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Archived questions from: 16 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I'm 20, and I only feel happiest when I'm in a relationship. When I'm not a big part of me is missing. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 20, and I only feel happiest when I'm in a relationship. It seems like every time I come out of a relationship for whatever reason, I feel like something's missing in my life. I have only been in three relationships, and only one of thos...

I'm worried about my girlfriend's health, she's just not eating properly. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I have been in a relationship with a girl i met at university for 8 months now. I feel that she does not look after herself properly and is very lazy in her approach to life. Eg. she wont eat three meals a day and wont cook for herself. Instead she ...

What classifies as an "active" sex life? Just curious?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - How much times do you have to have sex in a week to have an active sexual life??...

What can we do about our friend who is harming herself? Should we tell?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi, my ex - best friend has been cutting herself for about a year now, and me and my other friends don't know what to do. I've been reading stuff about telling, but were too afraid. So, please tell me anything i can do to get her the help she need...

I'm stuck! I'm in love with two guys and I don't know what to do. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Ok. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we have a one yr old daughter together. at the beginning things were great but the last yr and half hasnt been good. we argue, we have little scraps and we just dont seem to be how we were. the romance has ...

I feel my life is going nowhere, for as long as we're at his dad's!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I lived with my boyfriend for a little over a year and then we moved out and moved into his dads house to try and save money to buy a house. Well, times got tough and we haven't been able to really save any money because his business was not gene...

I don't want to go out with him anymore, but I'm afraid he'll do something bad to himslef.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do about my boyfriend. He is 14 and smokes about 15 cigarettes a day. His dad is an alcholic and beats him reguarly. Every time I see him he has more bruises. He has also tried to commit suicide by taking overdoses. But him an...

After hearing bad news, my boyfriend put his foot through the TV set. It scared me and I don't know what to do now.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi. I have been dating this boy for a while. I live with him in this cute little apartment in suburban Ohio. Recently he found out his little sister has cancer and when he found out he got so upset he put his foot through our TV. I love him ver...

Was he just in it for the sex? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Ok, so ive been out on a few dates with this guy i met about a year ago.. we've kept in contact since then..emails, texts etc. and bumped into each other on nights out every couple of weeks, we've ended up sleeping in the same bed 3 times after ...

I don't know where to start seeking help about my bf's problems. Please read and advise?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5912 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I'm writing to ask for some advice, I don't know if this is the right place to go but I don't know where to start. It's to do with my boyfriend, Jack. I'll give a summary of why we're looking for help. Jack grew up in a pretty unstable upb...

What exactly does "love" mean to you?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - heya, A friend of me asked me this, and i want to get some of your opinions on it... but can you tell me...? What exactly is love? I know... kinnda a big question... but i want to see what other people think it is :) And i dont really want the d...

Our sex life is great it's just that he is wanting to do it always, is this a normal guy thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - hey everyone just need some advice... i recently gave away my virginty to a person that i am with.. we both love each other and i felt it he was the right guy... anyway the issue however is the fact that he is alwaysss on it... our sex life is great ...

How do you make love to a very large guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - This may sound so stupid but...........I need to know, my boyfriend is overweight a very large tummy and I'm thin. Oh my gosh I'm so embarresed to ask but how do you make love to a very large guy, his tummy gets in the way. And he's not very well ...

I am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away-Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - hi everyone i am deeply in love this girl but she lives three and a half hours away. i haven't yet confessed my feeling too her because i believe nothing will ever happen in the future. i went out with her in my earlier years but seeing her agai...

How do you find a decent man? One who doesn't just want you for sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - How do you find a decent man? who doesnt just want you for sex? How do you know when they are telling the truth and not just trying to get into your knickers? coz I dont have a clue, and neither does anyone else I know. Please help, Im starting to f...

My partner gets off on watching 'she-males' and he wont stop!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - please help. I love my partner, but he loves watching she males all the time and he stimulates watching them. Its breaking my heart. Itold him to stop and he says its normal and wont stop. I have just had a baby and feel down. Is he right to do th...

Our 1 year wedding anniversary went unmentioned. Does this mean we have a bad marriage??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Wondering if this means we have a bad marriage..Although I feel we have a decent marriage. We have a 6 month old and a 17 month old. I stay home, he works. He likes his job and it is not stressful for him. Well, yesterday was our 1 year wedding ...

I'm bothered about all these pictures he has of another woman and some ex's, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - This gonna be as concise as possible. I found six pictures of a woman in provocative dress (lingerie, bedsheet) in different poses in my boyfriend's email address. I confronted him about it and he got mad and said that he only asked for those be...

Apparently I said some embarrassing things, now I've lost my friend, and she refuses to talk to me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi I have a friend and we have this special relationship. We have kissed and flirted with each other quite a bit, yet we dont talk about it. However she knows that I love her because I told her quite a few times. I got drunk the other night and I ca...

She just wants to be alone for the week to see if she misses me enough to get back with me. Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - we started dating 11/06. we moved in 6/07 and she broke off 06/08 on my birthday. she told me she did not feel loved. she lived with me until july 19. i went away for a week. upon my return, i made an effort to show her my love. she accepted my chan...

I'm sick of his behaviour and I want to break up with him, but how do I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been ignoring me constantly recently, acting like hes mad at me and being either distant, or sarcastic and patronising when we do talk. Even though i still care about him, his behaviour is making me miserable every day, i'm getting ...

Are all 21 year old guys this careless about there finances?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 years is very and I mean very bad at keeping his finances in order. He's 21 years old and he has collection agencys calling him every day. he gets numerous letters in an atemt to collect debt, and his checking account is like ...

She deliberately excites me...we're in our late 50's and we're first cousins!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I am a 59y/o divorced male who has a 58y/o female first cousin. We visit each other about 3 times a year. She is married to man about 15 years older than she is. Over the years weve always been close, she even tells me when she and hubby are ...

Is there a test to see why I have problems with pregnancy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - hi, what it is, i have 2 boys age 2 and 4, i got pregnant in jan and had eptopic at 8 week. i found out i was pregnant in aug and just had a miscarriage and i was nearly 2 months. Is there a test to see why, cos its mad, and i want reasons why....

Are we ready to take the next step?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - I am 26 and my partner is 20 are we ready to get engaged??? We have been seeing each other for about 5 months now, and i have never felt as strongly for someone as i do her, we have been living together for about 3 months now and over come jealou...

Does this request for lunch mean anything from a guy??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I emailed a guy i liked to buy him lunch which he turn down coz he said he could not make it and suggested another day instead. I did not ask him again pursue since then. However, after a week or 2, he suddenly ask me about the lunch and insist that ...

On top of struggling financially, I discovered that my husband has been sleeping with our neighbour. I don't know what to do.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I need help. I am in a very very bad place. I work in an industry that is taking massive hits and lay offs everywhere. I am responsible for 2 children (from my husbands 1st relationship)and my husband, He also works but we rely on my wage ( I earn m...

What is the difference between loving someone and being in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - What is the difference between just loving someone and being in love?...

I really love gothic, black metal music. Does everyone go through this phase?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - i am a gothik girl but don't wear a lot of black.. but love the music.. black metal .. death metal..because of the state of war i lived in... anyways,i just wanted to ask if this a normal phase?i mean does everyone get threw with it?because it is ...

I'm getting restless with my girlfriend of over a year. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (M) - ok, i dont know if im in love! ive been wit the same girl for 1 yr and 1 month and been faithful but ive been thinking about cheating on her! some days i wanna be with her and some days i wanna be single and be out meeting new girls! we fight alot ...

I am unsure about my sexuality, how do I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - i am 17, female...and i am very confused! i have a boyfriend who i love but i cant stop looking at or thinking about girls!!! before i met him i considered myself bisexual...but i never knew for sure...i find women way more attractive than ...

Why do I run away every time a guy shows interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - What's my problem? I start to like a guy, and as soon as he starts liking me back, I run scared. It doesn't matter how sweet or genuine he is, I just don't like them anymore. It's as if I prefer the chase over the actual prize. This probably ...

I'm aware being on the pill is meant to 'trick' your body into thinking it's pregnant, but....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi, Just a quick question here. Might sound silly but I just wanted to know. I'm aware being on the pill is meant to 'trick' your body into thinking its pregnant as such. Does this mean any emotions you experience whilst on the pill, you will be ...

I'm just wondering what I can do to get my little sisters' head right without beating the holiness out of her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - what's the charge if someone tries to get a person raped? i have 3 little sisters and the youngest invited a guy to our home while i was gone. my little sis who is 21 now, was raped by that same guy when she was 16. im just wondering what i can d...

I want to be able to trust this guy more than anything...trust that he wont hurt me...but don't know how to.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5915 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Every relationship i've had i've ruined. As soon as a relationship starts getting serious or i start feeling to much i either end it or i act like a jerk and wait for the guy to end. I did this a few monthes ago with this guy i really liked and poss...

Can a fetish be cured?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are a completely happy, normal couple. Sort of. Earlier in our relationship I noticed it was hard for him to get it up and even keep it up. We struggled for a few weeks. He was more mad about it than I was. He later conf...

Should I even risk it since he is, in a way, one of my teachers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I'm interested in the TA (teaching assistant) for one of my classes. We have a lecture session and then the discussion session for some of my classes. The TA directs and teaches the discussion session. He seems like the type of guy that I'd want...

How can I make my mum talk about masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I'm 13 year old girl and I masturbate frequently. I don't know if my mum knows, I want to tell her, but I can't! alternatively, how can I make her talk to me about it, without letting her know that I masturbate?...

16 wks pregnant and my husband's just told me he's fallen out of love with me. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I am 16 weeks pregnant and my husband told me after the last appointment that he has fallen out of love with me. I asked him how long he felt like this and he said just a few days. Can you really fall out of love in a matter of days? My husb...

Has anyone been to a clairvoiyant and what they told you helped you make a decision in life, or do you think it's a load of rubbish?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - Hi, just a quick question. I was on holiday a few weeks ago at a well known seaside resort and i went to see a clairvoiyant. I'd been to this area a couple of times and have always wanted a reading, and this time i plucked up the courage to go in. I...

I am just so outraged! Is he some kind of pervert? What should I do?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

16 September 2008 (F) - I recently made a horrific discovery that is making me questioning the man I thought I loved. While helping to clean out his room, I came across a stash of some 30 or more porn magazines and several DVDs stashed away. I was shocked. He told me ...