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Archived questions from: 21 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I told him I had Herpes and now he won't see me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Met this guy 5 times and really hit it off. Just before 3rd date I told him that I had genital herpes. He said he was falling in love, and still met me for date, but then told me we could only be friends. I havent seen him for 2 weeks, and last ...

Commitment phobe or just being practical?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I'l try to keep this as brief as possible. I'm 30 years old with a teenage son, i'm currently with a guy and have been for the past 6 months!! My concern is that i could be a commitment phobe; I've had an 11 year relationship and an 18 month re...

How do I leave my marriage without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - So I have been married going on 2 years and lately i have not felt anything for my husband, I do not want to be sexually active and I take any chance of being away from him take so extra shifts at work what ever it takes. My husband says that he ...

In love with my crush, but he may soon marry. Should I tell him, or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Ok .. so 5 years ago i had a crush on this guy which now turns out to be love. However, he doesn't know that. I cannot tell him because then the word will spread and that would ruin my reputation. He might get married soon! What should I do? Shall i ...

Is my teacher flirting with me? Could my crush be something more? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Warning: This question is kind of long. I appreciate all opinions. Thank you for reading! I have a problem and desperately need some advice and help. I know I’m like the majority of teenage girls out there, who have experienced this at one poin...

On medication for depression but using drugs too, could I be causing myself long term damage? Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - I'm concerned about any long term damage i may have done to myself after using drugs occasionally over the last few years. I have tried most things once or twice and have probably taken mdma/exsctasy etc about 15 times in 5 years but now usually ...

Did she really intend to hurt me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - For seven years, Jane and I were participants in a forum about current affairs. We admired each other's writing, and exchanged occasional innocuous private messages. This spring, Jane sent me a PM proposing to tell me some stories about her life. ...

Second time around 38 years later

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - I love this married woman. We were sweethearts as young teenagers. But trouble at home kept me at bay. I too was like one of the guys in a group. Gradually days without her turns into weeks then turns into months then years. 38 years have past....

Why do guys turn against girls when they really like them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Quick question... basically why do some guys, even the good guys... why do they turn against a girl if they like them a lot? Like why are they horrible to them or change the way they are with them depending on who they're with and where they are! ...

Do I have to change everything about me to find Mr wonderful???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - OK so here is what I need to know ... I am 45, a redhead past menopause and very in tune with what I want, do I have to change everything about me to find Mr wonderful????????? ...

How do I find out if he's marriage material?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for about 4 months now. We are "exclusive" (whatever that means today, everbody seems to have a different definition) I guess he is pretty much my boyfriend we don't date other people. I'm 32 and he is 31 years old. He ...

Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

21 November 2009 (M) - can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select an...

Day trip to with my boyfriend in Montreal. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5481 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I wanted to spend the whole day together in late December in Montreal. I wanted this to be really special as we don't get to spend much time together. Does anyone have any suggestions on both indoor and outdoor activiti...

My ex wanted me to have an abortion, but now he wants visitation rights

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Im 18 years old and i have a 3 month old little boy with my ex whose 22. He wants to have some sort of visitation rights but i dont want him to. Since when i found out i was pregnant at 17 he left me for another girl and told me to have an abortion. ...

If I ever have a baby, I really don't care if the father hangs around! Is this bad way to think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Is this a bad way of thinking? If i want a baby I dont care what the baby's father thinks. If he wants to be around then he can, if not, then oh well? i can financially support a child on my own as well.. cuz the more i think about it alot ...