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Archived questions from: 28 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I know I'm not pregnant, but I'm just wondering why I haven't had my period come yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5851 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hello, i need some help..I had sex last month, 4 days before my period, had my period the last week of august and it went into the first part of september. Would i have another this month or since it came into this month, would i just skip this ...

Is a long distance relationship worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - About a year ago, this girl moved from LA and we've been friends since. We met at a church which we attend very so often. She is absolutly amazing. She has great personality, she's very cute and has an amazing body. The thing is, she lives too far ...

He's totally ready to take the relationship to the next level, but doesn't understand why I'm not.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Im a 19 year old girl in the usa. I have recently become involved with a 39 y.o man who is from the U.K . I greatly enjoy his company and conversation but am afraid to commit. I feel we don't have a good chance because of the age difference. I have...

I confronted her about that secret and she said that she was NOT a girl at all...she is a transexual!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - I have a serious question that has been bothering me for a couple of days. I met this girl two months ago online and she and I were fully in love with each other. We always chat almost everyday and she has been sending me pictues of her. I thought ...

I have these stupid obsessions, right now it's Richard Hammond.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Help! I am 14 and all my friends seem to have boyfriends. I am the only one in my year who has never had a boyf and it's really getting me down. I recently went through some points with my social life and I am too forward with people. Also, I have...

How likely am I to be pregnant? I am starting to worry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5894 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Okay aunties and uncles ... I am on the pill, and I had protected sex 3 weeks ago. I am on my pill-free week (3rd day in) and no hint of a period.... how likely am I to be pregnant? I am starting to worry....

Am I reading it all wrong? Does she think we're just friends? What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - I speak to this girl everyday and have met up with her numerous times for quiet drinks and a couple of days out mainly on her suggestion. Question is does she like me? i'm really into her- i feel comfortable and enjoy her company. but i can't tell...

How can I reclaim my life and feel better about myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for two years now, since I was a senior in high school. I have a complicated family life; my dad was mentally, physically, and sexually abusive and was kicked out of the house when I finally told my mom at age sixteen. ...

I really don't know if I should continue the relationship, because I get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i'm in a relationship with a guy who is much older than i am, he is happily married with kids, i know he loves his wife so much. i really dont know if i should continue the relationship cos i get hurt anytime he talks to me about his wife, He is th...

I'm young, I don't want to be trapped in a pointless relationship for the rest of my life, so please, help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi. this is actually weird and hard to type and to share with everyone, as i havent spoke about this to my best mates, or my family, as i know wht theyll say, but i dont know if i want to except it. I'm 17 and have been goin out with my bf, who is 2...

Were we wrong to want to smoke weed? My boyfriend freaked out about it...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Please don't judge me on this but i really need your help, for a while now me and 2 of my friends hve been wanting to try and smoke weed just once and not even a whole joing just to see what its like. so i spoke to one of my really close friend w...

Why exactly do people have anal sex when it's so disgusting?!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Here's the thing, all these people brag about anal sex, the porn industry claims that women love anal sex. We tried anal sex and all I can say about it is that it felt like i was taking a big crap. It was discusting and the thought of it made me ...

Will this LDR work out or is my friend only asking for heartache?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5894 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I was wondering if my friends new relationship will work out? They've been dating for 1 month and the first week in September, she moved away for school and will be back at christmas. However, they will be spending 4 months apart at a time. She neve...

I don't know if it's healthy, I'm only 13. I feel supid, it started when I was using the bathroom at home!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - i know its stupid neither not good, but i usually get horny a lot. and i jock on my self. i dont know what to do to controlled my self but its hard. i need help with that, i cant stop watching porn and . sometimes it hurt my feeling. i dont know...

Would my age have any affect on him being granted a visa?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i have known my turkish bf 3yrs, been with him 1yr and see him 5 times a year even at the end of the season, i am 20yrs older he knows ive no money. i rent my home i asked him to visit me in the uk but he says no. now last nite he said he would appl...

How do I say I'm sorry? I know I should have kept my mouth shut! I don't want to lose our friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Okay so...there's this guy I like who's basically my best friend. He suffers with Anorexia, and while he's been healthy for a while now, lately he keeps saying he needs to lose like 10 pounds. The thing is, he was in an accident, and he really c...

Am I a chump? Why am I even thinking this stuff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Here's my story. I did have sex until I was 25 with a girl who I had pined over for a LONG time. We then had a 2 year relationship which started off great- both in love, it wasn't just physical I think we clicked quite well. Going into the second y...

I'm not able to masturbate anymore, I'm 30 yrs old. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - i Was enjoying masturbation very well 2 yrs ago and i am lost now now. i don't have any desire now . Earlier when i was ok i used to masturbate daily twice a day i used to feel guilty to have masturbated to known persons. i used to run finding toil...

What could all these symptoms mean? I'm so worried and confused!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4818 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Alright, so I posted a couple of days back to get peoples opinions of whether or not I was pregnant. So a quick summary of that was - "I had sex with a boy, he had a condom, but I told him that he didn't have to wear it, and he said he would, b...

I would really like to be friends, how long should I wait before talking to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5901 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, broke up with me over a month ago, and I was devastated. I'm a teen and I was in a long distance relationship about 2 hours distance. I had belongings which I left there last time I was there. So there were comp...

Please help me on how to deal with family and my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I left my husband, he sent divorse papers to me. He has a girl friend, i don't have a boy friend. Before he gave my family member the divorse papers he told me on the phone he need to meet me to give me my belongings back. he will stay silent then...

Why are fine-looking women so worried about their appearance? Do women have some kind of competition or acceptance problems with each other?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5886 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Alright, I just wanted to express my opinion. From a male perspective, and not that of a guy who looks around hungrily for sex. Women seem really image conscious, a little too much I'd say. I mean it's surprising how much women actual...

I miss my old military college...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Short story: I enrolled in a military school my first year of college. I was stressed out so I quit after the first semester. Now it's looking like a bad decision, but I don't know how I could reverse it. Longer story: My freshman year of college ...

Is it possible for a marriage to survive an affair when both partners are willing to try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Is it possible for a marriage to survive an affair when both partners are willing to try. I had an affair and no longer love my husband - I do however feel great affection for him and love him very much as a friend. He still loves me and is ...

He beats me, he cheats on me, he takes my money,but I'm lost in the mist of love..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - this guy and I have been dating for almost two years now. Its been a hard relationship I will admit. I gave my all I to this relationship and I feel so foolish at times when I actually take the time to think the "relationship" through. I did ...

Is this all just a game?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello, i have a been with my partner for 18 years. We had our 1st child in 2000 after being together for 10 years, who is now 8 years old. Our 2nd child in 2002 who is now 6 years old. The last child in 2007 now is 1 years old. All our chil...

Does he really not care at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I broke up with my bf of 4 years about a week and a half ago. The reason I broke up with him was because he wouldn't make a commitment to me as in living together or marriage. I've been back and forth with my feelings. Sometimes I miss him a...

My dad is dating this girl that hates my guts!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (?) - My dad is dating this girl that hates my guts and has no respect for me. I don't really like her when she's over I just igorne her pretty much or go a friend's house. She treats everyone like crap (cluding him). He treats her like gold. Befor...

Its so many things plaguing me that I don't know where to start and I feel like I'm going crazy.-Advice please!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I have reason to believe that I am suffering from depression. (My boyfriend suffers from clinical depression also) I've been dating this guy for almost 3 yrs, we have a 1yr old son, and we live together. Also we r both 21 yrs old. I believe that...

The idea of my wife being with other men doesn't make me jealous outright. But I don't know how I will feel on the night?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hi my wife are i are 26 and have been married for 3 1/2 years. We were each others first but both had one other sexual partner before we started officially dating and eventually got married. My wife has recently lost a lot of weight she had put...

We like the same boy, but now she's getting competitive. Who do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Ok so there is this guy that me and one of my other frends like. We both dont know if he likes one of us but we dont wont to ask him cuz we dont wont to hurt the others feelings. I flirt with him when i can but im always worrying about if she sees ...

Are these the symptoms of pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - September 27th, Ok.I am scared.Me and My love had sex and i started suspecting pregnancy about 4-5 days ago.I have the symptoms: -Nausea (without vomiting) -Cramps (In legs) -Twings of wierd pain between my hips(below waiste) -Indestion(Never ...

Know the person who you are kissing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Relationship abuse is a big term that many people might not understand correctly while there people who might have an idea but not know completely what is it. Do you know what relationship abuse is or you just do not care at all? Well every single ...

What do I do if he does not stop this nonsense? We serve on the same committee.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Thank you in advance to all the great agony aunts who take the time to answer this. I did write in last week about a difficult situation where I am working on a committee with an ex who is being alternately rude and disrespectful. The work I am ...

Do you think there could be any happy ending here? My ex is now with a woman who has done time for drugs, and has a history of domestic violence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Do you really think there could be any happy ending here? It's been a year now that they have been together. Please read. Her name is T****. My man of 9 years left me for this woman he met. He has never done any kind of drugs and is totally ...

Can Adult Friend Finder create a profile from information they find on the internet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I found out my boyfriend has a profile on Adult Friend Finder. When I comfronted him about this he said it was a mistake and that he never made one. He said that the adult friend finder site must have created it, but it has some of his ...

My husband told me he flirted and danced with another girl in a club. Should I take this seriously?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I 23 years old and married with my husbund, 32, for three years and have 2 years old son. Last night he went out from work, and came home at 1am, drunk, and told me he flirted and danced with another girl in a club. I dont know, what to do. Shall I ...

How can I get him to be with me and just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Ok, I just started my new job a few months ago and have had the biggest crush on my boss, to my surprise one day he text me and asked if we could hang out..so we did and ever since then we have been messing around. Well the downside to this is..he ...