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Archived questions from: 24 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm so confused and I don't know what to do! I love her, but I'm not IN love with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Ok i got a major problem. well i have been with this girl for 1 yr and 7 months and i love her to peaces but i have the feeling of wanting to date other ppl. well i told her how i felt and she ran crying. so i felt like a complete doosh. i didnt le...

I was so fond of him and I'm losing a friend, albeit a lousy one! What would you do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I met a guy last year through work. He invited me out to dinner a few weeks after we met and I was going to stay at his house for the night as i live quite far away. We met at a cafe bar before going to the restaurant. When I arrived a girl was talk...

Would you say I was alcohol dependant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I find I have alot more confidence when I have a drink in me, as I am usually shy and prefer to sit in the corner un-noticed. But as soon as I have a drink, I love meeting and chatting. Does this mean I am alcohol dependant?...

I'm so confused, do I go with my gay friend or find somone who's straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5903 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Don't know what to do. I am in love with a good friend. We have done stuff before but I don't think he is gay, at least he will never say anything about it. I am afraid to say anything to him in fear of ruining our friendship. I keep waiting for ...

Please help. I'm too scared to leave him, beacuse we have two beautiful daughters together, and I don't know what he'd do.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 3years and we have two kids. he always yells at me, he calls me names like bitch, whore , dumb ass, etc . he hits me and pushes me, but i love him and he says he loves me, but im not to sure. he always calls to see wher...

Can my moody ex ever get over his jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Can anyone offer me some advice? I was dating a guy for 4 months after being single for a year (by choice). This person came out of an 8 year relationship which was acrimonious and they are currently trying to sell thier house. A few days ago we ...

Am I doomed to stay with this man -till death do us part- just so I can keep my kids together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do. Can anyone help pls? about 5 months ago my husband suggested we try a 3sum to spice things up in our sex life, to make matters more complicated my husband said it should be with an ex of mine (well i say ex, i had an affa...

How should I react or even think after finding an email he sent to an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - my fiance of 3 years sent an email to one of his old female friends, and ended the note with 'lets rekindle freindship or more'. how should i react or think?...

It's not fair on us. We want to spend some time alone, but his family keep getting in the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - hi, i love my boyfriend he is 27 years old and moved back in with his mum and dad when he broke up with his ex. We are putting in for a house together and he is fighting for his kids, but since i have been with him we dont get left alone. pe...

I'm female and I've have had it hetrosexual relationships! So now I'm looking for a discreet gay guy who is looking for a 'wife'. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Hello everybody. I am looking for a discreet gay guy who is looking for a `wife`. Where do I start? I have `been there and done that` in many heterosexual relationships and want a partner who can be more of a great friend, caring, thoughtf...

If I had a 3'sum with another guy and my girl, would that make me gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - I'm a straight guy and i'm just curious, i haven't done this yet, but i want to try for once to have sex with another man and my girl. Also, would that mean i'm gay?...

What emotional and common level would a 40ish man and 19 year old girl have?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - why would a 40ish male want a 19ish girl and visa versa. on what emotional and common level would they be. alot of people say go for it...

Why would he want to know how my week went? Is he just a nice guy or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Sooo this guy I've hooked up with 2 times basically let me know this past weekend that all he is really looking for is a good time and nothing more than that. This is cool with me, because I'm not really looking for anything more than that either. ...

What does karma have to do with it? Is this just an excuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - I fell in love with my friend with benefits. We've been on and off since november 2004. What we have is a secret, even though, after all this long many people realized what was happening between us. He doesn't want anything serious, and neither ...

He comes from a rich family, I come from a poor one...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I come from very different backgrounds. He comes from the perfect family, they helped him buy his home, he is still on their insurance, he is supported in all he wants to do. I come from a very different background. I get no ...

What to do about my unemployed Prince Charming? I honestly think guys that can take care of themselves and their woman are sexy! How can I encourage him to get a job??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 8 months now and it's been going pretty good so far...well, sort of. He's smart, funny, attentive, compassionate, caring, and great in bed. The only thing is he doesn't have a job! When I met him he ...

Would it be right to leave my daughter to go abroad with my girlfriend for work? But would in turn be right to stay and leave the girl I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

24 September 2008 (M) - Hello Cupids, I have a problem. A extremely life changing problem. My girlfriend is moving to Australia for work next month and has asked me to go with her. We've been seeing each other for 2 years and we are deeply in love. But the prob...

I need tips on having a BBQ so I don't burn the house down!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - This may seem like a lame question but thought may get some good tips here! I am throwing a surprise party at my house and am having to organise everything on my own. The only thing I am a bit confused about is the BBQ as I have never done it be...

Has porn really become so prevalent that it has shaped the sexuality of people today?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - Are all young men fascinated by porn? After 20 years of marriage to my first and only sex partner, I got divorced and decided to live a little and see much younger men. In the bedroom, they all seem to want to live out their porn fantasies. They...

He just keeps on breaking my heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5907 days ago

24 September 2008 (F) - hi there, Me and my ex have been broken up for around six months. I felt that I was finally getting over him until I went on holiday. He was on the same holiday as me with his friends. We met and exclaimed that we still loved each other and decide...