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Archived questions from: 27 November, 2009 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Porn and masturbation addiction... Desperately need help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - I desperately need help. I would say I am addicted to watching porn and masturbating. I am a relationship for 2 years and we do have sex, sometimes amazing and sometimes dull. She makes love the way I want but not always and not everything that I ...

Need help! Love/attention addiction.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5477 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Is anyone familiar with "love addiction"? Like the need for attention/love/affection? As if it's a drug. Dr Drew (the celebrity therapist) was talking about it as a form of sex addiction. But just because you crave love doesn't mean you crave se...

Will I ever learn to live alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I'm 18 years old, never been kissed, not pretty, very chubby and I'm asking: Will I ever learn to live alone? Because of my appearance probably no one will ever want something more than be friend with me....

My facial expressions give me away all the time, so much so that people can even tell what I'm thinking, how can I rectify this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - To some this might seem very silly. I am feeling really sad about it. I have such an expressive face and eyes. Everyone (all and sundry) end up knowing what I am really thinking. I was hoping someone could help me to correct this problem. It's ...

Help me... I want the life back that I just lost...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I am in hell. 2 months ago in one fell swoop i lost my partner of 2 and a half years, my job, my home (we ran and lived in a pub together), and my dog. I was left penniless, with 2 children (not his), nothing to focus on and living at my parents ...

Do men like to kiss as much as women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Do men like to kiss as much as women? For me, I think kissing somone passionately is a true sign of showing somebody your feelings - but currently my guy only kisses me as and when. So does this mean he doesn't enjoy kissing or do men just like to ...

Seem to be socially handicapped, is there something actually wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5475 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I have so much that I don't know how to start. I'm an aunt here on this site, but I prefer to be anonymous. In spite of the fact that I'm an agony aunt, I seemed to be cursed with the inability to click with people or make friends. I'...

Long distance relationship, I'm not sure if it's working! what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 4 years now and it only worked out 'cause ever since we started dating, i've been doing every thing he wants. For example, in the first year that we were together, he was insecure and didn't trust ...

Why are bigger breasts better?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - I know this has been asked a million times, but why are big breasts better? Honestly give me the reasons of why they're superior to small breasts when it comes to SEXUAL PLEASURE. Nothing to do with not having back aches, or that big breasts produce ...

Why is it more likely for pretty girls to be sluts?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, I don't mean to speculate but look at all of the single, hot women that exist in the world today. Can't they just find a man to stay with in a long-term relationship or marriage, even an open relationship? Why does seem more l...

Not being able to talk to anyone is killing me!

This question has 44 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hello, ok i was out at my local pub last night from 9.30 to 1.30 and did not talk to anyone! I said hello to couple to couple of people but did not actually speak to anyone, yes there was music playing but come on i have been going to this pu...

Who to choose; my long distance boyfriend who I love very much or the new guy who lives close by?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - i have a boyfriend who tells me he loves me very much.but i rarely get to see him coz he is very busy with work,we live miles away anyway there's this new guy who i have recently met and he also tells me he loves me yet he is very close what can i ...

I was so angry with my married lover that I sent a letter to his son revealing all about our relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Can love be so true when he is with other women at the same time he is with me? I am 38 yrs old and separated. I met a 68 yrs old married man through internet chatting. I fell intensely in love with him and we shared feelings onlin...

Why do things always turn sour once you are married?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5468 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - why is it always like this? when a women and a man is on the relationship, no matter how long the relationship goes even its 5 or 10 years long or more they are most of the time always in good term. the sweetness, the cares, the dream, the love, ...

How can I stop being so depressed over my lack of experience with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5469 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - 17 never been kissed all my friends been kissed,lost there v had there first proper experiences etc and there happy everyone I know is but I'm not and I have not had anyone ever? closest thing I've ever had to a girl is online twice and I just got ...

Why can't I make any relationships work, including friendships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Ok i think i have serious issue. I can not make a relationship work with any one. This includes friends, guys who are interested in me, and even teachers. I was abandond when i was only nine months old and the family that took me in has shown me ...

Does a "cougar woman" have more relationships than an older guy with a younger gal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Do ''cougar woman"" has less chance on the long run with a younger man, than an older man with a younger woman? Do they get hurt more at the end ?...

In love with an actor and it is affecting my real life relationship??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - okay, so i am in love with an actor, ryan reynolds. the guy from the proposal, okay? its getting in the way of mine and my boyfriend's relationship. but ryan is so so so so so so so so hot. i have a poster of him in my room. and look at videos of ...

How can I break this smoking habit once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - This may seem pathetic but its true. Simply put I'm an old kid and besides from the usual crap teenagers have to deal with I seem to make everything worse for myself and because I can't deal with it I smoke. It started out at smoking with my friends ...

What the hell is wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - please help me someone i am pushing my girlfriend away, because i am paranoid and insecure. i have been with my current partner for about 6 months now and she is the best thing to ever happen to me. my last 2 relationships were pretty volatile...

What should I do about my parents rule?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - ok so im 16 and my bf is 19 and i love him more than anything but my parents have this 2 year rule that i cant date anyone that is more than 2 years older than me but they wont even meet him and give him a chance he is a great guy nd ive been wit ...

Is it real? Or just an illusion?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

27 November 2009 (M) - Hey guys, i'v been dateing my girlfriend for about 4-5 weeks. She seems like a really nice girl and she really looks like she loves me. She is always so sweet to me, and says stuff like "your the best boyfriend i ever had" and "your everything...

Tips for getting thru this meeting at work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - HI, not a relationship question really, but very soon i have a meeting at my office. I havent a clue what it is about, but i do know, that one of the people i have to speak to when i get there, doesn't like me and always loves to belittle me. I am...

Is it always black and white?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 November 2009 (F) - Is it always so black and white when getting back with an ex? Every situation can be different right? If you contacted an ex a year later and left a vmail and they called you back right away and you explained mistakes and regrets etc and they said ...