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Archived questions from: 16 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I am pregnant and ignoring two men. Which one should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I need advice on this one. Its tricky. Am pregnant. The father of the baby has not been very supportive. He buys food and well made me sign a receipt saying I owed him 100 quid so I did and will pay it back to him and get him to sign a receipt but ...

I am in lust/love with a straight man... or do I just miss my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hi Guys + Gals I am in a strange situation which is pulling me apart. I currently live with this guy who I met in 6th form and we bonded really well. Since I met him I was attracted to him, although he is straight and has a girlfriend. (he kn...

Is there a way to tell a girl I care for her without jeopardizing a friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - The girl I like doesn't know it but I want to tell her. It's become apparent that she is gay but I have not actually asked her so i don't know for sure. She invited me on a date and we had a great time and laughed at each others jokes. I made her a ...

Can a life-long cheater ever be trustworthy or am I wasting my time?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5485 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - part one; in aug 08 my then finance added some guy to her facebook and when asked about it she said she thought she knew him, she then deleted him and i thought that was the end of it, or so i thought. part two; in jan 09 she went to her work chri...

How do teachers (especially in the UK) deal with student crushes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - How do teachers deal with student crushes? In the UK if a teacher found out a student has a crush on her/him, do they reported immediately or do something maybe tell other teachers about it? etc or do they just keep it to themselvves?? Just wo...

I love my mother, and want to overcome my deep feelings of resentment that she didn't protect me growing up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm going to try to make this as brief as possible... Ever since my mum and dad split up when I was four (I'm now 20) me, my sister and mother have been living with my abusive alcoholic stepdad. He has verbally, mentally and physically abused us ...

Is this relationship over? Is trying to talk through the trouble ruining my chances?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Long story short... we have had our fair share ofups and downs, it's LDR, he broke up with me first time because he wasn't ready and then asked to take me back a few months ago, I took him back met up with him again, felt like i couldn't ever be ...

What is more important; love or bread?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Love or bread? Which is more important to you? Sometimes, I really wonder should girls be practical and choose guys with good family background as in rich, average looking and with a high education level or should she really have to just b...

I am so down... How can I make my relationship better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - im feeling really down at the minute and i think it may be because of my relationship. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and im only 19 so i know anything can happen and there are plenty of more fish in the sea etc but i dont want to leave ...

This guy in college is REALLY pissing me off! How do I play this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I've these few problems. In short, I am a 20 year old male. I am in college now. I am still single, so you can guess I've a confidence problem. I've issues talking to girls. So, my problem is I've few friends here. They are alwa...

My trust issues may destroy my relationship. How can I work beyond them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - hi. i use to go out with a boy on/off for two years, i loved him so much, he was my first love...he use to lie and cheat and make me feel small infront of people, i knew deep down he didnt love me, he only wanted me when he felt like it. a year on i ...

My husband and I have violent and abusive arguments. Can we fix this or is it too broken?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Last week I had a big arguement with my husband. It was the day before a big exam he had and he swore at me several times pushed me and in anger told me to get out. I left but then he rang and profusely apologised. I returned home but was still so ...

What are some ways that will help me cope over the next 6 months?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I hate my job, I am leaving in May, as I am enrolled on a course from September, so am planning to take summer off and relax, but that is still 6 months away and I feel like I am cracking up, I work 8am to 7pm, very stressful and since 3 girl...

Can we help our long-time friend? If so, then how?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (?) - My friends and I are a pretty close group of 4 people- we have all known each other since grade school/junior high, and we're all now in our mid 20's. Three of us are concerned about our one friend "Jane." Jane is trying to fit in with some people ...

Do you think my ex will come back after 2 years of not hearing from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - i had a boyfriend whom i introduced to a friend of mine.they started getting close my friend didn't have anything to do with it she already had a fiancee but my boyfriend started pestering me about her i understood his intention and i left him ...

How long are you supposed to be casually dating before it becomes a proper relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - What's the longest amount of time you've 'seen' someone before you make it a proper relationship. I've been seeing this boy for about 4 months now but he doesn't want to take it further into a relationship yet. It's basically a relationship anyway ...

My cheating wife says she wants her family back.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - I recently learned of an extramarital affair my wife was invloves in. I came home early to discover her texting on her cell phone. When I asked to see it she screamed empahtically no and ran into my 4 year old childs room. Upon convincing her I ...

Happily married but having dreams about my high school girl! Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - i have been happily married for two years now and i keep having dreams about a girl i really liked in high school. i really wanted to date this girl but her mom didnt want us to. is this normal for me to keep dreaming like this? im happy with my ...

Have I fallen out of love? Or am I just confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my bf for almost 3years now the one time we broke up because he was a player and i figured i had to move on. i fel for his friends kindness and mistook it for love he heard im dating his friend and he came back to fix things it...

Is it acceptable for a man to hit his girlfriend when she stands up for herself against unfair accusations of infidelity?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5520 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Is it normal (or acceptable) for: -a man to accuse his girlfriend of infidelity for more than one year? -for the woman to raise her voice and shout, after one year of being falsely accused and asked the same question over and over and over ...

What are "bang bang" shoes?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - What are "bang bang" shoes as in that n-dubz song where she says "you left me standing in my bang-bang shoes" And where can I get some? lol x...

Should I hide my emotions from my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Hi im 18 and sometimes i get emotional and i just want to cry my eyes out cuz either im happy or mad and have no other way to let it out. But i dont like to do it around my boyfriend because i think he might think that i am a cry baby or somethin...

Why can I only remember my bad dreams?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (?) - Why when I have a good dream I cant remember it but when I have a bad I can? I would like to remember the 'really good ones' but of coarse the bad dreams are more clear than possible?...

Should I go (and risk being hurt) or stay well away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5521 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - I'm having a problem regarding the boyfriend of my girlfriend's friend and work colleague. He is a distinctly unsavoury character and when i first went to a work do of my girlfriend's and he turned up he was nasty, rude, arrogant and racist (he ...