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Archived questions from: 12 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Fear of money, yet I work in retail!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I work in retail and have never worked at a register. I am supposed to be trained for the register soon I have a real problem with handling money I always have. I really want to over come this problem. What should I do? I dont have a problem ...

Have any other teens gone through this depression?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I've been getting very depressed recently about stupid things and i want it to stop. i can go from feeling content to extremely depressed and just blank within a matter of minutes if i am left alone. its silly as there is nothing drastic in my li...

Am I making a mistake by having an abortion?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 years now. He is an alcoholic. I just found out I'm pregnant. I would love to have the baby but I don't feel its fair to bring a child into the world with an alcoholic father. I already have a 17 year old ...

Help me to manage this situation...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid,i met a guy in 1997 named vladi when i was working in a factory,that time we both married,our relationship was on and off because we are trying to correct our faults of being married already until i am totally seperated with my husband. ...

Sex after an abortion...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - After abortion how many weeks must I stay before I can have sex, I mean sex without a condom....

Do women like chubby guys?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Do women like chubby guys? My bmi is 26.3 and at 6 ft I wouldn't say that's insanly bad and it's not obese but it's not great either, so what do girls think of chubby guys? Is it really off putting? Is a beer belly enough to make you not want a ...

How do you cope with losing someone you love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5491 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I have had a great relationship with my "ex." We have talked about marriage, tried to have kids, been everywhere together, life was great. Naturally we had arguments but we worked through them. He decided to take a contracting postion in Afganastain ...

How do I break up with four ladies I have spent so much time and feelings into without feeling guilty for doing so?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend going on 1 year and 5 months. She is a single mother with 3 daughters that I have gotten attached to and love very much. The thing is, I don't really think i'm in love anymore with her. There are many things that led ...

Is it possible she died of a broken heart...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, A really pretty girl who had a thing for me when we were teens died back in March from a heart problem. We didn't get to know each other as much as she wanted to due to interference by different people I was dealing with. An...

Does it mean anything if the man doesn't wear his wedding ring?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - For all the married men out there... Does it mean anything if a man doesn't wear his wedding ring? ...

Are my Irregular periods normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I am 13 years old and started my period in May 2009. I had it for about a week and then didn't have my next period until September and then just recently started at the end of October and i'm still on it now so, for about two weeks ......it is ...

I don't know how to help her with this grief

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12 November 2009 (M) - I recently was on here and asked about my friend who took his own life and his sister brought me out of my seclusion. last couple of days have been different. im not sure how to deal with all this. the morning I went back home to see her. when I g...

Is he too good to be true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5492 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - so i met this guy through a mutual friend. he thought i was really cute and so did i. i'm 20 and he's 23 and we both go to the same school. our friend eventually had us meet and we clicked right off the bat and the chemistry came so fast. its been ...

What are the views on poligamy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5491 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - I see nothing wrong with it as long as the one that is married to the two or more is spending equal time between them and not playing favorites or compairing each other or trying to force one to act like the others. In other religions or cultures ...

What am I supposed to do...wait for years to hear those precious words?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for almost a year, and I love him dearly. He is everything I have ever looked for. His actions show that he cares very deeply about me, however he has never said I love you to me, and this bothers me quite a bit. I have ...

Bleeding when having sex or masturbating! Please help =(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old,Female. I have had sex with two partners. With my last partner I would bleed alot during sex, I was on birth control and the birth control made me have no periods, So it wasnt period. Also everytime i masturbate I get blood all ...

I have a crush on her, how do I tell her without making her feel weird?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I have had a crush on this girl for almost a year. I am FAR too nervous to tell her, cause I'm a girl too! Can you give me an idea on how to tell her without making her feel weird, yet making it known enough that she understands? Any help that ...

Are we doomed from the start because of religion and virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - I am 20 years old and am still a virgin. It's never bothered me before until know. I really like this guy but he is quite a strong northern irish catholic and i'm a scottish protestant. I think there is something between us but I just fear that our ...

How can I show her she deserves better than some guy who wants to screw other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

12 November 2009 (M) - My sister is 23 and has been dating a guy for over 7 years. A month ago he told her he was bi and had been cheating on her with a guy. She broke up with him but has since taken him back. They now have an open relationship where he can go and be gay ...

I need your help aunts... What's wrong with me????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5493 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hello everyone and thanks for reading. I could use a little bit advice; first of all i'm a single woman, 20 years old and i dont like myself at all. Nor in the physical angle or spiritual one. Each day i have to go along, standing amid a sea of "n...