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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

Is it wrong for me to be all anxious about his female friend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I need to be calm about this, but it is hard for me. My b/f has a friend (female) who is married, but her husband and she are far apart often because he works several states away from her. But now she has gotten a job fairly close to where my b/f ...

Is there anyway I can get divorced papers to show him, so I will not loose my family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I'm a married women of 25yrs who has had a 3yr relationship with a man who thought i was divorced. I want out of this now, but the other guy says he wants to see my divorce papers or else he will tell my husband. I know what i have done is very very...

I want 'revenge'.....What can I do to prove my point?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, My problem isnt that significant, but any advice possible would be extremely helpful to me in many ways. Me and my boyfriend of a couple months broke up recently because i guess he didnt like me anymore and wanted to go out with t...

I haven't fallen pregnant yet. Could iron deficiency be the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I am trying to conceive but haven't yet, could there be a chance that i have low iron? would that effect me getting pregnant? Would more iron help me or make it faster for me to get pregnant? If so, where would i buy iron pills? -Michy...

She wants him to give her money, if he doesn't - he doesn't get any sex either.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I met a 40yr old man that had been living with a 19 yr old and he was gaga over her. she decided to call it quits. Though it boosted his ego 'cause of her age, said he probably would not ever get it again {the age thing}. He has been married to an a...

Did he really understand that he may have made a big mistake!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - hello. i love my boyfriend so much. we are not from the same country and we are both foreigners in the country we live. he doesnt have a family he grow up with facing every problem by himself. he realized that first time in his life someone is ...

She asked one night if I wanted to kiss her, I said yes, and we did. Then she says she's not okay with it. I need some answers please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I have a friend who Ive fallen for, and when I told her she ignored my comment. One night after another conversation she asked if I wanted to kiss her and I said yes, so we did. It was the best ever and I never felt complete. After that night she ...

I'm 14, he's 16, and I really don't care what people in school say, we just really want a baby.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I am 14 years old and my boyfriend is 16. we really want a baby. we have picked out a baby name and everything. i know my mom and dad would be really upset with me, but i really want this, so i dont know what to do. I mean everyone is always t...

I have loved him now for a year and I can't seem to move on. I just need some really good advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - this guy i know is perfect, and im totally in love with him, but he has a girlfriend who by the sound of it he is breaking up with, but he doesn't love me back. i've tried to move on but its just impossible, i have loved him now for a year and i ca...

I have felt from the start that he is the one, but I don't want to get my heart broken again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 3 weeks now and I have felt from the start that he is the one. He says I love you to me and I know it's really soon and new into the relationship, but I just can't shake the feeling that he is the one. How can I go abou...

I'm 15, have sex regularly and not always protected. How comes I haven't fallen pregnant yet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5908 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - hello im a 15 year old girl, have sex near enough regularly and some of the time i use a condom but its like rarely. im just wondering how come i havent fell pregnant yet?is there something wrong with me or is it normal?please help! x...

How do I cover up my blemishes? I have fair skin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - I have fair skin with some blemishes and i want to cover them up with out making it worse.i want to make it as theough my skin is flawless but like i havn't used any thing.Does any one know of a really good concealer to use which is good for my skin ...

What's most important in the kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - I was wondering how much of pleasure from kissing comes from technique and how much is from connection. If you're in love with a person, and they suck at kissing, will it still be fun?...

Do males find red hair a turn-off?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

21 September 2008 (?) - Just a quick question, because I'm beginning to get paranoid: Do males find red hair a turn-off? Will he reject a red-head if she asked him out, because of her hair colour? And if you have been asked out by one, did you oblige, and were, or cur...

What are the rules of a casual relationship?? We connect intellectually and will provide comfort, intimacy and attention to each other, but neither of us is ready for a serious deal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - what are the rules of a casual relationship? Hi all, I'm in a 'contractual' relationship with a guy. He's 10 years older than me, divorced and is not looking for a serious relationship. Plus he's not local. I just got out of a messy relationship as ...

Why you should get a panic button.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (?) - If you have a gate that makes a sound when opened. Always keep your car keys beside your bed. Why? If you hear some one come though (brake in) push the panic button...if you dont have one...GET ONE! No one is going to stick around once the alarm g...

Why do girls keep running back to the guy they know hurt them most?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - why do girls keep running back to the guy they know hurt them most? what the hell is it?? i was once a strong girl who never thought to do that...but once i opened up my heart to someone, they basically threw it back in my face and even though after ...

I'm a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - i am a 64yr old man who is in a relationship with a 20yr old girl..im also impotent but manage to satify my girl in other ways..we love each other very much..i have tried to end it with her...for her sake but she wont have it...am i being selfish in ...

I feel gross and trashy after my girlfriend told me how 'going down' on her is so disgusting!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4309 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have oral sex. I know that she really enjoys it when I go down on her. This morning I wanted to arouse her so I started talking about eating her pussy. She went on and on about how disgusting eating pussy it. How it’s so gross...

Do you think I'm being played? Or is he just being his caring, genuine self?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Well, I am new at posting and asking for advice, so this is a little hard for me. To start, I never thought I would ever get involved with a married man. At first I did not. We were just good friends and could relate to each other. I met him seve...

My sister betrayed me, and my brother couldn't care less about me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Please help, Im a 23 yeard old woman currently living with my sister, her kids, husband and my brother. Due to financial issues, I ended up here. I lost my car during the holidays and my brother allowed me to use his car until last month. I didn...

I want to seduce my 30 yr old teacher for fun. Any tips on how?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - Ok, how can i tell if my male teacher is interested in me? Like what signs should i look for? How do i seduce him? Im 17, a highschool senior, and he's in his 30's. So I want 2 seduce him for fun. what way can i do that? Me and him get along like...

I'm truly willing to wait as long as I have to for her. I guess my question is - how do I keep myself sane in the meantime?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

21 September 2008 (M) - I'm a recently divorced 29 yr old male with a HUGE issue. I'm in love with someone elses wife! After my marriage ended close to two years ago I approached relationships in a whole new way, overcautiously. I "played the field" for a while trying t...

At first we couldn’t keep our hands off each other, but now he doesn't even want to be alone with me. I need advice please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5910 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend doesn’t seem to like being alone with me anymore. Most of our pastimes now always seems to involve friends and family. We both developed sexual problems and I wonder if it is to do with that. He told me right from the start he can ...

Will I be better off hurting because I broke up with him, or hurting because he doesn't love me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5910 days ago

21 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for a year and a half. we both lost "it" to each other. i was pregnant once and lost the baby. my point is we've experienced a lot together. we were in love for the first year. we were planning to get married as ...