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Archived questions from: 8 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Will fertility drugs help me get pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - my husband and i are trying to have a baby-we have tried for three years and cant aford ivf-they said his sperm count was low and thewy are not great swimmers although they did not rule out that he would not father children----tryinh a turkey ...

Why does he bring stuff from my past we agreed to forget whenever we fight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We went through a lot over a year ago. Everything has really been good and everything, but every time we get into an argument, my mistakes are brought up. Some happened a year ago, some happened 4 ...

I love him so much and he tells me the same but him always leaving me for his ex keeps me frustrated!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - i think i have found my soulmate. he has all the signs of a soulmate, but he says he is in love with someone else, but he keeps running back to me....i feel his thoughts..i have confront him by telling him i know he thinks of me every morning and ...

Should I give him a second chance for the baby's sake?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - ok i have wrote on here before about my boyfriend, he is in the army. i'm pregnant and have 3 weeks left. My boyfriend of 3 years has been distant with me and went on a lads holiday and basically hasnt spent no time with me. i have recently got a ...

How do you know when they love you and mean it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - If a lad tells you he loves you .. how do you know that he means it ?? x...

How can I keep my long distance relationship alive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend on holiday and it was amazing. i thought that it would just be a holiday romance but we both wanted it continue afterwards. he lives about 2 hours away. we have been going out for a month now. we really dont get to see eachother ...

Am I being a paranoid, controlling mum or am I right to contact his friend's parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Okay I need your help. In light of the terrible crimes in uk recently regarding knife attacks, am I being a paranoid, controlling mum or am I right to contact his friend's parents? My son (middle child) is 14 and not what i would call streetwi...

She has a family history of cheating women! How can I stop thinking she will cheat on me too?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Im a 29 year old male, and I have been currently dating a woman for over a year. We hit it off when we met so we ended up moving in together. Life hasn't been better!!! But I find myself thinking about the following quite a bit, How can I get it out ...

I have now become the doormat or the soap box. What can I do about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5919 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I would really appreciate your advice and comments. I do not know who else to turn to regarding my situation, someone who can give an unbiased opinion of it. I'm 21 and my 'boyfriend' is 34. We've known each other for roughly 3 years. I did not...

What's the best way to tell him "I love you"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - hey ive been with my partner for about a year unoffically and about 5 months offically and i think im ready now to tell him that i love him but we havent said it to each other before... we have both said it in a jokey way or said it and then real...

I'm always the bridesmaid but never the bride!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - i am in high school and i have never had a boyfriend, i have lots of guys who are friends, but i am always the friend and nothing more. please help..thanks....

I fear that he will leave me and find someone else! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now. he has started an aprentaship and goes to collage 3 times a week but soon it will only be once a week. I love him so much and as he is two years older than me i am scared he wwill find some1 ...

Why is my girlfriend's past bothering me so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4852 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Hey people I need some help! I have been with my gf for 1 year and 9 month. she is my first ever girlfriend. She is the first girl i have ever done anything with. I have only ever kissed one girl before her. We gave each other our virginity an...

After my pregnancy, my husband prefers to look at porn instead of sex with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my husband for 5years now, we have 2 babies.. a while back , late at night, he asked what i was about to do... I said,"go sit on the couch"... well, the t.v. timer came on for lesbian sex. I figured I wasnt doin the job, so i go to ...

How can I tell my wife that we need to separate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - hmm well i hope you can help ! iv been with my partner of 10 yrs now im 27 and she is 44 ,we have a son who is three and we love him to bits . unfortunately our relationship is very stale and even tho we laugh together and go out together as a ...

My ex had unprotected sex with another guy and got pregnant. Now she want my help! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for 4-5 months now. We dated for over 4 years. I had been trying to work things out with her but it was not going anywhere. There was too much history to throw away. In July I was out with a coworker at a ...

How can I accept my appearance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - hi their, this isnt a love or sexual question, its more about appearance.. im about 5'4 large built and a little overweight.. alot of people tell me how pretty i am, but all i see is ugly and fat, i got tormented at school when i was younger when...

How can I talk other women knowing I'll never pleasure them sexually?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - hi, i dont know where to start, i am married with four grown up children, ok here we go, my youngest is 27 she has a girl 8 years old and a boy 3 years old. she was on heroin and me and my wife went through hell with her, we got her of it eventua...

How can I handle my lover's best friend who wants to tear us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5921 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - I really need advice on this and Im sorry for the length but to truly understand you kinda need to know everything. It's a very complex situation. I've already established that this isnt perhaps a great situation, but I need help on how to deal ...

Do any guys seriously contemplate their responsibilities as in a married life before proposing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My query is very simple. Do any guys seriously contemplate their responsibilities as in a married life before proposing? I have received innumerable proposals over time but i have not find a single man who realises that marriage is more than a ...

Do I follow my heart or listen to other's opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Hi.a guy ive just been dating suggested we settle down together,i love him to pieces and wana spend my life with him but im almost 21(hes 40) and my friends say i have my future ahead of me and i should wait but i love him...do i follow my heart or ...

Is it possible to change his mind?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - The man i'm dating although he is caring for me and he shows his feelings he constantly refuses that there will be a serious commitment for us in the future. When we discuss this subject always he refuses a future for us. Is there a possibility to ...

Can anyone give me information about all contraceptive methods?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Hi I used to be on the pill, because I had heavy periods and stomach cramps. A year after I began taking the pill I found out there was many associated risks, eg. Cancers. So I stopped the pill. Now I have a great boyfriend and am considering beco...

She says she loves me and I'm the perfect guy for her but... she doesn't want to be my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - ok then the girl ive been seeing for months says were just friends,yet we reguarly have sex an talk about a serious relationship together.but she says she doesnt love me and wants nothing with me,yet she says im the perfect guy and if she was to get ...

How long should I wait on sex to earn respect in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - Ok it's super unlike me to wait on sex but I'm coming to realize that pretty much if you want someone to respect you, you have to give it some time. So... how long do I give it and more importantly how the hell do I politely turn it down??? Guys are ...

How can I learn to open up and be more vulnerable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - My mom tells me I'm "too guarded." My ex-boyfriends will say that I'm not bad at love - I'm just bad at being vulnerable. And I know that they're right. For a lot of reasons that probably make sense if you look at my past, I can be very friendly...

I don't know how to 'snog' - any advice?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

8 September 2008 (M) - Oke so i am 15 neally 16 and i dont know how to snog. Girls keep asking me out and i say no then ma m8s say why did you say no she is hot so i gotta keep makin excuses. Can sum ppl give me some advice on how to snog?Would love to have a gf to send ...

I slept with a former classmate and regret it, and now I haven't heard from him. Do I have a chance or have I blown it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

8 September 2008 (F) - A month ago I attended my 20th high school reunion and hooked-up with one of my former classmates. Unfortunately, I called him later that night because we were kind of friends - as we had been sporadically emailing each other before the reunion - ...