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Archived questions from: 3 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Does my wife not trust me with financial matters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - my wife and i are so in love with each other, the only thing is that we disagree on the finances. every time there is a discrepency in our budget and i take care of it she wants to call and see if she can get it taken care of faster. example: there ...

What to do in a situation like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - You are 27 After 6 months you cannot forget about her. You are learning Korean and plan on visiting Korea because you have been inspired by your emotions to do so. You try to convince yourself that this is not obsession You know you will n...

19 and never had a girlfriend. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Ok, so i am 19 but i have never had a girlfriend, and its to the point that i have never properly kissed a girl. I have friends that are girls, and i am told i am a nice person. I play sport, do music, lots of different things, but i havnt met any ...

I am tired of this woman texting my husband with her problems!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - my husband continues to be friends with a woman that i don't approve of. i told him several times that she wants more than that,but he says i'm just jealous. everytime she has drama in her life she text him at least 15 to 20 times and believe me is ...

He was abusive and now he's clingy. I want out, but how do I deal with the emotional blackmail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Ok I don't even know where to start. I've had a boyfriend for just under 2yrs. The last 6 months he's been different...like taking me for granted. He wouldnt take me seriously, didnt want to hang around me, would make fun of me and my weight and ...

I'm in love with my ex-husband, even after 9 months!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - how do i stop loving my ex and the father of my 2 children? its been 9months sice we finished and im still head over hells in love with him, i asked him move out because he stopped all affection towards me we were like 2 flat mates instead of a ...

I'm afraid my 20 year old marriage is over. Am I right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been married 20 years. My husband was laid off from his job, but got hired same type of work at a company in another state. We own a big home here and have a big labrador pet. I can retire in a year so I could not go. He left, calls me ...

Should I confess my love for her and risk losing everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - HI All, This is SRSG. My question is like I am in deep love with a girl she stays in X country and i am in Y country.I got to know about her when we use to work together at one place and its been 4 years i am in touch with her. I will be calling ...

I want to spend quality time with my boyfriend, but he just uses my house as a flop-house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - so i just got back with my boyfriend but the thing is i only see him when he comes over and sleep which is like at 2 or 3 in the morning, he gets up at around 11:30 and then just lays in bed until he is ready to leave which is around 1:30 or 2 and ...

I feel like a social outcast! What am I doing wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - At school there has recently been a kind of friendship break up of 3 of us, when one of my friends got really mardy and blamed us for things we haven't done, and so on. We had a big fallout, especially between my 2 friends and now they don't talk ...

My girlfriend is icy cold and won't even cuddle!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - Hello aunts! I am 21, have a girlfriend for 2 years and I love her more than my life. I am in deep heart ache these days recieving each romance restriction from my girlfriend every other day. 1st of all, she is never willing to go on a date with me. ...

I love my teacher, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) - I had this teacher for drama in years 7 and 9, we'll call him b. in year 7 i barely noticed him but year 9 i was having a difficult time and he really helped me. Somehow I remember the exact day I started liking him more than a teacher, two years in ...

Ever since I became happy with myself, I seem to repel men!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I am a 27 year old editor and I have the worst luck with dating out of anyone I know. This year, I have been on dates with seven men, every one of whom has not felt compelled to continue seeing me, almost always after three dates. ...

If I leave my girlfriend, will she let me see our son?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - I'm 23 and my girlfriend is 22. We've been together for a year and a half. But, we consistently have problems in the relationship, and the love just faded a long time ago...anyway When I let her know whats wrong, or if I have a concern regardin...

I suspect I am not my girlfriend's first choice. She is so unhappy with her life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - My gf was crying again yesterday. She says that she has given up so much to be with me. She gave up her accommodation which was rent free for the last 4 years. This she regarded as her independance. She wants a house with land and outbuildings to ...

Sex makes me feel guilty and shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I am shy to tell my boyfriend when i want to have sex so help me on what i should do. But sometimes after having sexual intercourse i feel guilty. ...

Was that a form of verbal abuse that I went through?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - i was in a relationship with a guy for 7 months, and when the relationship started it was all good he would talk nicely well a week after talking he wanted to meet up for coffee i said we can. We spoke for long and after dropping me off he asked if ...

Is it ok to love with the mind, not the heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (M) - hey everyone, is it healthy or ok to love someone with your mind than your heart? what i mean is to love him/her based on there decisions, beliefs and how they treat you ...

What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4350 days ago

3 November 2009 (?) - I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have...

Faced with choosing bewteen my education and marriage. Why can't I have both?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I am confused about my future. I have been in a relationship with my bf for almost a year now. I am 20 years old and he is 25. Lately he has been talking about getting married and having kids, within the next few years!!!! To me that is very scary ...

How can I convince my boyfriend to stop stressing about my health?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I don't know what's going on. Ever since my boyfriend found out that I'm about 20 pounds underweight, he has been a bit over-protective than usual. I've explained to him that my doctor has put me on a good diet and I should gain some weight in the ...

Does he love me or is just afraid to be alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

3 November 2009 (F) - I broke up with my bf about a month ago for a week because i thought that i was too young to be in such a commited relationship. after that week or so though we got back together and are now dating long distance. i found out when we got back ...