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Archived questions from: 15 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is your marriage over if there's no sexual attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband for 5 years (since i was 18) I love him very much but the last two years of our relationship I find that I'm not sexually attracted to him any more. I just can't help fantasizing about different men. I have no desire to ...

How important is that intense feeling of attraction in a long term relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - How important is that intense feeling of attraction in a long term relationship? Does it even last longer than a few years? I'm asking because there is a lovely guy who's interested in me but he isn't what I'm generally attracted to in the looks ...

At a crossroads in my life...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - Well, I'm 28 single with a good job no children in good shape have my own place. Been single for like 5 years now. Dated on and off but can't really find anyone to connect with. Is it me or am I not trying hard enough and people always think I'm ...

Any teachers out there??? How do teachers deal with student crushes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - How/what do teachers deal/do with student crushes? For example: if a student had a crush on you, what would you do? and how would you know?...

The blame game!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - You know I am not a perfect person(who is?) But man don't stuff like this just make you mad? My husband and I had our car break down. Now I am not the greatest when it comes to fixing stuff like that but I gave it a good try the night before. My car ...

Should I call him again? Or is this his way of saying "get lost?"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I've been getting to know this guy through email recently. Emails were going well and we seemed to have clicked, alot of interests same but some differences. Swapped photos and attracted to one another so all good. We had an issue about a topic on...

How soon to meet his parents?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I was wondering when a good time to meet the parents is.... My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 weeks and 1 day...But we have been extremely close for about two months (he was just shy and slow asking me out - everyone said "finally!" when ...

No strings attached??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - How does a guy feel when a girl tells them that she wants no commitment no strings attached, nothing just someone she can have fun with?...

Should I ask my boss again for this pay rise?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - A few weeks ago I asked not my line manager but my head of department for a pay rise, he said that it would be based on my appraisal, and job evaluation. He is due to leave at the end of this week and nothing's been mentioned about it. Should I ask ...

Should I tell my ex that I'm pregnant with his child?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5461 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - Just yesterday, I found out I was pregnant and it was confirmed by a doctor. My boyfriend and I recently split and he refused to give me a reason. Then only thing he told me was that he loved me but couldnt be with me anymore. But the night before, ...

Should I just show up at his house?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - ok i really want 2 go round this guys house, hes stopped talking 2 me for no reason, ive texted him and wont answer my texts, and i dont know what ive done, ive spoken 2 my guy mates and they say i should go round and just knock on the door, but im ...

How can I get rid of this stutter?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - Oh boy. I can't share this with anyone other than my therapist. I am currently a very bad stutterer, been stuttering since I was age 6, don't recall it EVER being as bad as it is now, can barely talk at all, to anyone. I regret that I let this hold ...

Are we ready for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - i'm 16 and my girlfriend is 15 we have bin going out for 2 years and she asked me to have sex about 2 weeks ago and shes grabbing my croch and whispering in my ear shes wet and ready for me what sould i do...

What should I do about me and my friend falling out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i really like my best friend but he is really confusing me at first i think he hates me cos he isnt talking to me an then i think he likes me becos hes sitting with me in class an then i think hes fallen out with me cos he stopped ...

How can I discourage her? Should I even contemplating sleeping with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - I'm 48 and have a girl i have known for a few years hanging around me. It didn't worry me at first when she was 12 but now she is 14 and making sexual suggestions I am a bit concerned. A couple of times she has exposed her breasts to me when we ...

Should I have a child with a man 30 years my senior?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5488 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. His daughter is 10 years older than me.He has grand children. Should. I have a baby with him, or its too weird?...