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Archived questions from: 13 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I lied about a pregnacy and abortion to hurt my ex...should I come clean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5486 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I lied to my ex by telling him I was pregnant and aborted the baby. I only did it to hurt him because I found out he was sleeping with my friend. I know it's horrible and at the time it made me feel good to hurt him like he hurt me, but now I feel ...

Why did my wife stop having sex with other men and is unwilling to discuss it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - My wife and I have acted on my fantasy of watch her have sex with other men - four times and three times with one of the guys. I was so turned on! Before this fantasy became a reality we talked about it and she was okay with it because it was for ...

How can I overcome my loss of confidence?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - I havent been in a relationship for 6months. the time when the previous relationship ended. i was recently at the bus stop waitin for a bus and there was also an attractive lady. i didnt ask her out cuz i didnt hav the guts at the time. however is ...

Help! I'm afraid to fall asleep when my boyfriend stays the night!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hi - I have a lot of anxiety problems and I'm afraid to fall asleep when my boyfriend stays the night! - I look awful first thing in the morning and worry my fella will wake and see me! I also snore and I worry my boyfriend won't like it! - What ...

Could the pregnacy test be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Like 2 and a half weeks ago i was supposed to have my period...but i didnt, so last weekend i got a pregnancy test at the dollarstore (i heard they work) and took it, and got negative. So i forgot about it, thinking that my period would be coming in ...

Do you think he likes me? Why did he say nah?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Me and a couple friends were standing in the hallway and talking at recess, and my crush came in and one of my friends was like "****! she loves you" and he was like "i know, haha" and i turned soooooo red, so i looked away, and she was like "do you ...

He texted me 5 times saying he was going to call, but he never did. Why does he bother to text he's gonna call in the first place?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for almost a year now but it became a long distance relationship about 4 months ago (i had to move for school). we argued before but nothing serious, got mad at each other, but nothing that lasted more than a ...

He orgasms so quickly!! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have a question which might sound sad, but I have been meeting this guy on and off for a while and we have kissed and on the last few times he has asked me to give him a hand job, the first time, he came quite quick and I was surprised but the ...

Did you go against your christian beliefs and have sex before marriage? Input needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (?) - This question is for practicing Catholics or christians who were taught that sex before marriage is wrong. I want to hear from those who have went against what their churches teach and have had sex before marriage and have happy marriages. I'd ...

Why don't men spend money on me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Hello, I have always dated men who do not spend money on me. They would have splashed out on their previous gf's but not on me. Usually I am the one to get them great gifts but I rarely get anything cool in return, just cards and some random gene...

How can I help my girlfriend with all her issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (M) - I am 21 and I am with my girlfriend, my sweetheart for 2 years now. we love each other a lot. I want her to be extremely happy, singing and dancing as she is always therefore I am a concerned about a problem that is affecting her. She has been ...

Why do I feel so unprepared for the beauty contest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - hi i am going to be having a photo shoot tomorrow and the pictures will be submitted to this beauty pageant i have been dying to go to. well here's the story last time i was unprepared i din't have any photoshoot pictures so i took my phone and i s...

Why are men more attracted to me since I have turned 13?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - since i turned 13 years, lots of male friends such as my old and new friends, classmates, even teachers etc... have been asking me to be their girl friend. some of them are obsess of me. sometimes they are so annoying. are they crazy? how will i ...

He showed no concern when I had a miscarriage and I am at the stage where I no longer know what to say to him, should I leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have asked for help before and always received helpful and unbiased advice. My problem stems from the fact that I feel that I have not been treated very well and would like other peoples views on whether I should leave this relationship. I was ...

What if I leave him and it is a mistake....but what if I stay in a marriage that is a joke?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I am a 42 yr old Mother of 3 girls, ages 18, 16 and 10. I have been married for 18 yrs and up until 2 years ago thought I had a great marriage. I trusted my husband completely and I am not a jealous person. My husband doesn't drink and he doesn't go ...

... Or would he keep a respectable distance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - Would a guy ever invade your personal space if he is not interested in you?...

Why do we watch our loved ones sleep?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - What do you think is the reason why people will watch their loved one sleep? I think it's sweet, but I was wondering why they do that?...

I'm confident in life, but shy with men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I'm not shy around people - I'm actually very open and loud. People tell me I'm funny and I have a lot going for me. I feel like I have a lot going for me! I don't think there is anything wrong with me. Most importantly, I think I'm friendly...

I don't feel appreciated as a wife or mother

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I am a mom of 3. To give you some backround we had our first at 19. I am really stuggling with my life, as i feel i do not have one. I am with my children all day, and most nights, by myself. I have friends with kids, but older ones and really a...

Gift ideas for the perfect boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - boys are soooo hard to buy for im 18 and im with the man of my dreams he treats me like a princess and i would do anything for him DILEMMA i have no idea what to get him for christmas i want it to be special, not just cologne or a regular ...