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Archived questions from: 13 September, 2008 (see latest in Big Questions category)

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Big Questions: Help and advice

I am more attracted to naked men but want to date girls...will I grow out of this phase??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - I am 14 and i wanna know why am i attracted to naked men before naked women. I have absolutly now feeling for men at all i just get horny to sum of them, i look at gay porn and masterbate to it but after that gayness takes a left i don't have fee...

Got into a fight protecting myself and my girlfriend, who was in the wrong?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - all im asking is who is in the wrong? and if it happend to you, would you do the same? if not, then what would you do differently? me and my girlfriend was on the front of my house speaking with 2 friends when 2 boys from 2 houses away w...

I phoned his ex-wife and things blew up. I don't know what to do now.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly four years. He was married 15 years ago and got divorced not long after. He has always stayed friends with (lets call her kelly). Anyway i have disliked their contact and i do not see the point as they have ...

Should I forgive my ex for ruining my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5916 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - About a month ago, I started talking with my ex-girlfriend again. We drifted apart due to living in different cities and her dealings with her ex-husband and her children. Since our breakup, I started dating my current girlfriend. Unfortunately, ...

I have lost faith in love....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I'm afraid to fall in love. 2 reasons. One, my boyfriend of 3 years passed away last year. But I still can't get over him. I think of him everyday, even when I'm out with other guys. Another reason is that I have no more faith in love anymore. C...

Do you think he doesn't want to know?? Should I text again??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - Hi all, Im 34 have 2 children and have been seperated from my husband for 3 months. i went out last weekend and met this guy there was instant physical attraction between us. We exchanged numbers and spent all evening together. he is 4 years young...

Do I have the right to feel hurt, used and angry or am I just being stupid??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - To summarise: (1) Met a guy through friends, 18 months ago. Fun, attractive, successful, gift of the gab but some issues as he'd been betrayed after long term relationship. (2) Fell head over heels in love with him and was pleased to hear ...

Any experience of feelings changing to a friend, from platonic to more??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - Has anyone got any experience of two friends, one in an unrequited love position, where the other eventually feels more back? Have you ever not initially felt that attraction then changed? My friend has just been dumped by his partner. I am 7 ...

Can this work or is this another route to heartbreak??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - hi i need help... i'm 16 and me and this guy, more than like each other, were in love, we have alreay been together twice but we thought it would be easier now we have left school. were not together yet although we have been seeing allot of each ...

My older boyfriend is very controlling. I can't wear makeup, email guys, or leave the house... he thinks I'm looking for sex. Is the age gap just too much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I'm having an issue....I have been seeing this guy (we'll call him Randy) for a while now, and I'm starting to wonder if the age difference is going to take a toll on our relationship. He's 41 and I'm lets just say younger. Well, heres the problem, ...

Is he metro or is he gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I just recently started dating this guy hes very metro gets his eyebrows done which is fine! has to clean all the time he has ocd with cleaning the hous everyday.. he says hes a virgin and everygirl he dated broke up with him cuz he wouldnt have sex ...

Is she legal or could I get in trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (M) - hallo ! i need some advice. so, please help me out here. i am 22 and my girl friend is 17 years and 9 months. she will be 18 next 3 months. we have been going out for 3 years. do you think it is illegal or I could be in trouble for it. just for...

How can I stop sabotaging my relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - Ok...I dated this guy for six weeeks but then just broke up with him...i didn't really have a reason and i had been slowly pulling away for about a week. I do this for all my relationships...i date them for a week or two and then i pull away....i ...

How do I know when to give up on this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I like this guy, and we've been in an on and off relationship for the past 4 years. I know the reason it didn'work out is because of how I acted. Now I think he;s moved on and is now dating my friend. Do you think I should just give up and move on? ...

My boyfriend is cheating and got another girl pregnant...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I met V when I was 15. At the time hhe told me he had a girlfriend and I had a boyfriend. Eventually I broke up with my boyfriend. He still had his girlfriend and was obviously not ready to be in a relationship with me so I moved on. I got pregnant ...

How do birth control pills work and when can I have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - so this may be a stupid question but yeah so i never used birth control before and im starting to use it, but how many times can you have sex after you take all the pills?! is it only effective once?! ...

Can I be pregnant if he didn't cum inside of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - had sex last night the 12 of september he didnt use condom but he didnt cum into my pusssy could i be still pregnant? please help thank you...

I keep having this dream about her! How do I stop the dreams? And do they mean I'm a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - I am still unable to get over my high school crush, and I am now entering my second year of college. When I was in high school there was this girl who seemed to be flirting with me non-stop. However, as a female myself, I was never sure if sh...

How do I tell my wife I don't want her to get a boob job?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

13 September 2008 (?) - My wife wants a boob job. She really thought bigger is better. I don't like the idea, because they look so fake. How can I tell her I dont want her to get a boob job?...

I'm falling for my boss, but I don't want to!! Any suggestions on how to get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5917 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - i've been working with my manager for 18 months now...and i've just realised i've fallen for him. At first i didn't like him he was blunt and ill tempered with me, but as time went on we started talking more and i relaised he has an amazing ...

Please help me, my marriage is falling apart.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5918 days ago

13 September 2008 (F) - My husband and I have known eachother for several years. We have been married about 2. We are busy people and tend to not have sex a lot of the time. Truthfully its gotten boring and he spends more time watching porn (and hiding it from me), then ...