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Archived questions from: 5 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

How do I stop the obsession I have for my teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - well, where do i start? it all started in seventh grade. i fell in love. with my gym teacher. he's 26, and i am 13. he hates me, but i love him. he doesnt make eye contact with me, and i have a poster of him in my closet. i'm so deeply passionately ...

He hit me again today but I still love him. Please, someone tell me what to do...

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5141 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hey, i'm 19, I have been with my boyfriend for more than a year. About 4 months ago, he started hitting me. Nothing really to start with but it got worse. Today he burst my nose and strangled me, I think that it was probably the most terrifying ...

What was that attracted me about her? I was never attracted to her physically!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Hi there. I dated "her" for 4 months. LOVED everything about her but...when it came time for sex..I wasnt attracted.or was I ...cant figure it out!!.We did a few times a week after much effort on my part...I always had to think of other women ug...

It's really hard for me to socialize and it's depessing me. Please help me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Hello. Well, i need help to get my life going. I have hardly any friends and spend most of my time alone in my flat. I've never had a girlfriend (yeah I'm a virgin as well) and in mid-twenties it don't seem right to be this way. I just want life to ...

I'm thinking of getting an abortion but I would like some information about it first.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I am pregnant and considering having an abortion. I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 22. I drank and smoked reguarly the first month of the pregnancy because I didn't know I was pregnant (I'm a college student). I've probably already harmed the baby since ...

Does this guy have issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Very strange guy i am thinking. See what you think. Were in same yr at school, met up on facebook few weeks ago, met in person 2 weeks ago tomorrow for a drink in the day. I went out with mates that night, he txt saying pop round on way home, i ...

Should I keep on dating my teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I meet this guy as my teacher in highschool for one of my classes. Things started out simple enough where he was the teacher and i was the student, nothing more than that. but soon causal flirting from both of us started taking place, yet nothing ...

Is it ok for a 15-year-old to have sex with a 26-year-old?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) - Is it ok for a 15 year old male (me) to go out with a 26 year old women and have sex?? Any advice?...

How can I convince my boyfriend to have sex with me while I'm on my period?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - My sex drive seems to be at its highest when I have my period, but my boyfriend isn't keen on the idea of sex then because he doesn't like blood. I have never tried having sex on my period. Is it commonly done? What are people's views on it? I don't ...

Are there any suggestions that could help me get rid off my scars?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have a problem...not so much about a relationship but will be affected some day.... i used to self harm when i was a teenager and although i have completely recovered from them problems now i have a perminant reminder....i self harmed on my sto...

Is our age difference something to worry about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5923 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I just have a question. I am 18 and i believe i am falling for a 25 year old. I have known him a long time, we have been good friends. Is there something wrong with this? Is there too big of an age difference?...

Can the love and affection of two people, in the wrong place and time, jut don't work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I really am new to love. I have really had bad relationships. . . Then while trying to fish information about my cheating husband, I fell for his acquaintance. This led to a one year over the phone, six time physical encounter which was most ...

When he dumped me, I had realized how mean I was to him and wanted to change, but it was too late. What can I do to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I wonder if someone can help me. Me and my boyfriend had been together for just about 10 months. We had a lot of big things happen to us, that I think kept us stronger in the beggining of the relationship. He had totaled my car, and I also got...

Would a woman find a love letter touching even if she doesn't fancy the sender?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - Hi. Just wanted to know whether love is fickle. Allow me to go into slightly more details! If a woman receives a love letter from someone she fancies, she may well like him even more - correct? If the very same words came from someone she does not...

How do I stop my crush on my teacher?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - i am in love with my 58 yr old physical education teacher n i am abt to turn 15.i was totally depressed in my 9th grade when my boyfriend cheated on me,he helped me get out of the stuff.its been 2 years and we are now very good friends.we frequently ...

Help! He will kill me...how do I escape safely?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5921 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have a 16 month old daughter who has had to live with my parents because of the relationship i am in. I just dont know how to get out of it, he always tracks me down.. even in a womans refuge and when he is nice, he is lovely but my body cant cope ...

Am I a normal teenager?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I am a 19 year old boy. I am starting my 2nd year of university, and I know what this means to a lot of people "parties, sex, alcohol etc." But this doesn't concern me. When people are out going crazy Im at home studying. I recently asked a girl ...

What is the contraceptive coil like?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I am living with my boyfriend and we both have no STDs but we use condoms for contraceptive purposes. However, I do not like the feel of them as I find the way they crease uncomfortable. Plus I find them a hassle to always think about, they decrease ...

Why do lonely people looking for love stay single?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I'm nearly 25 and haven't had a proper girlfriend. I remember back when i was 15 and my best mate got with the girl i liked and how terrible i felt. i moped for weeks. then about a year later - i was seeing a girl (if you can call it that) for about ...

Will the condom stop working if he stays inside you after sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - i was just reading on one of the other questions 'Cosmo says sex should last 45 minutes. What do you do all that time' that it said: "Many couples like to stay coupled as the guy grows soft inside the girl. (You should NOT do this if you are rely...

Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I was talking to this guy and things got pretty hot and heavy for a while. Everything was great, then suddenly he became distant. Said he'll call and take 4 days to call me back. I took it as a hint he wasn't interested so I moved on. Then he calls ...

I can't seem to shake that feeling of emptiness in the pits of my stomach. Did I make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I cant seem to shake that feeling of emptiness in the pits of my stomach, like something is definetly missing. I have had this same hallow spot for the last 5 years after breaking up with the love of my life (at the time) he const...

Does this dream have any meaning?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5915 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I just transfered to a new school, and I feel great about it. Except for the fact that a certain person won't be there and never will. This particular person is my teacher, well, now ex-teacher. I start school tomorrow at my new school, going in...

My boyfriend is not affectionate to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5922 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for going on 4 years. I love him very much and i care for him deeply. I know that he knows my feelings for him. However, he rarely tells me that he loves me. The only time i hear it is when i say it first. And even then ...

I was molested when I was a child and this has given me insecurities about myself! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I agree that being molested as a child can screw up ones sexual idenity. Here is my reasoning. I was molested from the age of 12 to the age of 14. I am not gay but I do beleive that I am Bi-sexual. Which is very weird because I dont want to be ...

I now realize that I was was wrong. What can I do for her to believe this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - so i went out with this girl for 2 years 10 months. the first year and a half was great, but the rest just got worse and worse. she broke up with me about a month ago becasue i never treated her right, i was too controlling, and angry most of the t...

I am torn between loving two women.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5926 days ago

5 September 2008 (M) - I am in love with two women. One my wife (about to be five years) that I have been seperated from for about a year and a few months. The other I have been with for the same amount of time. Yes, I lost touch with my wife and the goals I wanted in ...

A lot of people think my girlfriend is a loser and she's afraid I'll leave her because of that, which is not true. What can I do to change her mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

5 September 2008 (?) - I'm dating a girl who everyone says she's a loser (which she isn't) and I'm being treated differently for it. When we started dating all my friends kept saying need to dump her. She put up with a lot of crap from everyone (like jocks, popular girls ...

Cosmo says sex should last 45 minutes. What do you do all that time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5925 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hi I have a question about sex. Basically, I just read in cosmopolitan that 34% of a poll of men thought the best length of time to spend having sex was 45 minutes. As a virgin, I was just wondering how you have sex for a length of tim eth...

An older neighbor has been molesting me for years. How can I heal from this expwerience?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - So well...when i was a little girl, i used to wake up earlier then everyone else, so a friend of the family, around my dads age would come and take me in the woods to look at the animals and he used to tell me that we had to hide and stay quite so ...

My guy thinks the kids from his prior marriage are enough, but I think I might want to have kids of my own.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5926 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm currently in a relationship with a man that has decided he doesn't want to have anymore kids. We've been together 3 years now and he has two children of his own from a previous marriage. I'm undecided if I want children yet, but have al...

My best friend's older boyfriend is trying to force himself on me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

5 September 2008 (F) - My bestfriends boyfriend is always flirting with me and trying to touch me and i hate when we hang out together and he is right there staring at me and one day we went to the movies together for her birthday i sat next to them and he sat in the ...