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Archived questions from: 3 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

It seems that our relationship is being tested every time. How do we rebuild it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - me and my partner have been together for 4 yrs engaged for 2 yrs. he has a daughter from a previous relationship which is fine and we hav our own little family. recently though he found out he has a son from 10 yrs ago i knew there was a possibility ...

How can I show him I want to move up into our relationship without freaking him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I have a good male friend - I would say our relationship is somewhere between friends and lovers. We only see each other occasionally, although I see him as part of my work at least once a week. Last year he needed me more because he was coming out ...

The woman he cheated on me with got pregnant but we're not sure that they are his!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Well my story started inJan. 2008 when my husband told me he had cheated on me once in Dec 15th 2007.. I was just devasted. I have been with him for 9 yrs. we have a 7 yr old son together and i just love my family so much.. Well, he said he only ...

What can I do to get things back to normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I seriously liked this boy and we sadly had sex when we were drunk in the holiday and now we have barely spoken around school since we got back. I really want things to go back to normal and not be awkward but can't stop thinking about what we did. ...

What are some ideas regarding exercise if you enjoy being active but the gym bores you to death?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I would like to lose weight because although people don't think of me as fat, I am very self conscious about my appearance. I would like to have a nice figure, but I'm afraid that I'm nearing that age where it's impossible to lose weight. My ...

How do I get over the fact that my boyfriend is best friends with his ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I am into a relationship with someone. I am madly in love with him and so does he love me. The problem is my bfs ex. They were into a relationship for quite a long while. This was long ago. Later they got over it and became good friends ...

I want to be able to feel that passion again since my miscarriage. It seems like I'm the one who's making all the first moves.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I am a happily married women who went through a miscarriage a few months ago. My body has taken a while to get back on track but I'm finally there. Ever since the miscarriage my husband has been worried about causing 'problems' for me if we have...

Do I have genital herpes or am I just being a hypochondriac?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I have been looking online aat my symptoms and fear I may have genital herpes. I have small painful bumps on the inside of my vaginal lips. They don't seem like blisters and haven't popped like the website said they would. Also I have gotten sick ...

How do I make my woman so happy, that she thinks about me, when we are apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - i want to know how i can make my woman happy even when she is absent as to make her always think about me....

If a guy that you like a lot, calls you sheltered, is that a good or a bad thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - If a guy thinks you are sheltered is that a good thing or a bad thing especially if he is Mr Outgoing and Mr Active and you really like him....

How can I explain that I want to move there for me and not for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I'm in a bit of a pickle and I don't know if its because I'm over analyzing or not. I have a friend who I absolutly love to peices as a mate but we fancy the hell out of each other. we sleep together when we get drunk and were both ok with it. For a ...

Is a relationship only for the "in love"? What is the difference between "love" and "in love"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - I would like to know the definition of "in love". The english language is terrible in describing emotion, but I'm wondering if the difference between "love" and "in love" are that large? And if it matters. Is a relationship with someone worth fi...

How do you write erotic fiction with or for your partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - How can you write erotic fiction with/for your partner without it just being a long wish-list of things you'd like to do? In my case I keep writing about facials (about which I am obsessed). I guess we just need to talk about it more. OK, I ha...

How can I get my 20 month old son to nap during the day?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Hello i wonder if anyne can give me some advice. Our son is 20 months old and up until about a week ago he had a nap from 11:00 in the morning until 12:00, was then up for the rest of the day until 6:30 when he would go to bed and wakes up at about ...

Can your vagina be depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - help! can your vagina bee depressed? im disabled and have been on anti-depressants for 7 years as a pain killer and to help with the situation of becoming disabled, i came off of my anti -depressants 8 months ago and ever since sex has been painful ...

Am I depressed or do I just need to raise my self esteem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - So I am willing to admit that I have low self-esteem and am very self-conscious. At times I can be depressed because of this but I don't feel it is that serious that I would need to seek medical help. I grew up watching my mother take 10-12 pills ...

Does my co-worker like me or is it my imagination?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5920 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - ok so I started working at this office downtown. I must admit that my job is pretty easy and there's quite a few hot guys (unfortunately most of them are young married lawyers :( ) anyways so there's this one particular guy who I stated liking ever ...

Should I move bases to be with my future wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5823 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - Hello, I am a 22 year old male in the army. I met my fiance' in Iraq. It was strange because I use to and she use to look down those because people always rushed them. We started it by seeing where it would go, we both agreed to this. We deployed ...

My wife never wants to have sex and I fear I've become addicted to porn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - I've been exposed to porn since I was a toddler. I used to look at the pictures in the softcore magazines stacked in my Dad's wardrobe when he was downstairs. Later, when I understood when I was looking at, I masturbated over them regularly. This ...

I can't seem to find any friends at my school! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

3 September 2008 (M) - I enter school tomorrow, and its my 11th grade, yet I can't seem to find friends, any sudggestions, oh I live in LA, people here don't give a s**t....

I have fallen for my best friend. I know I'll never be with him, so how do I get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - i really like by best guy friend but he doesn't like me. i have liked him for a few months well maybe 6 months now. and i told him about 1 month ago, (nothing is or feels different) but just today i found out he has a girlfriend and he never told me ...

How can I make this a time where we can make this a concrete situation and do things differently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5927 days ago

3 September 2008 (F) - Six years ago I met this guy. We dated for about six months. He seemed emotionally unavailable to me so I pretty much moved on. We have remained friends over the years and kept in contact. We met up a few times over those years as well. He showed u...