrong?) I have been going through the need for change for a couple years now. I am depressed, lonely, bored and burnt out. I want to relocate somewhere else I would enjoy more. I want a new job. A new start. I have ...