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Archived questions from: 20 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

My girlfriend has become distant, is she using me, or am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - My Gf has started being a little distant, she dosen't seem to think so, she has also started saying sex is just the same as it always is when she always used to look forward to it, shes been very hot and cold in attitude towards me. today she said ...

Could my drink have been spiked?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I'm sorry i know this isn't the right site for this sort of question but i always get good advice so i thought id give it ago. Last night i went out with a friend... both got quite drunk...(but its not the first time, were 21 and very used to dri...

My husband is a cross dresser, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - I have been married for 18 years and my husband is a cross dresser. I have try to understand it but it is hard. I do love him the problem is that he is always chatting and texting sexy and dirt talk and talking about crossdressing with women online. ...

Will expanding our sex life to include other people help or hinder our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - My bf and I are wanting to try something in our sex life that he is interested in having sex in front of another couple with no touching and no swapping partners which is what i want but i have a slight doubt. I'm afraid that maybe he will be ...

Am I a slut?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Am I a slut? A few people have said it to me and sometimes my friends say it, in a jokey way, but I think they kinda mean it sometimes. I'm 16, I've only ever had 1 proper boyfriend and we went together for about a year. About 10 months in...

What could be the reason for very bad luck?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - What could be the reason for very bad luck? Like you do everything right in life, it is really not your fault, but you get the worst luck of day, after day. I'm talking about really bad stuff here.NO ,I don't think it makes sense to go into details ...

How do I tackle this problem of watching too much porn?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - hi cupid, am a young guy of 22. i have a serious issue that disturbed my life sometimes and trying to stop this but it's just like pouring water on the stone. I have sexual feelings whenever I see a woman naked or watch a porn movie not only that, ...

I got my friend's wife pregnant, now he's coming home from military duty!!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5484 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - Ok, so i have a problem, I'm in a huge dilemna. I've been sleeping with my friends wife who is at the moment in iraq. (He's a soldier) he comes back in 1 week. They've only been married for about a year, right before he got deployed they got ...

Things seem awkward but I think he might like me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Hey i wrote up two days ago and thanks to "Another_Kapiti" who wrote back to me but just to give you an update. It was a very long question about this guy that i needed to tell him i really loved him but didnt wanna risk our friendship because ...

I'm 14 years old and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - i'm 14 years old,i have never had a boyfriend.i have a good personality i am one of those people who if you ask them for help i will definitely help. my mum and other people have always said that someone will always come around. my looks are ...

I can't see a future with her, but I'm torn!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - I started seeing this girl who I have known since high school but we have been out of touch for about 12 years. She is a single mother and from the beginning I didn’t feel ready for a committed relationship. But I always liked her and still decided ...

My girlfriend dated celebrities and I'm not sure what to make of it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - I met my girlfriend 5 months ago in a nightclub through a friend. We got chatting and after an hour I got her number and arranged to meet her at her place to watch a movie. I was busy with work and didnt call. I saw her in the same club a week later ...

My girlfriend is worried about our future

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - I need help and i dont wat to do. My gf and i who ive been with for 4 and a half months and we both love eachother, are having a weird issue thats happened b4. We both go to the same school and hang out all the time, however recently, since the ...

Are there really any good men out there that don't abuse ladies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5516 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - There are a lot of evil people in the world. I was abused from the time I was 3 years old until I was 15 years old. I am 41 now. It seems like the abuse never goes away. In my life I always meet men who abuse me. I have been through a lot in ...

He just wont touch, kiss or hold me...and we've only been married 46 days!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Hi. I've been married for just under 2 months, been with him 5 years. We're both 25. Lived together for 3 years. In the past 2 years, our sex life has diminished drastically. Mind you, in the past two years, he's been in University doing a ...

Do nice guys finish last? Help me get a gf!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - I'm a 25 year old virgin and I've never been in a relationship I feel at this point it's almost hopeless, the bad part is, is that, I'm almost ready to accept the fact that I will live out my life being alone and never understanding wh...

Fifteen and I want a baby now! Mature advice needed.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Please help. I'm quite mature, and I have support from my family and friends. I've always wanted a baby, since I have hit puberty, I think of what it would be like, and how hard it'd be but at the same time how wonderful it'd be. I know it costs a ...